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WaldoJ
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YES! 
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 26th Jun 2007 01:03 Post subject: |
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| hercules18 wrote: |  you guys are hilarious sometimes! |
not as hillarious as an impending court order...
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 26th Jun 2007 02:08 Post subject: |
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since only always 
I know too many lonely people who have their hearts broken everytime a girl/guy smiles at them and then walks away
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Bigperm
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| Posted: Thu, 28th Jun 2007 17:37 Post subject: |
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First. How did this turn into him stalking her?
Second. The friend zone is fucking BS. If you think your stuck in the friend zone, you just need better moves. I fucked a chick last sunday that i have been friends with for years.
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"I know too many lonely people who have their hearts broken everytime a girl/guy smiles at them and then walks away"
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Is this a joke?
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"stop falling for women that show you the least bit of attention. It don't mean they like you/want you. They're just being friendly nice. Not every woman that'll smile at your ugly mug will suck your cock in the bathroom stall while you two wait for your fillet steaks to arrive. Y'know..."
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This also better be a joke. Becasue seriously, this additude will insure your always single. If a girl is single, and looks at you and smiles, you have a fucking chance, period!!. Dont let any one tell you different. It doesnt matter what you look like, just be yourself, make her laugh.
And FFS, there is a line between being persistant, and stalking. Women what to be made to feel special. They want you to jump through hoops. Sure some will shit on you, and laugh. But just srug it off, get some fucking confidence, and move on.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Thu, 28th Jun 2007 17:59 Post subject: |
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| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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spankie
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| Posted: Thu, 28th Jun 2007 22:07 Post subject: |
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| Bigperm wrote: |
This also better be a joke. Becasue seriously, this additude will insure your always single. If a girl is single, and looks at you and smiles, you have a fucking chance, period!!. Dont let any one tell you different. It doesnt matter what you look like, just be yourself, make her laugh.
And FFS, there is a line between being persistant, and stalking. Women what to be made to feel special. They want you to jump through hoops. Sure some will shit on you, and laugh. But just srug it off, get some fucking confidence, and move on. |
amen to that. 
If they are single and they give you attention, you have to take a shot. She surely doesnt give every fucking male in the world attention. Or she is a cheap slut
If she tells you to fuck off and then you sneak up on her, then you are stalking. She'll let you know when she had enough. As long as she doesnt tell you explicitely, you are not staking...
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| Posted: Thu, 28th Jun 2007 23:43 Post subject: |
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| spankie wrote: |
If she tells you to fuck off and then you sneak up on her, then you are stalking. She'll let you know when she had enough. As long as she doesnt tell you explicitely, you are not staking... |
LOL, you know lots of stalkers don't have any contact with their victim until they assault them. Not having any contact with someone, yet shadowing their movements is stalking. Thats not the case here though as he's actually courting the girl.
Bigperm, I thought you were married or something? Anyway, a female smiling at a male does not mean he definitely has a chance. There is such a thing as context.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Thu, 28th Jun 2007 23:49 Post subject: |
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| AnimalMother wrote: | | There is such a thing as context. |
Not when you have a huge... .... ....
Wait for it.
It doesn't start with a D and ends with ick.
The word i'm looking for is...
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"leggo my _____ "
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| Posted: Thu, 28th Jun 2007 23:59 Post subject: |
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The first time crush is really stressful and I think a lot of people forget how hard on you it can be. You don’t have that experience scale to realise where you might be standing with that person. You can’t read their emotions as well. Plus that person might not have experience either and equally clueless. The blind leading the blind.
The first time you always get your heart broken and it hurts really bad. The second time around you are like “I remember this, I know this, yeeeeep” The third time it is a deep breath whilst exhaling the word “motherfucker” or “bitch” in your case. And and it’s onto the next.
I agree with bigperm that if I girl smiles at you, (Hell even if she doesn’t) you have a chance. As long as you talk to her, get HER number. If you are nervous with her get her MSN. You can always get to know her better in a safe environment. I am not 100% sure of your situation but you may be able to leave her a small note at work asking her to a small non fancy lunch, casual, or coffee.
I think lunch is better tho because everybody needs to eat and if she says no you can counter with “what? don’t you eat?, and she will kinda squirm and admit “yes” then you assertively say “so what's the problem? it is just a lunch?. At time point she will feel obligated to go and she will say “ok”. That is the foot in the door.
It snagged me
I think the key tho is not to put all your eggs in one basket. Keep your eyes open, ask out other girls. It is like fishing. You can’t catch any fish if your pole isn’t in the water. That line shouldn’t leave the water and stay away from expensive bait. That will just lead to high maintance flashy fish. You need girl next door fish.
Just remember that people can say things that they don’t always mean, like “I love you” in the heat of the moment. People can really REALLY like you one moment and not like you at all the next. Until you really really know someone don’t give them your heart.
I think only though time can you really know someone.
I would say I believe maybe 10% of what guys say to me in a new relationship. I try not to let compliments build me up too much because then I have further to fall. You feel like such an idiot when you hear some guy that you were with use the SAME lines on someone else.
I don’t know where this link came from but it has some really good material. (maybe posted here previously) . Please use it for good.
http://www.theplayersociety.com/
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| Posted: Fri, 29th Jun 2007 00:18 Post subject: |
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Are you seriously saying that a female can't smile at a male without allusions of attraction? Because thats ridiculous. You can smile at someone for a multitude of reasons, and not all of them mean you would consider dating that person.
When you're not in the least attracted to someone, but they have a fun personality, you can enjoy their company, yet it's noting but a platonic relationship. I admit though that alot of the time this is one sided in the lack of attraction.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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| Posted: Fri, 29th Jun 2007 00:46 Post subject: |
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Not sure if you are talking to me but nope I am not saying that.
I was agreeing with big perm about the smiling because if she has smiled at you at least she noticed you.
Of course a female can smile at a male without allusions of attraction. Sometimes it is in your job description. Like saleswomen, or waitress, shooter/shot girl. I just think that the potential is there with anyone. Even if they aren’t attracted to you in the beginning. You never know.
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| Posted: Fri, 29th Jun 2007 01:18 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | I just think that the potential is there with anyone. Even if they aren’t attracted to you in the beginning. You never know. |
This is true to a point, at least with males anyway. Sometimes you're not particularly attracted to a girl, yet when you get to know her, and she reveals her personality, you become a whole lot more attracted to her.
But it's extremely unusual for you to think of someone as ugly and then you become attracted to them because of their personality.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Jul 2007 04:12 Post subject: |
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A lil interaction goes a long way.  You can't enjoy the sun if you don't go out. You can't get your feet wet if you stay out of water... err.... Yeah
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Jul 2007 15:19 Post subject: |
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aaand?
You were freaked out cause she got the number of the cute guy she talked to... and you was like... wtf is she stalking me for? 
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Jul 2007 18:05 Post subject: |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Jul 2007 18:25 Post subject: |
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there's no problem keeping girls as friends. The more people you know the smaller the world gets and better you feel. When the world's huge, you feel lost and alone and all that bull shit
You just have to go with the flow, bro. If shit don't work out, move on. If it works, go with it. If she likes you, don't give her a reason to hate you. If they show interest in you and fancy you lots, go with it. Only wrong thing you can do is ignore it.
Unless you like to watch them bleed  then they complain.
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Jul 2007 18:53 Post subject: |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Jul 2007 19:08 Post subject: |
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Hahaha no I'm not
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| Posted: Wed, 4th Jul 2007 06:10 Post subject: |
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WaldoJ is the the bestest!!
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Wed, 4th Jul 2007 19:29 Post subject: |
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Yas Yas Yas Yas he is! <3 <3
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I gave her my number about a week ago, and she didnt call or even wrote a message....
