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WaldoJ
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Yah I kno.  But srsly  living it is sooo much better than describing it. Cause it ends up emo when you talk about it.  You can't form a sentence or come up with one word that will describe love. It's iffy. It's feels like jumping and falling for ever and constantly screaming. It's uncontrollable and at the same time you don't want it to stop. It's scary. It's fantastic. It's a fucking oxymoron! It's pleasant and chaotic. It's fucked up. But it's great. Living it... is the world. See... emo gay shit haha...
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 20:17 Post subject: |
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| ChinUp wrote: | | Martian123 wrote: | | Chinup's post is kind of neat, but certainly not the way life works. |
What do you know of life, when you replace your heart with a wallet ? you call that love ? I call that payment for services. You speak of the world, have you had a relationship with somebody who doesn't even speak your language, shared time together never speaking a word ? Have you felt the love of the earth, living alone in a place where your lover is the very land around you, the earth itself ? When a woman shares love with me she is on a planet all our own. Every morning a brand new life, every meal a dance of shared appreciation for everything that is life even the air we breathe. Precious, irreplaceable moments.  |
At no point did I say that you can replace your heart with a wallet, again you are making this shit up. IF you decided to actually read my earlier post, it says a gift is a great idea as long as it holds meaning, and I specifically stated money value IS NOT important. Meaning hell it could be free! Go figure eh?
I just wanted to point it out once again that you are a liar so keep the to yourself and please stick to facts, not assumptions or whatever else you happen to be doing.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 20:55 Post subject: |
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Martian123 .. why are you wasting time protecting yourself from shadows ? What makes you think love is only skin deep, only based on what you touch, smell, taste, hear, see ? How come you don't acknowledge the deeper variables of love, the courage it takes to let yourself feel loved, the insecurities & doubts you have to surrender to let yourself feel it, let your self love yourself ? After all if you hate yourself you cant love another or let another love you. No.
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 22:42 Post subject: |
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What ChinUp is saying about love here is really it, he nails it. Love isn't about rational reasoning. If you love someone and they love you back, you do not need any logic; your love just is, it exists between the one you love and you. You create your own universe and inside it there is (as long as you truly love eachother) no wrongs, no falsehoods. You need not concern yourselves with the scrutiny of the outside world. True love is beyond what platonic relationships many have, where "meeting parents, buying gifts, remembering birthdays" are the largest part of your cognitive senses. True love doesn't really concern itself with those things, it's an open highway between hearts.
Once you experience it, any other type of relationship will seem dull, bland, watered out.
I also think fisk should be unbanned.
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 23:20 Post subject: |
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| dominae wrote: | Love isn't about rational reasoning. If you love someone and they love you back, you do not need any logic; your love just is, it exists between the one you love and you. You create your own universe and inside it there is (as long as you truly love eachother) no wrongs, no falsehoods. You need not concern yourselves with the scrutiny of the outside world. True love is beyond what platonic relationships many have, where "meeting parents, buying gifts, remembering birthdays" are the largest part of your cognitive senses. True love doesn't really concern itself with those things, it's an open highway between hearts.
Once you experience it, any other type of relationship will seem dull, bland, watered out. |
Qft
If your not loving you need to be focusing on teaching yourself how to love yourself. let yourself feel loved accepted appreciated, do that & a counterpart will come your way without you even having to try. The more your able to love yourself the better you are able to hold the love state with a partner. Its all down to your courage to feel loved, loving another is just a byproduct. The entire universe is doing everything it can to help you, disregard the doubting humans, they are just static.
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Jul 2008 01:12 Post subject: |
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Wait a minute, in this thread you say:
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The more your able to love yourself the better you are [...] |
And in another you say:
| Quote: | | Idiocy ie self obsession is the error & the ignorance of mankind |
*scratches head*
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Jul 2008 01:44 Post subject: |
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Well.. we ended up staying at her place because it was raining.. up on the bed with the chillout stream playing from www.181.fm and a track called something like, I am dreaming, by some female vocal called rossama something like that.. anyway.. I just said I love you, straight up. She kissed me and said I love you too.
After I came home she messaged me and said me saying that tonight is like someone answering a prayer.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Jul 2008 06:11 Post subject: |
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 lust doesn't = love
Seriously... this one girl i dated... we were on her bed listening to music and just watching each other breathe and staring into each other eyes with our arms wrapped around each other... then nibbles on the ear ensued and such and this and that and this and that... Yah it's fun. Yah it's exciting. And I got the love bit too. and a call when i got home and a txt message and an msn messasge thanking me. that ain't luv. THat's just two people in a room who find each other attractive and sexual tension is too great to ignore.
Ish not luv. Ish lust But lust can lead to love after a lot of drinking
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Jul 2008 10:19 Post subject: |
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Heh, I called you out again, and you slither like a serpent. ^_^
I also think fisk should be unbanned.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Jul 2008 12:04 Post subject: |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Wed, 9th Jul 2008 18:47 Post subject: |
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| kaeye wrote: | You have no idea.
I dont use girls like you, nor was I/ever will be a male prostitute so your opinnion to me is as valid as hitler on human rights Besides that we didnt have sex afterwards
Yes chinup, the Chilled stream.. The song was Bossboosa - Dreaming :
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=667DISuGuLk
It seemed to feel perfect for the moment!  |
Hahaha. Wow. The things I did stop me from having a say in the matter? Wow. What I did, I did because some people were desperate/lonely/alone/ and had nobody to talk to. So call me whatever you want. I regret sleeping for a payment of some sort (not just money)... but i don't regret the fact that i was there for some people who needed someone to actually show that they care who they were and what they did.
And I know what love is. I know what lust is. K. A whole lot of people mistake the two. A whole lot!
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| Posted: Fri, 11th Jul 2008 01:36 Post subject: |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Fri, 11th Jul 2008 02:28 Post subject: |
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is it any good?
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| Posted: Fri, 11th Jul 2008 03:18 Post subject: |
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the movie yeah its
great , never laughed
so hard
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Fri, 11th Jul 2008 05:22 Post subject: |
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dvd screener is out download it!
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| Posted: Fri, 11th Jul 2008 06:38 Post subject: |
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Screeners suck *thinks to herself for a moment* To play back on the computer is somewhat ok tho.
Just to save me from looking, Who did it? Quality ok? I am ok with a small audio hummmmmmmmmmmm. Not like I am going to burn it.
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| Posted: Sat, 12th Jul 2008 23:32 Post subject: |
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there isn't such thing as love, pure hormones and impulses flying to your brain and out. if speaking strictly from medical viewpoints.
i've accepted this fact, and lived accordingly.
besides, lets be honest - i couldn't stand one person for more than, lets say, a year. if you are being with her almost 24/7. it's called boredom. human beings need differences; it'd be like living in a closed source world:0
even statistically speaking, 75-80% of married people admit they have cheated one another. so, in reality i'd say it's close to 100% as many are afraid to answer honestly..
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| Posted: Sat, 12th Jul 2008 23:51 Post subject: |
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what you feel is hormones flying, as i stated..
i've felt it once, but i was OVER it.
i dnno, it felt great, controlling your own mind/body:]
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| Posted: Sun, 13th Jul 2008 19:09 Post subject: |
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| cnZ wrote: | what you feel is hormones flying, as i stated..
i've felt it once, but i was OVER it.
i dnno, it felt great, controlling your own mind/body:] |
are you saying all a person has to do to be in love with somebody is inject them & themselves with the proper hormones ? Or are you saying peoples hormones are out of whack when they are not in love ?
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Sun, 13th Jul 2008 21:40 Post subject: |
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_(scientific_views)
| Quote: | | Biological approaches tend to treat love as a brain-generated physiological process like hunger or thirst. |
and i tend to think naive people and/or hippies believe in love as a way of magical phenomenon happening in your body
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| Posted: Sun, 13th Jul 2008 22:44 Post subject: |
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exactly!
but fresh loved couples tend to think it's something "magical", out of human anatomy reach..
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