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Phluxed
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Regardless of the turnout, if you had approached the situation like a mature adult, you would've saved yourself countless hours of stress and fatigue.
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| Posted: Tue, 19th Aug 2008 14:48 Post subject: |
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Well kaeye I'm sorry that it ended like this. From how you talked about her on here you seemed to really care about her. I'm sure you will find someone who is a match for you someday and your still young and have plenty of time to find that person.
What you should do now is down a few with some buddies at a bar or club talk about how bad women can be and end up going home with 2-3 beautiful intoxicated women all for yourself. After a night like that you'll be glad your single again.
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SycoShaman
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Location: Toronto, Canada
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| Posted: Tue, 19th Aug 2008 15:33 Post subject: |
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| NuclearShadow wrote: | Well kaeye I'm sorry that it ended like this. From how you talked about her on here you seemed to really care about her. I'm sure you will find someone who is a match for you someday and your still young and have plenty of time to find that person.
What you should do now is down a few with some buddies at a bar or club talk about how bad women can be and end up going home with 2-3 beautiful intoxicated women all for yourself. After a night like that you'll be glad your single again. |
aye, I second that  |
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helvete
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Cohen
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Location: Rapture
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| Posted: Tue, 19th Aug 2008 21:52 Post subject: |
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Im not the casual sex type. Never have been.
I have to be in a relationship to have/want sex.
Makes me less male perhaps in the eyes of some but I dont care, each to their own.
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Cohen
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Location: Rapture
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| Posted: Thu, 21st Aug 2008 03:14 Post subject: |
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Well.. we had a really long talk tonight. It seems she finally 'popped'. She basically exploded her feelings on msn finally to me.. seems she loved me but because she had some doubts about our personalities and lifestyles of current (work, driving, time tables) and herself being a free spirit feeling tied down whenever she gets with guys she decided she should end it but didnt know what to do. She apologised to me for ending it over text and basically begged that the 5 years we have been friends not be ruined and no hard feelings to go on. Further talking and i put my point across for an apology and some explanation is how it came about.
She says she cried a lot over it and had some big decisions to make and wants to stay in touch because we had a good relationship while it lasted and a good friendship prior. I made her understand that I was angry about the way she dealt with the breakup but agreed life is too short for hard feelings and grudges.. She then went on to say she never wanted to hurt me and has my best interests in mind and wanted to know if my dad (were close and she knows) had anything to say on her and worried he had negative things in mind now. I explained it all to her that life shall go on and that the past cannot be changed blabla...
Well you get the picture now, I finally feel closure that I wanted. She also strangely set her profile status to "single" and then the next option below to "seeking friends and networking" which was previously set to dating and relationships.. I think she seemed to take this harder than me. I have barely heard from her a few days and now she pours out to me on msn. we agreed the boat has indeed sailed and relationship would never work despite a lot of feelings, and I must say Im glad we havent parted on bad terms. I guess after time I will forgive her for dumping me and leaving me in the dark for a few days from just a text message but.. meh..
I think I need a break from relationships now, I can't deal with any more hurt for a long while. When ever I do meet a girl who is really, really nicely cut out for me, I cant wait for it btw, I will try again. Ive now had 2 long term relationships; 1 was with someone I had nothing in common with, that lasted 2 years, the other with a friend who i had everything in common with, which lasted 5 months, So I guess having a lot in common really doesnt make that much difference.
She is indeed a free spirit so to speak.. a rolling stone in life, a rolling stone gathers no moss. that is what i told her. she said she may settle down a lot later in life...
Guess this thread is kind of done with now. Strange how quickly your life can change, eh?
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