He wouldnt be punishing the kids, i mean i wouldnt have liked to live with my father, after all he destroyed my parenthood and family by cheating, to live with his cheating persona i would have lived in anger and depression. More now that i have to carry my house alone. Also to live with the guy who made your mom destroy your family by cheating with him maybe? wow, must be a pain in the ass i wouldnt have lived through that in peace.
Personally i have no idea how i could cope with something like this. I can only say that you know whos wrong and whos right, stand proud and be strong, as many say, you are now free in a way, hopefully you can give the best outcome for ur kid and also create a better path for yourself. Sucks to live through something like this, specially after marriage and kids, i cant fucking phantom this...
So sorry for what you are going through. :< My advice to you would be to listen to your gut and realize that her betrayal is not about you, but all about her own brokenness. She has betrayed you and the kid, has provided no morals whatsoever and only cares about what makes her happy. That's so selfish.
Maybe I'm being harsh here, but I don't think you could ever trust a person like her, and if I were you I would push for a divorce because the image of what she has done will never leave your mind...
You will likely be cycling through a roller coaster of emotions for a long time to come, but take things one day at a time and take care of yourself and the kid mate. Good luck!
Get the best lawyer you can and take the kids in the divorce. It's the worst thing you can do to her.
This is dumb and selfish. Don't punish the kids.
LOL talking about dumb. What is he supposed to do? Stay married to her? Someone is gonna get the kids its better he does instead of the cheating mother.
Get the best lawyer you can and take the kids in the divorce. It's the worst thing you can do to her.
This is dumb and selfish. Don't punish the kids.
LOL talking about dumb. What is he supposed to do? Stay married to her? Someone is gonna get the kids its better he does instead of the cheating mother.
I would keep her but just punish the kids.
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Get the best lawyer you can and take the kids in the divorce. It's the worst thing you can do to her.
This is dumb and selfish. Don't punish the kids.
Tbh its more of a punish if they stick together. Since children see more than the parents usually belive they will notice the change and proberbly experience lots of arguing and such. Staying together cos of kids is imo the worst shit you can do.
shitloads of new stuff in my pc. Cant keep track of it all.
Get the best lawyer you can and take the kids in the divorce. It's the worst thing you can do to her.
This is dumb and selfish. Don't punish the kids.
LOL talking about dumb. What is he supposed to do? Stay married to her? Someone is gonna get the kids its better he does instead of the cheating mother.
You made it sound like she isn't allowed to see the kid again. I ask you why? She made a mistake, ok .. but the kid will still like her and wants to be around with her. No idea how old the kid is, but I doubt it would understand why he/she can't be with the mother, even if she would deserve that ... oh whatever ... not my fucking problem, but I hate it if everyone just looks at the ex and tries to hurt them .. no matter what and totally ignoring the wishes of the kids.
While I understand I don't think the kids are best judges of which parent is better for them. I wouldn't leave that decision up to them. If they were we wouldn't have a judge deciding it...
Of course the mother would be able to see them, at court appointed times.
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