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 Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 12:04 Post subject: |
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With limited time we have? Besides her staying night like once a week, driving around is all we can spare. We do get a day or two on a weekend tho.
And its not like she is going out every day. Its like once per month.
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Neon
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As someone who is also in a long-term relationship (>5 years) I'll tell you this- if she suddenly started going out for beers and whatnot out of the blue I do find it weird. There's nothing wrong with what you're feeling and I totally understand.
What you have to do is talk to her. Tell her that you feel awkward when she's going out with some guy. Tell her that maybe you wouldn't feel that weird if you went out with them too (even if you don't like going out [I don't either], there's nothing wrong with going out for a beer or two a couple of times).
If she doesn't want you to go with her and gives some bullshit reason for it, that's more worrying IMO and should warrant a longer talk.
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sausje
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Yep as Neon says, be open and straight forward. Surely after 7 years you should be able to talk like that with each other, especially if something is bothering you.
Just tell her that you don't really like that, that you rather not have her going to that kind of parties.
But don't do nothing and keep overthinking, it fucks the situation up even more as overthinking mostly leads to bad thought and even worse after that, nothing good can come out of it.
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 12:39 Post subject: |
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| red_avatar wrote: | To be fair, I'm a lot more of a dick on forums than I am anywhere else  Mostly because I'm quite stubborn when it comes to certain arguments. So you can't really tie an online persona directly to the RL person - especially since we, in RL, all wear a mask of some sorts to conform to what society expects us to be.
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You can after the years we are talking of, would it be the full picture: no. But like in life we never have a full picture either: due to the inhibitions one has over there.
On topic:
You should really think it over how you are dealing with this... because I don't really see the relationship lasting for longer if you keep going like this.
You're both young, inexperienced and you will have some crisises and if you are going to make it through those you need open communication and putting some work into it.
So talk to her already... |
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 12:40 Post subject: |
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konkol84
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 13:06 Post subject: |
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don't you think that it's strange when she gets angry if you're asking questions that she does not have answers to or is uncomfortable to answer? Just look back at your relationship and see if she always used to behave this way
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 13:10 Post subject: |
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Talking about that site... well that was a lame answer. I live half of the day on the hump and I couldn't talk more than half an hour about it if I wanted to
So guess she was too annoyed at you to actually talk.
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Nalo
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Nalo
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 13:20 Post subject: |
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Well mine knows nfohump and even remember some users
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Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
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garus
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 13:31 Post subject: |
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 13:52 Post subject: |
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Well she just recalls some of Your nicknames
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Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 14:01 Post subject: |
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konkol84
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 14:14 Post subject: |
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- KC honey why are you crying?
- Coz Morphineus is picking on me again in the internets ;(
- That motherfucker Morphineus!
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 14:22 Post subject: |
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Tsss, picking... I care enough to give my unfiltered view! 
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LeoNatan
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| freiwald wrote: | guess these days u have to turn muslim to get a real woman. all those bitches aren't even worth it to communicate cause they will do what they fuck they want.
man i hate those wannabe strong independent woman! (even better with short hair ffs) |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Apr 2015 15:26 Post subject: |
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| LeoNatan wrote: | | freiwald wrote: | guess these days u have to turn muslim to get a real woman. all those bitches aren't even worth it to communicate cause they will do what they fuck they want.
man i hate those wannabe strong independent woman! (even better with short hair ffs) |
Inbred retard. |
Wow leo, I know you're jewish and all but stop that muslim hate! it's sickening! Reported! Learn to live in peace!
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Nalo
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couleur
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| Stormwolf wrote: | | couleur wrote: | I'm in a relationship for 13 years, and in that time, we were living away from each other for 6 years while on university. And she has gone out with her gfs and other guys I know and guys I dont know so many times I didnt even count. But its the same with me. We often go out with each other and without. I really dont care who she talks to and what the guy says. Why should I? If she really thinks that other dude is so much better than being with me, well, she's free to go.
This topic. These people.
"Oh, she went out and talked to some guy." Why why GOD, MY RELATIONSHIP IS AT AN END!!
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Well, he might be a bit over jealous, but your feigned carelessness isn't all that much better tgh. |
What are you talking about?
"Enlightenment is man's emergence from his self-imposed nonage. Nonage is the inability to use one's own understanding without another's guidance. This nonage is self-imposed if its cause lies not in lack of understanding but in indecision and lack of courage to use one's own mind without another's guidance. Dare to know! (Sapere aude.) "Have the courage to use your own understanding," is therefore the motto of the enlightenment."
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