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Posted: Tue, 12th Apr 2005 20:02 Post subject: Fucking hell! |
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Tell me if you think this shit is fair or not.
I am in Media Studies, we are suppose to be filming but me, my guy friend, and my friend thats a girl were just messing around. Then she goes to throw something out and me and him take off for a little bit yknow, a little joke. We come back in 3 minutes she's not there anymore. We search the school and finally find her in half an hour. It was my other fucking friends idea but yet she is ONLY and STILL pissed off with me. It's apparently because she loves the other guy so he takes advantage of that shit but im getting all the fucking heat! Today it pissed me off past the point, she is trying to make me miserable now. Is this fucking fair? She isnt even pissed off at the other guy AT ALL even though we BOTH did the SAME thing. I am wondering if I should just fuck off this person since its not worth it or try to maintain our friendship.
The man who gives the insult writes in the sand. But for the man who receives it, it is chizzled in stone.
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SycoShaman
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Posted: Tue, 12th Apr 2005 21:25 Post subject: |
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lol man
thats women for you
for real
who knows why they do what they do....fuck, most of em are timebombs and doesnt take much to trigger them lol
in my experience anyway, I may just have had bad luck and found all the crazy bitches...but i doubt it.
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Posted: Tue, 12th Apr 2005 21:44 Post subject: |
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my guess is the river is red stay well away 
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Posted: Tue, 12th Apr 2005 22:16 Post subject: |
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Posted: Tue, 12th Apr 2005 22:38 Post subject: |
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talk to her or get the guy to like animal said and if she's still being a twat punch her in the vagina.
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Posted: Thu, 14th Apr 2005 01:54 Post subject: |
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piggymouth wrote: | AnimalMother wrote: | It doesn't sound like a healthy friendship at all.
Ask your guy friend to talk to her, and ask her to get off your back. If he's a real friend he'll do it, and she should listen considering she 'loves' him.  |
I've got the same problem with this girl at work. She talks to everyone in the building and not to me. I have talked to her friends about this and they have reported back to me that "everything was cool". But, she still asks like there is a problem. It's just me and I can't figure this out.
I have done all that I can (without typing it in full on the forums) to resolve the situation and she still won't come around.
There's only so much you can do at work to make piece with someone, without taking it to far. If they believe anyone's story they will listen to her and I'll lose my job. Bitch!!! |
maybe she likes you and shes really shy? like elementry school? lol
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Posted: Thu, 14th Apr 2005 05:07 Post subject: |
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So you think that this girl "Likes Me"? Is that the reason she gives her attention to others in the office and not me?
Might as well add this into the story. About a year ago, I came on to her. Pretty strong too..and it was harder than I realized. Before I knew what had happened, I scared her more than trying to be just friends. After it all happened, I went up to her and apoligzed for my actions. Told her I was really sorry and that I didn't want this to affect our working relationship. She accepted the comments and we went on.
Till that day she has done what I have described above and I blame the following incident on it. Am I wrong to assume this? Even tho I said I was sorry and admitted to being wrong? She doesn't have a problem with anyone in the office but me. Several things that I notice support these facts.
First I work in the computer (IT) department. She won't call me for support and it's my job. When mail comes into her area, she'll have someone else deliever it. A group of us usually get together for lunch on Friday's. She set's the meeting place, but she will never e-mail me directly. I have one of my other (guy) friends include me on the e-mail.
I know that I really need to talk to her, but this is very hard to do. Especially when you work in the same building but differnt departments.
They say that (love) relationships at work are a bad idea. Truth is, I like her but now that I've done what I've done, how do I patch the hole?
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Posted: Thu, 14th Apr 2005 05:21 Post subject: |
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Sorry to say this dude but it seems she's not interested. The way she specifically avoids you (after you came on to her) is a classic behaviour pattern when someone feels uncomfortable around another person.
Consider this situation, a girl comes on to you really strongly, and you really don't fancy her, but you work in the same place. You wouldn't want to give them the wrong idea would you? So you avoid them, limit your interaction. You don't dislike the person, you're fine with them. But in order to spare their feelings you avoid them.
Best advice, is forget about her romantically. In time things should get back to normal, just don't come on to her again. 
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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Posted: Thu, 14th Apr 2005 14:09 Post subject: |
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Girls get angry based on their principles. Guys get mad based on the logical fact. And they tend to get angry on the one that they know best.. So maybe she just knows u better. And therefore punish you.
Hush, hush
Thought I heard her calling my name now.
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Posted: Thu, 14th Apr 2005 14:30 Post subject: |
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Yes!!
I would have to say that I'm being punished alright. Thanks for the advice from everyone who replied to this, even tho I wasn't the one who started the thread.
I have been told by many co-workers that she is "Very Independant". As for coming on to her again, I have no intention of making the same mistake twice. I just wish that I hadn't screwed up the first time, but I did and it's a mistake I'm just going to have to live with.
As much as it hurts... Life goes on...
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Posted: Fri, 15th Apr 2005 00:12 Post subject: |
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piggymouth wrote: | Yes!!
I would have to say that I'm being punished alright. Thanks for the advice from everyone who replied to this, even tho I wasn't the one who started the thread.
I have been told by many co-workers that she is "Very Independant". As for coming on to her again, I have no intention of making the same mistake twice. I just wish that I hadn't screwed up the first time, but I did and it's a mistake I'm just going to have to live with.
As much as it hurts... Life goes on... |
Here's me putting $5 that the girl in your avatar is the girl in this conversation...
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Posted: Fri, 15th Apr 2005 00:13 Post subject: |
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Accelleron wrote: | piggymouth wrote: | Yes!!
I would have to say that I'm being punished alright. Thanks for the advice from everyone who replied to this, even tho I wasn't the one who started the thread.
I have been told by many co-workers that she is "Very Independant". As for coming on to her again, I have no intention of making the same mistake twice. I just wish that I hadn't screwed up the first time, but I did and it's a mistake I'm just going to have to live with.
As much as it hurts... Life goes on... |
Here's me putting $5 that the girl in your avatar is the girl in this conversation... |
lol
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Posted: Fri, 15th Apr 2005 00:45 Post subject: |
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Accel edit your post to 5 hundred billion dollars 
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