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 Posted: Fri, 13th Jan 2017 04:50 Post subject: I swear to god im not nice, im stupid |
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I wont talk about it per se. But i always try to be the nicest, sharing, truthful i can be and i feel, but today, what transpired today, is not that, im just fucking stupid, im stupid because i believed i could help and i could share what ive lived to help someone else but no, all i did today was be stupid.
This is the definition of stupid. And i learned my lesson. Once again, one of those stories for the darkest side of our lives that noone will hear apart from who saw it.
Now im gonna sleep, i have a lot of respect to gain back to myself... I think i have to rethink how i share my life with others.
I need to be slapped this weekend, fast. Oh and HBD to me, what a closure holy fuck. Ill never forget this.
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sanchin
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Location: Poland
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jan 2017 07:25 Post subject: |
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Yeah, I think being a dick is just easier. One has to be strong to be nice.
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jan 2017 07:32 Post subject: |
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Irony, everytime im nice, i get a weird reception, nothing bad just... a bad reception in general, if im a dick everything goes fucking top notch, for some fucking reason, i know rejection affects people's behaviour towards you in a positive mild way but today literally i got told that being kind of a dick, would have worked better.
Really? No, fuck that. Sadly thats not even the main issue of yesterday, im fucking retarded. Never again sonnnn, never again.
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couleur
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jan 2017 08:00 Post subject: |
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Its not about beeing nice or a dick. Its about doing what you think is right and staying by your principles without thinking about what others think of you.
If you think about beeing a dick to make others like you more you're just focusing on them again instead of how and what you want to be.
Happy birthday !
"Enlightenment is man's emergence from his self-imposed nonage. Nonage is the inability to use one's own understanding without another's guidance. This nonage is self-imposed if its cause lies not in lack of understanding but in indecision and lack of courage to use one's own mind without another's guidance. Dare to know! (Sapere aude.) "Have the courage to use your own understanding," is therefore the motto of the enlightenment."
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jan 2017 08:20 Post subject: |
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Couleur is right, stop trying to be nice or a dick and be yourself. If people take issue with that, fuck them off. I remember when I used to "try" be x y z.. It never works out and ultimately always costs you.
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Nalo
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Nalo
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jan 2017 11:15 Post subject: |
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Morphineus
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Jan 2017 17:25 Post subject: |
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That's also why you aren't being yourself.
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| Posted: Sat, 14th Jan 2017 01:13 Post subject: |
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| Morphineus wrote: | | That's also why you aren't being yourself. |
+1
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| Posted: Tue, 17th Jan 2017 07:26 Post subject: |
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| Morphineus wrote: | | That's also why you aren't being yourself. |
If you refuse to bend at all, you won't get far in life.
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| Posted: Tue, 17th Jan 2017 09:06 Post subject: |
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| Stormwolf wrote: | | Morphineus wrote: | | That's also why you aren't being yourself. |
If you refuse to bend at all, you won't get far in life. |
Compromising isn't the same as not staying true to self though.
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| Posted: Wed, 18th Jan 2017 04:13 Post subject: |
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| Stormwolf wrote: | | Mr.Tinkles wrote: | | Stormwolf wrote: |
If you refuse to bend at all, you won't get far in life. |
Compromising isn't the same as not staying true to self though. |
Depends what you're compromising. But this has become a pretty philosophical  Guessing Lopin has done something bad though since he doesn't want to talk about it. But as long as he learns! |
Not bad... im a pretty good person....  . I gave someone my trust, then they pulled me into a very inconsiderate (cuntish) situation, i should have walked away then, but i suddenly let go, i did something "nice" to help out, gave my opinion, tried to help them, but the whole thing from outside was just fucking retarded, i should have walked away, it was uncalled for due to how cuntish the situation was, in the end i felt stupid, not nice. Anyways they tossed my help/opinion aside to boot.
Im always nice to people, i like it, doesnt pain me, doesnt cost me, but i really, really, gotta fucking learn to give it to people who appreciate it in the minimal sense, not people like the ones i gave it to that day.
Seriously ill never tell the things that happened that day to NOONE, EVER. Jesus fuck.
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| Posted: Wed, 18th Jan 2017 05:06 Post subject: |
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Did you give your trust to a family member, maybe an uncle? And then he betrayed you in the worst way?
Where did he touch you?
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| Posted: Wed, 18th Jan 2017 09:04 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Thu, 19th Jan 2017 05:45 Post subject: |
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@Lopin18
Come on, dude, what if it's family?
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