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jackbomb
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 Posted: Sun, 28th Mar 2021 17:05 Post subject: Got a new job, lost gf |
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While I'm writing this text I'm leaving my city to work in a transport logistics agency, with zero experience on the matter and with 150+ clients. I came recommended for my english skills and they said they'll give me training while I'm starting. Work will consist of managing a fleet of in-house & freelance truckers, as well as providers. This is second biggest company in my country, and the salary is juicy. I need the money after a year of big ups and bigger downs. For instance, my two and a half year missus decided to leave the flat where we're living and she's making her own house in her workplace, it's a long workshop with enough space. I'm fucking sad, I'm depressed to see her emptying our flat. I cry more often than not (don't bash me too hard, humpers) and now with the relocation for the new job I feel more lonely and confused as ever. Money will be a plus, and I will have the flat where we were living for myself in the weekends (1h30min train) but it stings a lot to come back to an empty house. We had a dog as well, her dog. After two years and a half I considered the dog as mine, too. Can't get a new dog since I'll be here and there, so...
TL;DR: feeling like shit cause changing city for new unexperienced job and gf leaving.
Any closer to home experiences? I need good advice, men.
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| Posted: Sun, 28th Mar 2021 17:12 Post subject: |
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Some good things have their side effects and you can always have new beginnings regarding your love life. If she can't be with you through this, she's not the right person for you and you should probably go fuck a bunch of girls to get over her and then look for someone that meets your life's demands. And making more money will certainly make that easier than ever.
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jackbomb
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| Posted: Sun, 28th Mar 2021 17:33 Post subject: |
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| Spoiler: | daaamn, song rocks. Thanks! |
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tonizito
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Location: Portugal, the shithole of Europe.
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| Posted: Sun, 28th Mar 2021 19:08 Post subject: |
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Title says "lost gf" but the OP makes it seem that she "only" moved out to another place 
Anyway, if its the former, maybe you'll meet some nice trucker laydeeeee at work 
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Nalo
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| Posted: Sun, 28th Mar 2021 19:41 Post subject: |
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1 and 2 are still amazing. |
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jackbomb
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| Posted: Mon, 29th Mar 2021 00:39 Post subject: |
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Yes, breakup. Wanted to title the post with "gaining/losing" motive (because that's how I feel rn) but maybe I've failed with wording.
To be honest breaking up and leaving town and starting an alienating position makes me feel fragile, timing is the worst. But I hear ya, and I listen to The Smiths and I concur with the happy/sad feeling. Thanks all, means a lot.
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| Posted: Mon, 29th Mar 2021 04:18 Post subject: Re: Got a new job, lost gf |
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| jackbomb wrote: | We had a dog as well, her dog. After two years and a half I considered the dog as mine, too. Can't get a new dog since I'll be here and there, so...
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So you used her for the dog?, and now your in no position to look after another. Well, look at it this way, 2 dogs lost, but think of all that money you'll be earning, and never have to share it with any of the dogs  The futures bright! 
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| Posted: Mon, 29th Mar 2021 09:55 Post subject: |
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| jackbomb wrote: | Yes, breakup. Wanted to title the post with "gaining/losing" motive (because that's how I feel rn) but maybe I've failed with wording.
To be honest breaking up and leaving town and starting an alienating position makes me feel fragile, timing is the worst. But I hear ya, and I listen to The Smiths and I concur with the happy/sad feeling. Thanks all, means a lot. |
First of all, congratz on the job! And sorry to hear about the missus, but I guess there are other issues than just your new job that led to this situation. I hope it's the best for both of you Do you own the flat or is there a particular reason you are not moving permanently to the city where your new job is? |
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jackbomb
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| Posted: Mon, 29th Mar 2021 19:04 Post subject: |
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| PumpAction wrote: |
First of all, congratz on the job! And sorry to hear about the missus, but I guess there are other issues than just your new job that led to this situation. I hope it's the best for both of you Do you own the flat or is there a particular reason you are not moving permanently to the city where your new job is? |
Thanks Pump, appreciated! The job doesn't help much, today was my first day and I suck at retention with these technicalities. I don't know if my future is bright, too soon to say but as a creative person, as a teacher by vocation, this seems quite steep. Anyway, missus left me and left the flat because taking-life-as-it-comes issues, she's much younger than me and she has a shiny future in front of her. Who am I to slow her down? She has my support. For whatever she needs. Makes me fucking sad because we made a HOME and we still love each other, but not in that way. Now I'm dragging along with this new job, new place and new town. It's a small town, the company inhabits 40 minutes walking from the town in the middle of nowhere. I guess this helps with the alienation. Won't move definitely from the city flat, it's cheap enough to pay it now while I do a living around here so I can crash there in the weekends. Thinking of the future, a brighter and better and colorful future indeed. That's my balsam today.
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ixigia
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Mar 2021 03:23 Post subject: |
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I'm the worst possible adviser on mending sentimental matters and an even poorer dispenser of life tips so I'll just limit myself to wishing you all the best mate. Chin up! (just like the avatar)
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jackbomb
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Mar 2021 12:07 Post subject: |
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| ixigia wrote: | | I'm the worst possible adviser on mending sentimental matters and an even poorer dispenser of life tips so I'll just limit myself to wishing you all the best mate. Chin up! (just like the avatar) |
Grazie Ixi, today chin is a bit upper emotionally, if not more confused by all the tasks I should do at work. Derpy chinned up! <3
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