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-=Cartoon=-
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 Posted: Sat, 1st Oct 2005 17:30 Post subject: One Night Stands... |
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what you think about them ??
In the last 3 years i have had about.. 5 girls who i have slept with.. all were my girlfriends at the time...
the other night i had my first one night stand with this girl i meet at a club.. i was djing and well she came up and was dancing behind me the entire night and well.. things went from there..
Anyways i woke up the next morning.. turned over and she was there... and man i felt FUCKED.. like i felt real empty.. it was real weird.. cause normally when u wake up u have a cuddle etc.. but this was just some random girl who meant nothing..
I dont think ill be doing that for awhile... i guess i *need* the emmotional side aswell
So have you had them.. do you have them .. and what do you think about them ??
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| Posted: Sat, 1st Oct 2005 17:39 Post subject: |
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never had one night stand, dont want one either
it has nothing to do with feelings, only with needs on a saturdaynight :/
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| Posted: Sat, 1st Oct 2005 18:43 Post subject: |
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| Voodoo-child wrote: | never had one night stand, dont want one either
it has nothing to do with feelings, only with needs on a saturdaynight :/ |
yeah, kinda agree with that. |
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nerrd
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| Posted: Sat, 1st Oct 2005 19:36 Post subject: |
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I'm with you guys. I'm not a fan of the random partner sex, I'm a one woman man. Nothing to do with some personal beliefs, just with the fact that the parters that would be willing to have a one nighter are not somebody that I would choose. But ... I did have one nighters with close friends. Sometimes spontenious, sometimes planned, but always with someone I knew well.
btw. I don't knock casual sex at all. If It's safe and mutual, I dont see nothing wrong with it. Live and let live.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Oct 2005 01:43 Post subject: |
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Meh, i go with the flow...
If I go out and happen to meet a chick that wants to fuck...well, if she's hot and i like her in a pure lust type of way, then its done deal.
On the other hand, there's times when i go out and just wanna chill and no pick up girls, I get hit on, and turn em down ya know?
All depends on the mood...I enjoy meaningful sex alot more than lustful sex, but I was married for a while and am kinda sick of being in a serious relationship, atleast for a year or 3  But then again, if the right girl comes along, who knows?
It all depends on my mood and what i feel like doing.
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Oct 2005 14:34 Post subject: |
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I love those one night stands.
When I go out to a bar or so, I alway find my self a girl for 1 night.
And you know what makes it so good?
Next day, if she hasn't left allready, I kick her out so I can play my games again.
Ans she doesn't get my phonenumber offcourse. But that's because I'm married!!
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Bigperm
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Oct 2005 17:51 Post subject: |
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I have about 3 in my life and i have left feeling dirty or like i did something wrong everytime, im not a big fan. Not to say that i dont like friends with benifits.But one night stands are not my bag.
Oh man Cartoon, i totally know that im fucked feeling in the morning. I hate it, i havent had a one night stand in a long time. Even after you drop her at her home or car etc. you still have that feeling. A bunch of my buddies are ALL-Star players, fuck different chicks all the time (Cant even count how many chicks they been with). I dont know how they do it, to each his own i guess.
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TheNerd
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javlar
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Oct 2005 21:43 Post subject: |
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I enjoy one-nighters for sure. Some times it can be pretty akward when you wake up but what the hell.
I have the worst story though, this happened about three years ago:
I went home with this chick and we slept at her place and she lived at home with her parents. Anyways we got jiggy a big part of the night and finally fell asleep. I wake up from the sounds of an accordian (spelling?) and her family singing happy birthday. I panic and just hide under the sheets. Her family comes into the room and continues to sing as the girl wakes up. Her mom says "Oh did Nina sleep over tonight?" and then i feel i have to pop out and say something. Her mom says something like "Eeh, oh.. that's not Nina, well.. eeh, we'll be back."
After that i was so embaressed and felt i just had to get out of there so i get my stuff together and we went down to the door. And her whole freaking family and a lot of relatives are sitting at down there. When i finally get out of there i find myself having to walk about 5km home.
And to top it all of the sex wasnt all that good anyways 
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Oct 2005 22:30 Post subject: |
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| javlar wrote: | I enjoy one-nighters for sure. Some times it can be pretty akward when you wake up but what the hell.
I have the worst story though, this happened about three years ago:
I went home with this chick and we slept at her place and she lived at home with her parents. Anyways we got jiggy a big part of the night and finally fell asleep. I wake up from the sounds of an accordian (spelling?) and her family singing happy birthday. I panic and just hide under the sheets. Her family comes into the room and continues to sing as the girl wakes up. Her mom says "Oh did Nina sleep over tonight?" and then i feel i have to pop out and say something. Her mom says something like "Eeh, oh.. that's not Nina, well.. eeh, we'll be back."
After that i was so embaressed and felt i just had to get out of there so i get my stuff together and we went down to the door. And her whole freaking family and a lot of relatives are sitting at down there. When i finally get out of there i find myself having to walk about 5km home.
And to top it all of the sex wasnt all that good anyways |
guy, u should have played it off like it was planned and joined in the singing |
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TheDamned
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Oct 2005 00:29 Post subject: |
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one nights rocks!!! we have plenty of them
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-=Cartoon=-
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Oct 2005 00:34 Post subject: |
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| SoSBigperm wrote: | I have about 3 in my life and i have left feeling dirty or like i did something wrong everytime, im not a big fan. Not to say that i dont like friends with benifits.But one night stands are not my bag.
Oh man Cartoon, i totally know that im fucked feeling in the morning. I hate it, i havent had a one night stand in a long time. Even after you drop her at her home or car etc. you still have that feeling. A bunch of my buddies are ALL-Star players, fuck different chicks all the time (Cant even count how many chicks they been with). I dont know how they do it, to each his own i guess. |
Woke up.. look over.. im like "oh wtf" .. i called her a taxi and for about 20 minutes we just sitting there not saying anything to each other lol.. the most weird funny shit ever.
When im at a club etc.. i have no problems hooking up with a random girl... getting her number then meeting up for a drink a few days later etc.. that happens heaps.. infact thats how i meet a few of my girlfriends..
But sex on the first night.... just does not feel right to me lol
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bxrdj
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Oct 2005 01:11 Post subject: |
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when I was younger ,it was always fun doing this during the college days, since that was the time to explore and have fun ... now that im 25, i love my girlfriend(soon to be wife) very much and dont really have any interest in the one night fun anymore ...
but yea ... good times, I agree with the morning deal tho ... when you feel kinda awkward about the whole thing and you just want her to leave hahaha
fuck ...
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Oct 2005 01:28 Post subject: |
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| TheDamned wrote: | | one nights rocks!!! we have plenty of them |
who the hell is "we" ?
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Oct 2005 01:52 Post subject: |
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im 24 and im still virgin so , all these stuff is unknown to me , i cant help u .
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 00:04 Post subject: |
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| weird0 wrote: | | TheDamned wrote: | | one nights rocks!!! we have plenty of them |
who the hell is "we" ? |
Well I guess his wife joins in on them.  |
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 00:12 Post subject: |
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| Starforcefan wrote: | | im 24 and im still virgin so , all these stuff is unknown to me , i cant help u . |
your not from earth right 
or soooooo ugly that even the fat bitches dont want ya  |
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 00:14 Post subject: |
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Well maybe his beliefs are different then yours?
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 00:26 Post subject: |
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One nighters are fine, but I prefer a different flavor of sex.
Not friends with privileges, but girlfriends. It's kind of tough, but you can usually hook up 2-3 girls at a time and never have them find out about each other. It's all about being smart and managing your time well.
/currently working on hooking up my #2, will probably stop after #3. Never have 2 girls that you share 1 class with. I learned the hard way (3 to 1 in 20 mins, anyone?)
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 00:34 Post subject: |
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not for me... i've had alot of offers, but didn't take any... badg bunnies will do anything to get into your pants... but i just don't feel right about it...
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 01:49 Post subject: |
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i've had a few 1 night stands but never with some1 I haven't known. They're usually drunken nights or girls that have taken advantage of me (not that I complain  ) Havin a gf and an emotional connection is MUCH better than those 1 nights I can barely remember. Still... it aint gonna stop me when I get to Uni 
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_SiN_
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 13:51 Post subject: |
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| Armin.Van.Buuren wrote: | | Well maybe his beliefs are different then yours? |
ok not screwing around I can understand that..
but 24 and virgin... damn that is sooooo 1855 |
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Phluxed
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| Posted: Fri, 21st Oct 2005 22:28 Post subject: |
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I lost my virginity when i was 14. I've only had a single one night stand, and it was very depressing looking back at it. It left me feeling very wrong.
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Sun, 23rd Oct 2005 15:00 Post subject: |
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why is it called a one night stand .. when in fact it is a one night lay ?
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 24th Oct 2005 03:24 Post subject: |
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| ChinUp wrote: | | why is it called a one night stand .. when in fact it is a one night lay ? |
oh god...did u read my father's cheesy joke book or something? |
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ChinUp
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| Posted: Mon, 24th Oct 2005 11:04 Post subject: |
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there must be a reason .. maybe some couple outside a bar doing it standing up thought of it .. who knows ..
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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TheSaint
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| Posted: Mon, 24th Oct 2005 14:30 Post subject: |
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