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 Posted: Sun, 2nd Dec 2007 13:40 Post subject: Disrespect |
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Generally speaking I don't rant, in this case I must. Before you guess, a tonne of Whiskey
doesn't help.
I shouldn't get into detail, but I would ask that anyone who is in a situation where they decide to not speak to another person seriously consider what they are doing. In my case my, hmm Girlfriend? ex? who knows' I want to say the following, I've always been supportivel caring a virtual rock! and I understand how upsetting recent events have been, but to not be given any indicators as to if things are ok and need I time to to concerned.
I shouldn't type out anything further, thanks for that time.
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Dec 2007 14:17 Post subject: Re: Disrespect |
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| Martian123 wrote: | Generally speaking I don't rant, in this case I must. Before you guess, a tonne of Whiskey
doesn't help.
I shouldn't get into detail, but I would ask that anyone who is in a situation where they decide to not speak to another person seriously consider what they are doing. In my case my, hmm Girlfriend? ex? who knows' I want to say the following, I've always been supportivel caring a virtual rock! and I understand how upsetting recent events have been, but to not be given any indicators as to if things are ok and need I time to to concerned.
I shouldn't type out anything further, thanks for that time. |
Question: Why is topic title Disrespect? I dont see anything here that has anything to do with disrespect.
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i think his gf stopped talking to him. maybe he has bad breath?
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Dec 2007 18:33 Post subject: Re: Disrespect |
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| Nakitu wrote: | | Martian123 wrote: | Generally speaking I don't rant, in this case I must. Before you guess, a tonne of Whiskey
doesn't help.
I shouldn't get into detail, but I would ask that anyone who is in a situation where they decide to not speak to another person seriously consider what they are doing. In my case my, hmm Girlfriend? ex? who knows' I want to say the following, I've always been supportivel caring a virtual rock! and I understand how upsetting recent events have been, but to not be given any indicators as to if things are ok and need I time to to concerned.
I shouldn't type out anything further, thanks for that time. |
Question: Why is topic title Disrespect? I dont see anything here that has anything to do with disrespect. |
That was the Whiskey! my bad!
I haven't been told much other than basically wait and see I need time kind of thing.
I feel that I should be given more respect than "wait and see who knows" people have
lives, and maybe moving on would be best. Furthermore the situation that caused this
issue has nothing to do with me, women.
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Dec 2007 20:18 Post subject: |
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I feel for ya man. been on the receiving end of things like that alot.
Ask for clear declaration and then thats that
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| Posted: Sun, 2nd Dec 2007 20:54 Post subject: Re: Disrespect |
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| Martian123 wrote: | | Nakitu wrote: | | Martian123 wrote: | Generally speaking I don't rant, in this case I must. Before you guess, a tonne of Whiskey
doesn't help.
I shouldn't get into detail, but I would ask that anyone who is in a situation where they decide to not speak to another person seriously consider what they are doing. In my case my, hmm Girlfriend? ex? who knows' I want to say the following, I've always been supportivel caring a virtual rock! and I understand how upsetting recent events have been, but to not be given any indicators as to if things are ok and need I time to to concerned.
I shouldn't type out anything further, thanks for that time. |
Question: Why is topic title Disrespect? I dont see anything here that has anything to do with disrespect. |
That was the Whiskey! my bad!
I haven't been told much other than basically wait and see I need time kind of thing.
I feel that I should be given more respect than "wait and see who knows" people have
lives, and maybe moving on would be best. Furthermore the situation that caused this
issue has nothing to do with me, women. |
Mate. I know its very hard, but im kind of in your GF's situation (obv not anywhere near as tough as she/you have it) being the one who is asking for time. Trust me it feels much better when I can sit and think to myself without hearing from her. In this case it would do your GF good if you dont contact her, at least for a couple of days. The more time that goes by, the better and closer shel get to talking to you. Trust me 
GL.
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 01:07 Post subject: |
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Thanks all, normally I wouldn't have shared anything like that, and certainly not done so poorly if I were too.
I know what I must do, I appreciate the support shown to a new person here.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 01:11 Post subject: |
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don't be running about slittin' throats now! Ya hear! 
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 02:05 Post subject: |
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waldo <3
@Martian123
I would just give her space. Let her do the things she needs to. Sometimes people have 'too many people at them' and can't think straight. I am sure she is giving the cold shoulder to a few people in her life atm, not just you. Take care.
| SycoShaman wrote: | I feel for ya man. been on the receiving end of things like that alot.
Ask for clear declaration and then thats that |
You can't ask for a clear declaration if someone is still trying to figure things out. Your situation is a lot different. You have declared to her about 2 times now and married her both. Things just happen, stress, prob money, and emotional states. Move forward because you can't do this a 3rd time. I wouldn't even date if I was you. I would just go out and have a good time and enjoy myself. I would worry about just myself.
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 02:21 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | waldo <3
@Martian123
I would just give her space. Let her do the things she needs to. Sometimes people have 'too many people at them' and can't think straight. I am sure she is giving the cold shoulder to a few people in her life atm, not just you. Take care.
| SycoShaman wrote: | I feel for ya man. been on the receiving end of things like that alot.
Ask for clear declaration and then thats that |
You can't ask for a clear declaration if someone is still trying to figure things out. Your situation is a lot different. You have declared to her about 2 times now and married her both. Things just happen, stress, prob money, and emotional states. Move forward because you can't do this a 3rd time. I wouldn't even date if I was you. I would just go out and have a good time and enjoy myself. I would worry about just myself. |
Interesting point of view, I suppose it's something I will have to consider. I have given
her space, I never even wondered if she has been avoiding others I guess I don't have any way to know these things, I have been avoiding our mutual friends as I don't wish to discuss anything with them, at this time. I have been "busy." I suppose with work giving
me a hard time as well, it's been difficult to process. Thank you for your view point, although I am not sure it's entirely accurate, not knowing the full situation, it has however
given me something to think about.
Syco, from what pistol said you are having it tough bud! good luck to you.
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syco is a mans man! he'll come through!
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 03:10 Post subject: |
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I never EVER get emotional! 
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 03:37 Post subject: |
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shush you!
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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 I'm super hungry! I got nothing to eat. Yesterday I cooked a meal for this girl (it was ok  ) and i came home to have some left overs but it was ated already.
And today I got into an argument with a bitch. I so need a cupcake to cheer me up! Im going out for a smoke  roads are slippery as fuck too.
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 04:50 Post subject: |
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it's not comfort food. It doesn't bring me comfort.
It's just something to take my mind off of things. A lot of things.
Fuck!
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 06:26 Post subject: |
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I MADE CUP CAKES!!!
I have been trying to keep busy so today I made cupcakes.
Yesterday it snowed so I shoveled of the driveway.
Today it snowed more. It was a lot thicker this time and I shoveled it again. Couldn't even tell I did it the first time. It took me 1 hr and I gave up, I was too tired. I stick it in 4 wheel and I can get out anyway. I AM STILL MOBILE in da snow. I have almost 80% of my Christmas shopping done. I have cleaned out all my drawers. My spare bedroom.
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| Posted: Mon, 3rd Dec 2007 06:57 Post subject: |
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As long as the cupcakes perform a function go for it!
I have Ransacked my house, I have it completely cleaned out, changed around I can barely recognize it. Exactly what I needed, now that my plans had been changed for me. The change is good I am hoping.
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | waldo <3
@Martian123
I would just give her space. Let her do the things she needs to. Sometimes people have 'too many people at them' and can't think straight. I am sure she is giving the cold shoulder to a few people in her life atm, not just you. Take care.
| SycoShaman wrote: | I feel for ya man. been on the receiving end of things like that alot.
Ask for clear declaration and then thats that |
You can't ask for a clear declaration if someone is still trying to figure things out. Your situation is a lot different. You have declared to her about 2 times now and married her both. Things just happen, stress, prob money, and emotional states. Move forward because you can't do this a 3rd time. I wouldn't even date if I was you. I would just go out and have a good time and enjoy myself. I would worry about just myself. |
that sounded a little cold pistol, the way i read it anyway. its all good tho, i no you meant no offence.
Im not dating. Im chillin out for a while, hanging with friends and stuff on weekends, working. Making sure im good to go before i get with anyone and have to handle the stress that comes along with it.
I just wanna meet new people, a new crowd so to speak. One different from the one i have now. Good people but bad people at the sametime.
I wanna be around good people
As for taking her back a 3rd time. Nope, its done for good this time. I dont know what kinda sob story i get in a few months you know? fuck her and good riddence (sp?) to the crazy cold bitch |
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| Posted: Tue, 4th Dec 2007 03:10 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | waldo <3
@Martian123
I would just give her space. Let her do the things she needs to. Sometimes people have 'too many people at them' and can't think straight. I am sure she is giving the cold shoulder to a few people in her life atm, not just you. Take care.
| SycoShaman wrote: | I feel for ya man. been on the receiving end of things like that alot.
Ask for clear declaration and then thats that |
You can't ask for a clear declaration if someone is still trying to figure things out. Your situation is a lot different. You have declared to her about 2 times now and married her both. Things just happen, stress, prob money, and emotional states. Move forward because you can't do this a 3rd time. I wouldn't even date if I was you. I would just go out and have a good time and enjoy myself. I would worry about just myself. |
that sounded a little cold pistol, the way i read it anyway. its all good tho, i no you meant no offence.
Im not dating. Im chillin out for a while, hanging with friends and stuff on weekends, working. Making sure im good to go before i get with anyone and have to handle the stress that comes along with it.
I just wanna meet new people, a new crowd so to speak. One different from the one i have now. Good people but bad people at the sametime.
I wanna be around good people
As for taking her back a 3rd time. Nope, its done for good this time. I dont know what kinda sob story i get in a few months you know? fuck her and good riddence (sp?) to the crazy cold bitch |
I read that statement as cold as well, but I think it's just an issue of posting online versus what you can do verbally and elaborate.
I may be completely off base since i don't have anything other than vague details but I tend to agree, you can't ask for something from someone who doesn't have what you are looking for. (Even though you would deserve to have it)
The fact that you are moving on is a good thing, meeting new people will help, staying
in the old routine will retard the healing process. There are many ways to skin a cat you know!
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| Posted: Tue, 4th Dec 2007 10:51 Post subject: |
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this thread is too long to read, can anyone post some retard pics so i can atleast laugh?
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are girls with massive tits a dime a dozen ?
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