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congrats and good luck! 
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I really hope I will be leaving home soon. I want my own place so bad, but I dont want to live in england anymore. I need lots of money to move. I just spent my last 500$ on a presant for the GF too. I guess I wont be moving anytime this year at least..
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Posted: Fri, 6th Jun 2008 19:58 Post subject: |
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newcastle isnt that bad much better than nottingham in regard to gangs of kids hanging around its very rare i see any gangs on street corners up here and i aparently live in one of the rougher areas.
people who live in nottingham probably dont realise how bad it is until they move to a different city
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Well Ive never been one for getting out and about and I guess if I hadnt met my gf online I would still be living at home for who knows how long! Plus no doubt it was cheaper living at home with the parents! lol
May the NFOrce be with you always.
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Must admit to you it sounds like you moving into another mothers home. Without any experince living alone it could be difficult for you to avoid getting dependent on her & thus becoming a burden. something you & she don't want Imo. I suggest you look into going to the gym or lining up some hobby or sport that will help you maintain your own authority in such a motherly climate. Especially if its her digs you will be living in. Don't want to piss on on your parade mate, just words to the wise from somebody who has made his fair share of mistakes. Plus I suggest you get to know her kids as soon as you can, so long as the kids cant depend on you for emotional support she will have no choice but to stay in mother mode & thus wont be able to be your woman. Its complicated, i know, but when you realize women need to know their children are sorted before they can even begin to be open to their man it makes sense.
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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nouseforaname wrote: | just remember to do your share of the cooking, cleaning and laundry and things will be fine  |
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Yah thas pretty much true. If you share the responsibilities well enough you won't have any trouble adjusting. But if you grew up with your mum doing everything for you... then you're fucked big time. I'm still w/ my parents. or they're with me. I dunno yet. I own the hole we're living in... but i dunno still if i'm living with them or they're living with me... as i have no balls to kick them out and they're my parents and they're pretty much own me
anyway I lived by myself for couple months in detroit. Location didn't matter. What mattered is being able to take care of yourself. Same goes with living with a girl or a partner. If you know how to take care of yourself and not just rely on the other person, then you'll be fine. Once you can take care of yourself efficently you can take care of another person. That means cooking, cleaning, laundy, bills, etc. Just don't expect the girl to do everything cause she's a woman. It's a known fact, and it's true so stfu everyone, that men are better cooks than women Same with other things. Mainly cause we're all trying to impress the other sex so we try really really really hard so we can get inside that very speshul hole 
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Posted: Fri, 13th Jun 2008 04:55 Post subject: |
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Good luck bud 
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