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Karmeck
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 Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 07:43 Post subject: But what if I dont want to stay out off it... |
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...I wanna have some fun.
So the guy from this post
http://www.nfohump.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=851091#851091
Now have a problem with his girlfriend.
Friday:
The part of the fight I get to listen to is the guy explaining at this party we are at that she get pist because he don't sit with her all the time in the living room at the part but instead spend allot of time in the kitchen talking to some of the other guest-s (including this girls http://www.nfohump.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=839421#839421 mother). I stay the night over as dose she (but in the bed with the guy of this thread).
Saturday:
Morning, 10 am phone rings and he start sending messages to the one calling, she get's pist once again (she keep it to her self but tells me later). We stay at his place watching tow and a half men and they seem happy again, cudgeling and she sucking his finger. Later I get home but not long till we are going out again on a concert. Later in town before the concert we get divided he and she eat at different places, but the in portent thing here is that the gu... I just gonna give them names:
The guy: Olle
Olle's girlfriend: Olga
The girl that treat me like crap but don't really any more she just freezes me out: Mia
Mia's boyfriend: Anders
the in portent thing here is that Olle stay at the place Mia eats. Later we learn that Anders is sick so there will be no concert. We are all still divided but decide to meet up at the station, we get there and Olle is pist, don't say why, but then I did not ask and Olga seem sad. They get home in a car with Mia. I say a bit longer with some girls from class.
Sunday:
We have earlier planned to go in to town to have a photo shoot day, it's rains but we do it any way. Olga comes along without Olle, the first thing she ask me is that if i think she spent enuf time talking to Mia back at the Friday party, as I was in the kitchen most of the time I say I cant answer it. We take some photos and spend most of the day just walking around. It gets late and we decide to go home. At the buss stop I bring up Olle being pist and here it comes.
Olga is a girl that needs attention, what he gets that down to is jealousy towards Mia, but it is true Olle and Mia cuddle like mad, like more than friends. So I can understand Olga here. And then after the Friday party apparently Mia have told Olle that she thinks Olga don't like because she did not talk to her enuf. But then Mia is a girl that it is hard to talk to and on top of that it is the girl that steals you're time with you're boyfriend away from you. Sad part here is that all of the time Olle takes Mia's side all the time and it is never his fault. Olga even tole me that one time she cried and Olle did nothing to comfort her.
We get home, I walk her home (get her cell number on the way home), hug and then good bye.
Monday:
So now a new day arise and I can now see Olle with new eye's as Im on Olga's side on this. So what to do, talk to Olle, talk to Mia? Or get a third party involved there I can talk about the 2 sides of this story.
Anyone with previous experiences that wanna share their knowledge? And yes she is hot.
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| Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 09:54 Post subject: |
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geez , kids
can't you learn that teen relationships are just bullshit?
go to a party , find a drunk girl or get her drunk, get laid and get out
not worth getting sad or emo about.
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| Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 09:56 Post subject: |
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Yeah utterly pathetic in an adults eyes, you will overcome this sense of annoyance in time Karmeck.. And I mean that with the utmost respect 
But if your not a teen then I think you need help ...
defo grade 3 shit.
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 14:23 Post subject: |
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Don't get involved, if you want my advice just stay neutral.
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| Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 15:09 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 16:19 Post subject: |
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Phluxed
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| Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 17:18 Post subject: |
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| swingman wrote: | | Secondly, advising a swede (if he is one) to stay neutral is like teaching the french how to make wine. |
BAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA. Epic.
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| Posted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 17:31 Post subject: |
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bwhahaha, wtf? this is utterly ridiculous what emo/sympathy shit karmeck generates
yes
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 07:04 Post subject: |
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They broke up. More info after todays school.
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 07:11 Post subject: |
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ok thanks for keeping us appraised of this difficult and complicated situation that in no way relates to us
Sense Amid Madness, Wit Amidst Folly
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 07:14 Post subject: |
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You have not understanded yet that I use the forum as a diary?
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 07:44 Post subject: |
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Can't.. wait.. any.. more.. need.. updatez.. please.. fast.. now.. NOW! N O W! FUCK!!!! I SPILLED MY MEAL!!!!!!!
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 07:46 Post subject: |
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You guys are harsh. 
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 08:47 Post subject: |
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haha, awesome....teen romance...
Like a soap opera, horrible scenarios that exceedingly funny
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 19:12 Post subject: |
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 19:37 Post subject: |
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Trying to fix it
Monday (part 2)
So we meet as usual at the train station, here I meet...let's call her Sara (the girl from this thread: http://www.nfohump.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=48214 ) every day before school so even if she turned me down we can still hang out. We meet Olle not far from the station, he is down and kinda pist on Olga. As I had been talking to Olga I started to take her side in it all, for some reason that was not appreciated. But then I was kinda a smart ass about it. He talked about it in school with some ppl and I was with him, he talk about how every thing was crap between them after the weekend. I said a few thing to much and he snapped at me.
Later in class he ask me to follow him out, he say he is sorry he snapped at me, he talks about how he feel betrayed by Olga for her speaking to me and not him and that is why he is so down.I try to explain to him why she talks to me and not him, she have had a hard time talking to boyfriends before, being hurt and betrayed. I had also seen Sara having a hard time with Olle being so down so I advice him to talk to her as well about why he feel like he feels and so he dose, did not make her happier but I think it was good for her.
Later that day I start sending messages to Olga, asking her how she feels, as she was skipping school. It goes on and on about how she feels, but bottom line is that they were both hurt but non of them want t listen to the other one or just cave in. I got her to start talking to Olle, she dose and tells me what he tells her, Olle say things have been moving on to fast and that he wants a brake. It ends with them splinting up. During this talk I try to get her to talk to Mia so they can make up, as Mia is sad and at the same time pist that Olga has come in the way bestrewn her and Olle. Think it was futile but i tried.
At the same time I was also talking to Mia over msn (she stayed home as she was sick), she was as usual not easy to talk to, she would not talk to Olga but she was open to Olga coming to her and say that she was sorry. She also got pist at me for talking about things that is not really my business and maybe she is right.
Happy anyway
Tuesday
A new day arise, I meet Sara at the station and Olle is no were to be found, we do meet him however later during the way and he is happy, nice to see. We seated our self at some tables in school. Olga comes in and sit down at the other side of the room. Later then it is time to go in, Olga stop in the stair and tell me she is sorry she did not say hello, she say it was because Olle was there with me, I tell her I understand and then I give her a hug. Rest of the day I just keep smiling at her and she smiles back. Not much more happens that day, I hug her again then it is time for her to get home. I follow Olle home and we take a pizza and talk some about Olga.
I feel good about this, feels good to have someone to care about, to bad they both seem to be over it. She is a nice girl would not say no to that.
| kaeye wrote: | | :lol: why do people keep saying teen. Hes 22 :lol: which actually makes it funnier. You should have been having this problem 5 years ago when you where a teen like the rest of us :P did you hibernate or something? |
As a teen (16-18) I was in a class whit only guy's (indoor bandy school) and in first to ninth grade I was bullied. So yes I agree, what Im living throw now is something I should have been done with as a teen.
And it's not me having a problem, Im just observing.
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 20:00 Post subject: |
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Just to be clear, Olle dose not have anything going on with Mia (that sounded teen-ish), she is just a sad person and other then her boyfriend Olle is the only one she feel she can talk to. Mia got kinda sad then she saw what she did to what Olle and Olga had.
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Karmeck
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Oct 2008 02:15 Post subject: |
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Well, to be honest I havent read everything but from the jist of it, it sounds like a few ppl are shit talking. Instead of playing little games of who said what and who did this, confort the bastards like an adult. Find out what the deal is, resolve it and move on. Simple man. Kids play games because they arent sure of themselves or of how to resolve the situation, adults dont and by 22, you should have the experience to resolve something like this...not trying to be mean or anything bud, but come on, it sounds like a teen soap opera.
Personally, when i was your age, I didnt have time for shit like that. Still dont. I confront and resolve, simple, straightforward and effective
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Wed, 8th Oct 2008 18:26 Post subject: |
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So it seem now that Olga have a few ppl that don't like her, that being ex's and their friends. But I don't want them to think bad of me because Im on her side. I try to understand her and they just see a problem.
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