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 Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 15:47 Post subject: Girl @ Gym |
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Theres this chicka at the gym Im kinda interested in, been glancing at each other for a few weeks now.
Problem is I dont know what to say to her, its strange cause i can usually come up with something funny or honest when im out hitting on someone but this girl is different.
Worth mentioning is that i have a stutter which normally isnt that bad but with her my tounge just freezes. Dont know why she makes me like this, maybe I want her so bad I dont wanna screw up which only makes me more nervous and my fear of stuttering worse.
Any ideas what you can say to a girl working out at the gym? Shes kinda serious about working out, I see her almost everytime im there and im at the gym 2-3 times a week.
Its driving me crazy and I dont wanna come of sounding like a looser or do a normal pickup line as its the gym and not some club.
Ideas, thoughts anyone else on this forum with a stutter whos experienced a similiar situation?
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 16:04 Post subject: |
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This forum should really open a "Relationship issues" section 
OT : Go talk to her and be yourself ffs!  The more you wait and think about what to say, the worst is gonna come out of your mouth...
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 16:15 Post subject: |
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ask her out on a rape .. i mean date 
meh , i suggest to do it when you're more tired cause you won't be nervous enough to stutter but DON'T sound tired , she might tink you're bored or some shit
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 16:16 Post subject: |
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Go there, grab her hips and say something like "If you lean this way, you'll train <those> muscles better" then she'll either:
a) Slap you and call you a creep
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b) Blush and open herself for some talk
Either way, you solve your problem.
I also think fisk should be unbanned.
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 16:19 Post subject: |
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Ill just walk up to her and flex my chest, she'll fall like a stone.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 16:21 Post subject: |
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Man, just be yourself. If it doesnt work, no biggie. If a woman cant accept you for who you are, there is no point in wasting time on here.
If you have to do things to impress her and all that shit, it isnt worth.
Most women prefer guys who are themselves. Who display a level of confidence
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 16:25 Post subject: |
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Yeah I know, everything you guys say is true. Its strange how some people have such an effect on you.
Makes me wounder if shes maybe one of those worth keeping.
Ill think of something, its just those first few words that matter, after that things usually go smoothly.
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 18:21 Post subject: |
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fuck that.. if she is in the gym more than you she is either a fitness freak which would bore the fuck out of me or she is there so she gets all the attention. I mean I like to work out and keep fit but there is a line, 3 times + a week is a little too much in the gym for my liking. Not my cup of tea at least.
But each to their own. How about something simple? one day forget your bottled of water or something and when shes resting ask her if she has any water.. then just see how she reacts, if she seems positive just kinda joke your way into a conversation, ask her light questions etc. For you might find out she even has a BF.
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 18:33 Post subject: |
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| kaeye wrote: | | 3 times + a week |
shit , me and my bro went like 6 time a week
now i retired for a week or 2 , but my bro still goes and does it since about a year or more and joggs 3 kliks a day + more abs and push-ups at home
i don't think it's exagerated
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 18:34 Post subject: |
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Lol i tought youd write she might have a gf, kaeye.
And no shes not a female version of Arnold or something like that, shes very fit and has a great body.
That bottle idea is interesting might try that one. Only problem is we have a sink with running water which you can drink from directly so seems a bit odd to ask her, but ill try something along those lines.
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 18:43 Post subject: |
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| Acer wrote: | Lol i tought youd write she might have a gf, kaeye.
And no shes not a female version of Arnold or something like that, shes very fit and has a great body.
That bottle idea is interesting might try that one. Only problem is we have a sink with running water which you can drink from directly so seems a bit odd to ask her, but ill try something along those lines. |
meh , try asking her for how long she's been workin out there , then compliment her on her looks
or ask her/compliment her about something you've noticed
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 19:06 Post subject: |
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The best way ive found when meeting women at gym's is asking them for advice. For example, ask her "say. im having problems toning my stomach, is there any excercises you can recommend that could help me?" And then she'll provide you with the info then ask "Would you mind demonstrating them for me, I dont wanna pull a muscle or anything"
And boom, you got your foot in the door. The next step is to try and see if you can work out with her you know?
Small, casual steps man.
Worked alot for me when I used to hit the gym
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 19:16 Post subject: |
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Thnx for the advice guys really interesting reading different thoughts on the subject.
I find it more and more that people in sweden arent that flirtatious compared to other countries, maybe its just me but hitting on someone at the gym seems like such a strange thing over here.
But I liked sycoshamans approach, ask her for advice and then take it from there.
On a side note, I've seen her talking to alot of guys at the gym and I mean men not so many women. Shes very outgoing and has a great laugh.
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 19:27 Post subject: |
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Yeah man, go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? She says fuck off? if she does, who cares? Find another woman
You know how many women have told me to drop dead? lol if only I had a nickel my friend.
But occasionally, you make a connection. And you never know when thats gunna happen.
A big key is tho, is to let her know your interested in her. Subtlely, eye contact, try not to have her notice your checkin her out even tho you are. Simple little signs that let her know your interested you know?
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 19:42 Post subject: |
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Let us know how you get on. And pics.
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 19:45 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Man, just be yourself. If it doesnt work, no biggie. If a woman cant accept you for who you are, there is no point in wasting time on here.
If you have to do things to impress her and all that shit, it isnt worth.
Most women prefer guys who are themselves. Who display a level of confidence |
He said it himself, he lacks confidence - and women likes confidence. If he is himself, he'll be a virgin for the rest of his life.
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 19:52 Post subject: |
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Its not excatly a lack of confidence more not knowing what the hell to say. Like my mind is blank when I see her.
Just trying to be relaxed and casual usually works best. And not show Im that interested right of.
Hard to explain, good thing is we're at the gym so I wont have to think about sweating etc
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| Posted: Wed, 3rd Sep 2008 20:56 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Man, just be yourself. If it doesnt work, no biggie. If a woman cant accept you for who you are, there is no point in wasting time on here.
If you have to do things to impress her and all that shit, it isnt worth.
Most women prefer guys who are themselves. Who display a level of confidence. |
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| kaeye wrote: | fuck that.. if she is in the gym more than you she is either a fitness freak which would bore the fuck out of me or she is there so she gets all the attention. I mean I like to work out and keep fit but there is a line, 3 times + a week is a little too much in the gym for my liking. Not my cup of tea at least.
But each to their own. How about something simple? one day forget your bottled of water or something and when she's resting ask her if she has any water.. then just see how she reacts, if she seems positive just kinda joke your way into a conversation, ask her light questions etc. For you might find out she even has a BF. |
I don’t understand why you think she (fitness freak) would be there for the attention. Maybe she is just doing her own thing and for her own reasons.
What do you really know about some fitness freak? Look at the fat threads on here and try to understand where it comes from. It is all very subjective.
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| Acer wrote: | Its not excatly a lack of confidence more not knowing what the hell to say. Like my mind is blank when I see her.
Just trying to be relaxed and casual usually works best. And not show Im that interested right of.
Hard to explain, good thing is we're at the gym so I wont have to think about sweating etc |
dude, there are subtle ways to get the point across. Obviously dont say something stupid like "Oh i think your hottest woman Ive seen" or something like that
catch her eye from now and then. when you do talk to her, compliment her abd I know this may sound cheesy, but look her up in down, in a subtle way. And again, compliment her. She's at a gym so say something like " you have nice abs" or what not. Smile alot. Look her in the eye, be friendly but let her know your interested.
You may get shot down but that doesnt mean she's not into you.
Once you have a repoire happening, then suggest dinner.
Its really not hard to pick up a woman man. Its all in your mind man |
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Sep 2008 02:00 Post subject: |
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Gym is not the place girls go to get hit on, I wouldn't do it. And if this girl is the type that dresses provocativly to draw attention that tells you all there is to know. Perfect gym girls are those who come in there with the sole intention of improving themselves and bounce the minute they are finished.
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Sep 2008 07:24 Post subject: |
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I go to "NFOHUMP" for relationship advice too they're really friendly and helpful here! I think you should wait until she leaves the gym then knock her out with chloroform (sp?) and keep her in your basement for eternity.
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Sep 2008 08:50 Post subject: |
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| KrAzY-KaMeL wrote: | | Gym is not the place girls go to get hit on, I wouldn't do it. And if this girl is the type that dresses provocativly to draw attention that tells you all there is to know. Perfect gym girls are those who come in there with the sole intention of improving themselves and bounce the minute they are finished. |
Like I said, she talks to people at the gym and just doesent seem the type to just shut down everyone around and focus on training.
And I'm not looking to hit on her like you would hit on a chick at a bar or club. Maybe thats why I'm looking for advice. Hitting on a woman is so much easier than talking trying to build a friendship and crap...
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Sep 2008 10:31 Post subject: |
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This reminds me of the thread were people were upset that women wanted female only gyms.
Now I see even more clearly why they want that.
Acer. In sweden we don´t hit on women in gyms. Swedish people breed when drunk. If you want this girl, your best chance is meeting her out while at the pub, etc.
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Sep 2008 20:22 Post subject: |
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pistolshrimp = female?
If so, how would you react if a guy started talking to you at the gym? If you were abit interested in him aswell?
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Sep 2008 21:57 Post subject: |
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Someone wants to talk to me fine. I respond back. It hasn't happened that I have been interested in someone there. Even if I was I would prob do nothing.
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Sep 2008 01:49 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | Someone wants to talk to me fine. I respond back. It hasn't happened that I have been interested in someone there. Even if I was I would prob do nothing. |
Why would you do nothing if you knew a guy was interested in you and you in him?
Shy? |
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Sep 2008 03:54 Post subject: |
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Chances are I wouldn't be interested in him. Bad attitude on my part I guess.
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Sep 2008 04:11 Post subject: |
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any update acer?
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