I just don;t understand people....
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Przepraszam
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 03:43    Post subject: I just don;t understand people....
Long story made short..basically there is this my parents friend that has been in US for about 8-10 years..and he recently has been diagnosed with cancer that is so widespread..up his throat, stomach, and today my father told me it jumped to his liver..but you know how cancer is he can die tomorrow or year from now..who knows anyway. His wife and his both sons one is 20 and one is 11 are both in Poland. He DID NOT see his younger son for the past 8-10 years..only when he was first born then he moved to US. Which is pretty fucked up..and no way in his condition will be able to take plan and go back to Poland.

So the son is 20years old is studying at UNI in different city that is about 500KM from our hometown.


now to talk about main reason for this post is that. His wife left the little kid is 11 years old with neighboor that lives next door. and My town in Poland has about 20k people so you can imagine what kind of gossip must be going around that this guy has cancer...People in towns like that have no lifes and therefore must talk soo much shit about others. Well apparently someone TOLD. I dont know what you call it but I guess human services that deal with homeless kids!? I mean he goes to school, he gets feed by the neighboor. All he lacks is his mother that is in US to be with her husband/his dad and will probably die soon. If she won't show up by next Friday in Poland. They will take her kid away...

If you want to be stupid, do it in your own time...why get involved in something that does not concerns you? she would eventually go back to Poland to be with her son, i mean c'mon just think how the kid must feel :/ and put him through the fucked up system with homeless kids? Most of them get abused there or whatever, not here to make judgement but live your own god damn life

my short rant

And another thing is what people over there must think about our new shiny house that we just bought 600k...It must be palace...my fucking American Dream. Paying off this debt for 30 years

And thats why I sometimes wish...I would never go back to Poland >< People say how Polish people in US are fucked in the head.. but Poland is not that much better

Who the fuck are you to judge, when shit like this happen to people?


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deelix
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 04:06    Post subject:
Well, I guess the big question here is why Norway don't have free dental service after you turn 20.
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Neon
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 10:15    Post subject: Re: I just don;t understand people....
besthijacker wrote:
And thats why I sometimes wish...I would never go back to Poland >< People say how Polish people in US are fucked in the head.. but Poland is not that much better


Even though I'm a Pole, I have to agree with you. I'm ASHAMED I am a Pole. We are laughed at by every big country(not without a reason, but a point stays). I mean- even in VIDEO GAMES players laugh at Polish people. I mean- I got kicked from a server for being a Pole. :/

The bad thing is that people don't see how many wars Polish soldiers have fought, how many conflicts were risen during XX century. We were attacked by USRR and Germany not because we were their enemies(alright, we were the first to say "no" to Hitler, but w/e), but because of our geographical location- we were between them. Most of our major political fuck-ups were because of the government and the infamous "liberum veto" that could force the ending of Sejm's(Sejm is Polish chamber of deputies) current session and cancel all legislation already passed at it. By this way we couldn't develop ANYTHING, because people of the Sejm were bribed and we could do jack shit about it.

Anyway....

I feel sorry for the kid. My mom's brother died from lung cancer two weeks ago(he was 37). And he was the best uncle I've ever had. But losing an uncle is not like losing a father/mother.
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 12:13    Post subject:
I'm guessing leaving the kid with relatives instead of neighbours was not an option. Mother will probably have to return asap to head off authorities.

As for Polish people and their place in the world, well that is something every nation/people playing catch-up with the rest of the world (in this case the EU) has to deal with. It takes about one or two generations of hard work to cut into the lead and dispel pre-conceptions. You think you guys have it tough but be glad you're not from some other countries who rightly or wrongly get a bad rap.
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cnZ
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 16:22    Post subject:
deelix wrote:
Well, I guess the big question here is why Norway don't have free dental service after you turn 20.


i think the biggest question is why Finland doesn't offer free dental service after you turn 20


yes
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deelix
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 16:39    Post subject:
yeah, thats a big question too, next time I have to visit the dentist it has to be in Ukraine or something Laughing
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SycoShaman
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 20:47    Post subject:
Polish ppl are well liked in Canada. you guys should come here. Smile I have a couple of polish friends and they are good guys, awesome drinkers too. They could drink me under the table any day lol

Ive never met a polish person I didnt like or thought was rude. Well, once girl was but it wasnt because she was polish, its because she was a complete cunt.


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deelix
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 21:34    Post subject:
Lots of nice people in Cracow Very Happy

And lots of chicks are named Agnes Surprised
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dickybob26
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 21:39    Post subject:
see his younger son for the past 8-10 years

yet he has the power to have sex and shoot his load in to her , sometimes i think people get possessed to have sex and dont realise there doing it , like maybe some kind of religion takes over them
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Neon
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 21:44    Post subject:
deelix wrote:
Lots of nice people in Cracow Very Happy

And lots of chicks are named Agnes Surprised


Yep, Agnes (Agnieszka[you read it Agnieshka) is a pretty popular name in Poland.

Though Karolina(Caroline) and Anna (Ann) is very popular too.

I have 4 Karolinas and 5 Annas in my class. Razz
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