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Neon
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 Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 16:27 Post subject: This girl.... Yeah, girl topic again. |
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Alright, so there is a girl in my class. As you know, most Polish girls are hot as hell, and she isn't an exception. We've known each other for about 3 months now. She's really great, understanding and intelligent. She even said I was very important to her right from the beginning.
The problem is, that there is this guy. He always waits for her after our classes, and she talks with him on most breakes too. They seem to know each other, and to say the truth I'm jealous. Even though I'm not even with her. I mean- when I see them talking it's like my pulse speeds up. It just makes me sad, but I know I'm just fucking jealous. I'm too shy to ask her if she's going out with that guy currently, but about 3 weeks ago she said he was a close friend, but it sure doesn't look like it.
Oh god, I feel like a wuss.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 16:33 Post subject: |
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Kill him, make it look like an accident.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 17:44 Post subject: |
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polish girls are indeed hot but my god stay away if you're not polish. lol.
they're the most fucked up sluts on the face of this planet. i dated 2. grew up with 1.
was friends with a dozen. my god. psychotic much.
best bit is do what reklis said.... ask one of her friends.
asking her out now will either devastate you or turn you into the happiest fellow in the world.
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Neon
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 17:45 Post subject: |
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I am Polish. And yes, most of the pretty ones are either sluts or dumb asses, but she's not like that.
I guess I'll ask her friend then, but if you guys have any other ideas feel free to write them here.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 18:19 Post subject: |
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She is not interested in you im sorry but its true. If she was you would have noticed it the first few days u got to know her
If you really want to find out then talk to her, tell her u want to hook up and within seconds you will remember this shit i wrote
peace
EDIT: For her you are nothing but a nice guy a "friend" or whatever not someone she has the hots for
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Neon
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 18:28 Post subject: |
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| JahLux wrote: | | She is not interested in you im sorry but its true. If she was you would have noticed it the first few days u got to know her |
I actually did notice, that's why I'm worried/jealous.
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Neon
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 19:21 Post subject: |
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Well, when I was complementing her one time she was like "oh, wow. it's so nice to hear it from you, i feel all warm inside" and stuff like that. Like I said, yesterday she said I'm very important to her too. To say you the truth, I actually said I'm pretty shy to talk to her and she was like "yea, i noticed that you're not talking that much when I'm near, is everything ok?" and she said she will "work" on me to stop being shy, whatever that means. ;p
Oh, and she names me "darling" in text messages... I really don't know what to think about it.
When I showed her my recent essay(so that she may start her's easier) she said it was really great and that she wishes she could write as well as me.
And she was sending me text messages everyday when I was ill...
She also told me about her parents' divorce and I'm pretty sure the guy I mentioned doesn't know about it...
And I seriously don't know what to think about it.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 19:54 Post subject: |
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Ask her what her and her boyfriend are up to at the weekend. Then she says 'oh I havent got a boyfriend' or says 'yeah we're going out'
mystery solved.
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Neon
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 20:19 Post subject: |
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Alright, I managed to talk to her. She doesn't have a boyfriend currently(at least she says so). I said I have a crush on her. She said
"Please, please don't fall in love with me. I'm not a good girlfriend material".
And it's not like she was joking, she told it in poker face way.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 20:47 Post subject: |
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At least you have the courage to tell unlike some of us other. 
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 20:54 Post subject: |
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Well if you do like her, tell her you don't care if she's not girlfriend material. You like her. That's that. You want to give it a shot. Worst comes to worst you'll make a thread in three weeks about how she's a cheating slut.
Seriously. Ask her out. Tell her that. Tell her you want to find out for yourself and you're willing to get your balls chopped up for it.
She knows about it(she's not g/f material) and she likes you a shit load and doesn't want to hurt you. Which is a nice thing. it's cute. But a boy needs to get laid, correct?
You have a 100% failure if you don't try. So does she. Something makes her think she's not g/f material. did you ask her that? why she thinks that? maybe there's a past in there. A horrific past with more than one cocks involved. Y'know.
No harm in finding shit out now. You already jumped ship and she denied you. Must feel like shit. Lol. Right? So instead of drowning. Find out what the fuck is up. And then decide for yourself. And ask yourself. Cause this relationship will have a set expiry date. You know it. I know it. We all here know it. So ask yourself if you're willing to get hurt over this girl. If you are, Go for it. Risk it. And be happy for a while. No one here will judge you for going into something that will obviously hurt you in the long run. Who knows we could be wrong and you could end up with a seemingly long term relationship.
You wont know until you find out. So find out.
Ps. I hate polish girls and polish people. :>
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 20:56 Post subject: |
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| Neon25 wrote: | Alright, I managed to talk to her. She doesn't have a boyfriend currently(at least she says so). I said I have a crush on her. She said
"Please, please don't fall in love with me. I'm not a good girlfriend material".
And it's not like she was joking, she told it in poker face way. |
Soo...lets summarize this topics content and your situation till now...
There is this beautiful, reasonably intelligent female, that is currently single(in her own words,and her saying it (even if its not true) means quite a lot) and apperantly insecure about her relationship behaviour( most likely due to a hard break up which makes her,and blames herself for it ,which maker her extremely easy to manipulate)....
Then there's you who happen to be in good relations with her, friend zoned (at least at the moment) and also appear to have sort of a head on you, but is apparently also quite insecure and lacking experience with women...
Now excuse me if my pragmatical overly cynical way of thought is getting the better of me , but in my eyes all you need to do in the nearest possible future is simply saying in a insecure or joking voice something in the lines of "well concerning that..I am not perfect eider, perhaps we can help each other out ?, and there you have it.... the perfect girl who you can mold as character and behavior to an extent that is almost unethical...almost...
And then there is the situation in which she is letting you down gently by saying those things so that she keeps you as a friend...but if she chose such a way to present it she is eider less intelligent then I assumed, or really values you as a friend and you are of great importance to her....which in the long run often proves to be more valuable then a relationship..
No matter what such a method of presenting the situation to her won't do much harm if done right....and I would suggest doing it fast...
But then again - this comes from the mouth of a person whose experience with women is being "zoned" 3 times and not paying attention to the only one that ever appeared to have had feelings for me...
PS:And although WaldoJ most likely got it right about her pass, I wouldn't ask her about it until she tells of it herself.If it traumatized her in any serious way(and for a good looking woman to have low confidence, usually shows exactly that) this would be the once certain way to poison any potential relationship...Then again..if she actually tells you what she thinks is wrong with her, that would be a certain way to show how much she cares and in what way(or turning you in an emotional trashcan)....
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Neon
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 21:01 Post subject: |
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| Razkolnikov wrote: | | There is this beautiful, reasonably intelligent female, that is currently single(in her own words,and her saying it (even if its not true) means quite a lot) and apperantly insecure about her relationship behaviour( most likely due to a hard break up which makes her,and blames herself for it ,which maker her extremely easy to manipulate).... |
True, but a guy who's inexperienced with the female genre, can't really read the book that well and won't be able to manipulate her. Feelings are easy to manipulte and since he has feelings for her, it's the last thing any one would reccomend. You manipulate girls you don't care for. You manipulate girls that appear to be great fucks and will last a while. You manipulate girls just to win a bet.  And also girls who are easy to manipulate also end up... well... in my experience... quite suicidal.  `
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Neon
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 21:11 Post subject: |
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| JahLux wrote: | the thing is it sounded like she wanted to tell you that she wants to keep being just friends
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Well, I'm going to sort it tomorrow, we'll see.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 21:17 Post subject: |
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when a girl usually says that means she's not ready to be in a full fledged relationship. thats that. fear or hurting someone they like. fear of being hurt.
Saying you ain't perfect either is a bad bad bad bad idea. It won't get you sympathy if you're lying. Cause you have no back up story. She might have stories of guys cheating on her. Using her. Abusing her. Etc. Etc. Etc. what have you got?
Come on. Play it sane and normal. Ask her out after tomorrow. Go see a movie. See where it goes. If you try to manipulate her just to get her with you... you're pretty much a scum and you don't like her a bit and you jsut want to fuck her cause she showed you some interest. By all means get your rocks off, but stop spewing out stuff that you like her. Lol. Cause manipulation holds no emotional value.  It's all physical yo.
play it like you would with any other girl. Don't let your emotions get too much in the way. Relationships are a normal thing these days. So is sex. Being afraid of either is just lame. Rejection is also normal. Set yourself up for it and be pleasantly surprised or not be really affected by it at all.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 21:44 Post subject: |
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alcohol makes me violent. not talky talky. lol. all my friends are talky talky. But when I get piss drunk I wake up with a bruised hand a vague memory of what happened. Lol. Sometimes I fake talky talky stuff when a girl opens up or my mates open up and I don't want to seem like jerk. Lol. But a lot of people I know get emotional when they're drunk. I hate that. I fucking hate that.
Take her out for drinks and chit chat. Find out shit. And poof. 
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 21:49 Post subject: |
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Yeah i dont get violent myself i just tend to forget shit xD memory loss is a real bitch
anyway yeah ur local pub with her STAT
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Sep 2008 22:49 Post subject: |
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tell her cnZ is interested in fucking her and leaving afterwards
yes
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| WaldoJ wrote: | alcohol makes me violent. not talky talky. lol. all my friends are talky talky. But when I get piss drunk I wake up with a bruised hand a vague memory of what happened. Lol. Sometimes I fake talky talky stuff when a girl opens up or my mates open up and I don't want to seem like jerk. Lol. But a lot of people I know get emotional when they're drunk. I hate that. I fucking hate that.
Take her out for drinks and chit chat. Find out shit. And poof. |
The differences between beer and whiskey.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Wed, 1st Oct 2008 01:15 Post subject: |
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fuck off! Whiskey rox!
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| WaldoJ wrote: | | fuck off! Whiskey rox! |
only if your drinking CC or Crown Royal...if not your a sellout canadian  |
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WaldoJ
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i would rather be castrated and put on a feces diet than to drink either cc or crown royal. They're so awful. Fuck. I got 3 bottles of crown royal in my house. I never touch them. NEVER. People always bring them to parties and shit. My god is that stuff revolting. If I don't have Jameson, Walker, Bells or anything else then yeah i'll drink crown royal but if I had to drink CC... my god... i'd rather drink urine.
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| Posted: Wed, 1st Oct 2008 02:11 Post subject: |
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| WaldoJ wrote: | | i would rather be castrated and put on a feces diet than to drink either cc or crown royal. They're so awful. Fuck. I got 3 bottles of crown royal in my house. I never touch them. NEVER. People always bring them to parties and shit. My god is that stuff revolting. If I don't have Jameson, Walker, Bells or anything else then yeah i'll drink crown royal but if I had to drink CC... my god... i'd rather drink urine. |
i dont like cc either
but whats wrong with Crown man? crown tastes pretty good.
And that other crap, whats its called...something vo and vsop...that shit is bomb, but expensive. But I get great deals on that stuff. $20 for a 40oz |
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