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Karmeck
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 Posted: Mon, 20th Oct 2008 19:00 Post subject: (Maby) life is (not) really that bad |
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I was bullied from 1th grade to 9th grade. Haven't really had more than 1 friend at the time (then i had the bad luck of all of them moving away one after the other), never really had any friends in school besides 3 other not popular guys. So I started to think of my life as a kinda sucky one.
Then you know you meet people a few years later in Collage and you get to know they were also bullied but you never noticed it. And people you thought were nice back then was bullies.
And today in school I get to know a girl who's father died then she was 7 and she have completely failed school and also been institutionalized and try to take her life.
Then you start to re-think the view of you're own life, was that good or just less bad?
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| Posted: Mon, 20th Oct 2008 19:10 Post subject: |
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Hahaha bullies, even when you'r weak you can fuck them over man, let air out of their tires, wait for them to leave class and sneak a stinking turd you packed in a plastic bag in their schoolbag, man there's lotsa shit you can do, just act dumb. Being bullied is allowing to be bullied, seems to me you let yourself be bullied, if you can't beat them then join them(and that means play it dirty as well).
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Jenni
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| Posted: Mon, 20th Oct 2008 19:12 Post subject: |
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Mon, 20th Oct 2008 19:21 Post subject: |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | | Hahaha bullies, even when you'r weak you can fuck them over man, let air out of their tires, wait for them to leave class and sneak a stinking turd you packed in a plastic bag in their schoolbag, man there's lotsa shit you can do, just act dumb. Being bullied is allowing to be bullied, seems to me you let yourself be bullied, if you can't beat them then join them(and that means play it dirty as well). |
Looking back at it yes I did let myslef be bullide. But I was 7 then it started and then that goes on for 9 years you get weak.
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| Posted: Mon, 20th Oct 2008 20:19 Post subject: |
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Looking back at bullies, I can laugh in their face, all of them work in a fucking factory, are lowlife marginal losers whilst I have a fucking relaxed deskjob that pays very well, in the end you will have the last laugh(that is, if your grades are up to scratch), and then just go look for them and show them what losers and lowlifes they have become, don't be afraid to show that you are far above them, I came up to a few in my life, guys that thought they were the king of the class and now they are fucking ashamed of their lives, you drive a better car, you have better clothes, they just look like bums and yeah can't help but to bring a smile to your face. Sad eh, that you can be so happy about someone else's misery, but the worse they have it, the better you feel, what comes around goes around.
Just learn, learn and learn, your time will come Karmeck.
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Mon, 20th Oct 2008 21:09 Post subject: |
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Now this topic was not about bullies, but about that you should not label you're life before you seen what crappy liefs other have had.
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Mon, 20th Oct 2008 22:16 Post subject: |
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I was once bullied in middle school.
This one fat jojo faggot kid wanted to fight me at the end of school.
So he pushed me around.
Then I grabbed his balls and squeezed as hard as i could.
He dropped to the ground and then I just kicked him while he was down.
Stepped on his privvys and well ran away.
Needless to say the jojo faggot boy didn't bully me anymore. 
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| Posted: Tue, 21st Oct 2008 04:29 Post subject: |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | | Hahaha bullies, even when you'r weak you can fuck them over man, let air out of their tires, wait for them to leave class and sneak a stinking turd you packed in a plastic bag in their schoolbag, man there's lotsa shit you can do, just act dumb. Being bullied is allowing to be bullied, seems to me you let yourself be bullied, if you can't beat them then join them(and that means play it dirty as well). |
Just pwn there ass in the schoolyard in front of every1.
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nouseforaname
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| Posted: Tue, 21st Oct 2008 04:35 Post subject: |
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Life is as good as what you make of it. Benchmarking yourself against someone who has a terrible life doesn't make much sense imo ... the same reason a lot of low-middle class people support class warfare.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 21st Oct 2008 04:45 Post subject: |
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I told ya my one encounter Kar. Simply put (and what I tell my niece and nephews), someone tries to bully you physically or says something like "After your school im gunna kick your ass..meet me at so and so.." you fuckin go crazy on em right then and there. You may get in a little shit, but no one will fuck with you. And Ive always told my niece (cause my one nephew is in kindergarden and my other nephew is a toddler) that if she ever gets into a fight and in trouble, after the schools called her parent's, call me and I will come in a defend her no matter what...as long as she was defending herself. If she beat up some kid for no reason then she's gunna pay the price, but if she's defending herself, i will defender till the end.
Like last year, some boy at recess (she was in grade 5 last year) grabbed her, pushed her up against the back of a portable and tried to put his hand down her pants. Which is stupid because ive been teaching my niece martial arts since she was 5. She kicked him in the knee (didnt break it or anything just kicked so he'd be of balance) and decked him. The school tried to suspend her and my idiot brother and stupid wife have no backbone and thought she did the right thing but "didnt want to make an issue out of it" by fighting the principal's decision to suspend her. So I went in, I fuckin went nuts. My niece gets assaulted basically, she defends herself and she gets in shit? What kinda msg is that gunna send her? If a guy tries to assault you, you better let him or your gunna get in trouble? Fuck that. In the end, I got the other kid suspended for a week and my niece got off scot free.
They wanted to know where she learned to fight (she's a good fighter for her age) and I told them I teach her. They were about to try and bitch me out and I laughed and said im a fully trained martial artist and have the right to teach self defense to anyone I want. They shut up after that...cause its true.
In the end tho, I think you should stand up for yourself if your bullied. If you dont, it only will contiue.
But I get your point Kar. Sometimes life isnt as bad as you might think if you look at other ppl's situation.
By the way, the ppl in your school sound like a buncha fuckin head cases...i know you like the school and all, but fuck dude. Your going to school with ppl who have serious issues....thats never cool. Its not like your gunna find a normal gf unless there's like a few normal chicks in your school. But based on what you've told me, the girls at your school are all nutjobs...in which cases, Id steer clear bud.
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 21st Oct 2008 07:04 Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | By the way, the ppl in your school sound like a buncha fuckin head cases...i know you like the school and all, but fuck dude. Your going to school with ppl who have serious issues....thats never cool. Its not like your gunna find a normal gf unless there's like a few normal chicks in your school. But based on what you've told me, the girls at your school are all nutjobs...in which cases, Id steer clear bud. |
Why do you think I like it, everyone (most of them) have never finished hight school, I have, that make you feel kinda good. And I love people with problems, and who want a normal gf, here I can find some one that will really need me and that is what I want. And they were institutionalized, they are good now, I think that is why they are such open people and I like that.
This is kinda how I want it:
I want you to cry so I can make you happy
I want you to have problems so that I can solve them
I want you to be alone so I can be there for you
I want you to live so I can watch you suffer.
Im not bad, it's just that after years of being bullied and no one dare come close to me for being afraid of self being bullied, I love then ppl need some one and I can be there. In some ways im just as messed up as the rest of the ppl in my school.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 21st Oct 2008 07:18 Post subject: |
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lol ah dude. let me you tell you from experience, the whole knight in shining armour thing rarely works...for so many reasons.
Having someone WANT you, is not the same as having someone NEED you. No one should ever need you and you should never need anyone. You should be comfortable with yourself and who you are. You should want someone, and someone should want you. Thats alot healthier and will most likely work out better.
I know your gunna disagree, and most younger guys do (every guy wants to be the superhero for his girl). But as you get older and you've been with the girls who are like the one's you describe, you realise it always ends in tragedy.
I could go on all day about this but man, when it comes down to it your gunna do what you want as it is...you'll learn form experience as I did and other guys have.
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 21st Oct 2008 13:36 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | lol ah dude. let me you tell you from experience, the whole knight in shining armour thing rarely works...for so many reasons.
Having someone WANT you, is not the same as having someone NEED you. No one should ever need you and you should never need anyone. You should be comfortable with yourself and who you are. You should want someone, and someone should want you. Thats alot healthier and will most likely work out better.
I know your gunna disagree, and most younger guys do (every guy wants to be the superhero for his girl). But as you get older and you've been with the girls who are like the one's you describe, you realise it always ends in tragedy.
I could go on all day about this but man, when it comes down to it your gunna do what you want as it is...you'll learn form experience as I did and other guys have. |
"rarely works"
But it makes me feel good right now, and that is all I am about.
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Karmeck
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| Posted: Tue, 21st Oct 2008 14:36 Post subject: |
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hey man, dont start school shooting
yes
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