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SycoShaman
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Good idea for a topic Gemmy.
I'd say mine was the second time I divorced. I was insecure. I didn't want to be alone, I wanted to be with someone and thats why I stayed with my ex-wife for so long when things got bad and thats why I remarried (having one niters isnt fulfilling).
Anyway, the second time around, I threw her out and for a week I was really really depressed. 2nd worst time in my life.
But I realized before I can find someone else, I need to be comfortable with myself, being alone.
So I worked on it and it took bout 6 months. But I was still depressed (not specifically about my ex). I was always trying to please people, sacrificing a bit of me here, a bit of me there and I felt.....drained. So I decided to make myself happy. Do what ma happy, at the moment. And I've been doing it since and I'm happy now and my emotional and mental state is great and healthy.
And then Angela and I got together and, this is going to sound lame/corny/cheesy but I feel complete...I feel like a part of me thats been missing for so long is finally there. This truly is the best time of my life...the only thing that could make it better or will be better is if I end up marrying Angela.
But yeah, I'm completely happy. I have the girl I've always wanted (as in beauty, personality, attitude, opinions/view etc), my financial situation is fine, I have the best niece a man could hope for and both my nephews love me so much and I love them with all my heart, I have a few really good, reliable and supportive friend's...,what more could a man ask for?
2 things could make me happier - 1) Marrying Angela 2) having kids with her,
So all in all, although Ive had some serious set backs in my life....things have turned out the way I've always dreamed. The world/universe has a funny way making things workoutl
Fuck, now I hear the blender going and the microwave, I wonder what she's throwing together for a snack/meal kik
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For me it was the death of a very close family member who was a a few years older then me . He died suddenly in a traffic accident. Everything changed overnight.
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