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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:18 Post subject: Work collegues? |
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Hi all.
Well today i was working, had no sleep at all and basically in a shit fucking mood 'again'.
Now when after say an hour of work, the chefs assistant who does the cleaning etc in the chefs departments.
Was with the girls who work there, i was just ploding on, cleaning, doing my job.
And I'm sure i heard him say, wtf is up with him, that guys a mong.
Right, wow that really fucked me off and i mean 'REALLY'.
Then he turns to these women and starts mumbling and smirking.
I swear to god i was on the verge of putting that cunt in a coma.
But I've seen him or heard him mumbling things before about me and me having a newish job which i need to keep i just ignored it 'FOR NOW'.
So, this guy say's one much fucking word out of place and i swear to god that guy's going into heaven, I'm going to fucking kill him.
Man this has fucked me off so bad i can't stop thinking of smashing his head in.
Sorry for the rant but i had to get this offg my chest lol.
Anyone had the same problems at your workplaces?
And if it did come to a fight I'd tell him top meet me after work for obvious reasons.
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:25 Post subject: |
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Why would he say such things about you?
And if he has a reputation of talking shit why do you bother?
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:34 Post subject: |
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| PumpAction wrote: | Why would he say such things about you?
And if he has a reputation of talking shit why do you bother? |
Well it could well of been me in a seriously shitty mood which i was in.
And you do get people like this, talk behind your back I've had it done or said about me before.
There's only so much you can take before something has to be said done.
I'll have beedy ears next time for sure.
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:38 Post subject: |
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| kenny64 wrote: | Meeting for fighting after work, how cheesy
I know i wouldn't give him the opportunity to win and would have smashed his face in then and there some way or another if i got as pissed of as you seem to be. |
It's not worth risking my job though mate, i was fuming inside believe me.
I enjoy the job, this cunt is the only annoying fucker there, everyone else is fine.
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:41 Post subject: |
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From what you wrote I get the impression you are not sure that is what he actually said? It just seemed like he was talking and laughing at you?
Or are you certain?
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:43 Post subject: |
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| deelix wrote: | doubt the is going to heaven tho  |
The mood i was in mate he wouldn't of been coming back.
Not exactly the outcome i wanted as i think I'd be in prison for a quiet few years?
But i think everyone has had day's like this, i just find things like this very hard to ignore, always have done.
Unless you have say Mike Tyson facing you?
Which he certainly is not.
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:47 Post subject: |
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Eiter confront him someway or talk to your boss. Bottling it inside too long and let it continue certainly isn't a smart move. Ofc i don't know your boss and he might be a fucker for all i know.
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:47 Post subject: |
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| BearishSun wrote: | From what you wrote I get the impression you are not sure that is what he actually said? It just seemed like he was talking and laughing at you?
Or are you certain? |
No I'm not certain, that's why i bit my tongue and said nothing.
As i said before, I'll have my ears pinned open next time he's around as I've seen and heard him make witty comments before.
| Quote: | | It just seemed like he was talking and laughing at you? |
Well that's the whole point really mate.
Trying to take the piss, i just go to work and do my job like most others, i just go to earn my bucks, that's it.
I never talk about people or offend anyone in anyway.
But if i hear someone talking about me, then you can't just sit there and say nothing.
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:48 Post subject: |
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| kenny64 wrote: | | Eiter confront him someway or talk to your boss. Bottling it inside too long and let it continue certainly isn't a smart move. Ofc i don't know your boss and he might be a fucker for all i know. |
Yeah i agree mate, I'm keeping my ears pinned next time he's around.
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Rofl_Mao
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:55 Post subject: Re: Work collegues? |
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| Theescapist wrote: | Hi all.
Well today i was working, had no sleep at all and basically in a shit fucking mood 'again'.
Now when after say an hour of work, the chefs assistant who does the cleaning etc in the chefs departments.
Was with the girls who work there, i was just ploding on, cleaning, doing my job.
And I'm sure i heard him say, wtf is up with him, that guys a mong.
Right, wow that really fucked me off and i mean 'REALLY'.
Then he turns to these women and starts mumbling and smirking.
I swear to god i was on the verge of putting that cunt in a coma.
But I've seen him or heard him mumbling things before about me and me having a newish job which i need to keep i just ignored it 'FOR NOW'.
So, this guy say's one much fucking word out of place and i swear to god that guy's going into heaven, I'm going to fucking kill him.
Man this has fucked me off so bad i can't stop thinking of smashing his head in.
Sorry for the rant but i had to get this offg my chest lol.
Anyone had the same problems at your workplaces?
And if it did come to a fight I'd tell him top meet me after work for obvious reasons. |
Tell him you've heard him ruining your reputation,
and you feel very indignant.
And that you don't understand why he's saying these things.
You'd like to know if he's got a problem with you.
And how you can DO something about that problem, because you value him as a colleague.
You'd like to get along with him in the future.
OK, before you explode let me explain. You hate him and now you must play mr. Nice Guy? You could beat his head off Mortal Kombat style but you will win absolutely nothing. Yes vengeance, but you'll get into trouble in the long run.
The steps above have solved pretty much all of my quarrels. And in the long run I'm the big winner. He's clearly being an asshole and you must hate him obviously. By staying reasonable you know you're not the problem, and all the other people will notice this as well. In the worst case scenario, when the other dude will insult or threaten you, say you're sorry you can't work something out. AND that you won't help him with whatever he may be needing in the future. Not until he's acting in a mature manner at least. Ignore the dude from that point onward.
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 18:57 Post subject: |
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Talking about this with your boss is an excellent idea as well. Assholes will be fired right away and no better way to fuck him in the ass 
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 19:12 Post subject: |
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| Rofl_Mao wrote: | Talking about this with your boss is an excellent idea as well. Assholes will be fired right away and no better way to fuck him in the ass  |
Very true mate, i will next time if i do hear him going on with himself.
If i can contain myself that is.
He was just trying to be the 'BIGMAN' in front of the laddies that is all.
Lie i said before, i just get on with my job, like everyone else, i do not take the piss out of people, never have
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 19:15 Post subject: |
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Also, sabotage!
If you have a chance to mess up something he's in charge of doing/ getting done without getting caught, do it!
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 19:28 Post subject: |
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| BearishSun wrote: | Fuck him in teh butt  |
That's just not an option mate.
Maybe with a pitch folk?
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Posted: Wed, 25th May 2011 20:01 Post subject: Re: Work collegues? |
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| Rofl_Mao wrote: | | Theescapist wrote: | Hi all.
Well today i was working, had no sleep at all and basically in a shit fucking mood 'again'.
Now when after say an hour of work, the chefs assistant who does the cleaning etc in the chefs departments.
Was with the girls who work there, i was just ploding on, cleaning, doing my job.
And I'm sure i heard him say, wtf is up with him, that guys a mong.
Right, wow that really fucked me off and i mean 'REALLY'.
Then he turns to these women and starts mumbling and smirking.
I swear to god i was on the verge of putting that cunt in a coma.
But I've seen him or heard him mumbling things before about me and me having a newish job which i need to keep i just ignored it 'FOR NOW'.
So, this guy say's one much fucking word out of place and i swear to god that guy's going into heaven, I'm going to fucking kill him.
Man this has fucked me off so bad i can't stop thinking of smashing his head in.
Sorry for the rant but i had to get this offg my chest lol.
Anyone had the same problems at your workplaces?
And if it did come to a fight I'd tell him top meet me after work for obvious reasons. |
Tell him you've heard him ruining your reputation,
and you feel very indignant.
And that you don't understand why he's saying these things.
You'd like to know if he's got a problem with you.
And how you can DO something about that problem, because you value him as a colleague.
You'd like to get along with him in the future.
OK, before you explode let me explain. You hate him and now you must play mr. Nice Guy? You could beat his head off Mortal Kombat style but you will win absolutely nothing. Yes vengeance, but you'll get into trouble in the long run.
The steps above have solved pretty much all of my quarrels. And in the long run I'm the big winner. He's clearly being an asshole and you must hate him obviously. By staying reasonable you know you're not the problem, and all the other people will notice this as well. In the worst case scenario, when the other dude will insult or threaten you, say you're sorry you can't work something out. AND that you won't help him with whatever he may be needing in the future. Not until he's acting in a mature manner at least. Ignore the dude from that point onward. |
You've been lucky. Confronting like this can lead to even more mockery.
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Posted: Thu, 26th May 2011 05:06 Post subject: |
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| 8ball wrote: | | paranoia much? |
Paranoia?
Wtf you jabbering on about fool?
Would you like somne1 talking or taking the piss out of you?
Would you accept it?
Some1 calling you a mong when not to your face is hardly joking, i can take a joke but this is no joke so.

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Posted: Thu, 26th May 2011 10:20 Post subject: |
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Confront the fucker when everybody is watching, if you think he's on to something then fucking do it, show the fucker who's boss in front of everyone.
Ask him if he has a problem ?
Don't forget, the higher your tone is the more people it will attract and he'll probably pussy out since he doesnt want to make a scene.
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Posted: Thu, 26th May 2011 12:15 Post subject: |
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It's time to nut up or shut up....
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Posted: Thu, 26th May 2011 12:46 Post subject: |
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| Theescapist wrote: | | deelix wrote: | doubt the is going to heaven tho  |
The mood i was in mate he wouldn't of been coming back.
Not exactly the outcome i wanted as i think I'd be in prison for a quiet few years?
But i think everyone has had day's like this, i just find things like this very hard to ignore, always have done.
Unless you have say Mike Tyson facing you?
Which he certainly is not. | I feel the same way mate. We have all been wanting to kill someone at some time in our life, but we don't, Well, most of us, hehe. Iv only hit one person in anger, and im not the kinda person that likes or sees the point in playfighting with mates. But anyway, I was hoping for a KO.... but that didnt happen, and shit turned against me Anyway, never regretted it. He was an asshole towards my friends and hit a girl. Someone had to do something.
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| sabin1981 wrote: | | Fuck you troll. Fuck you and your entire aids-infested family. Get cancer and die. Slowly. |
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