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 Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 21:08 Post subject: Why do girls like going out? |
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WHY?!
I havent spent any alone time with my current gf in almost 2 months. Lately I spend only 1 day with her out of the week and all she wants to do is goto movies and dinner and do other lame shit. I just wanna go back to her place and spend time together there but no we have to go see that shitty Tron remake this coming Friday
FML!!!!!!!!
Not to mention my wallet is also taking a beating 
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TSR69
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 21:16 Post subject: |
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I need money for computer hardware, not hookers 
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 21:18 Post subject: |
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She's drying you out before leaving.
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TSR69
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 21:18 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 21:20 Post subject: |
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Are you sure she sees you as her boyfriend, and not as some gayfriend?
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 21:21 Post subject: |
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| oxyeL wrote: | | Are you sure she sees you as her boyfriend, and not as some gayfriend? |
Been in a relationship with her for a little over 7 months. So Im pretty sure 
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:08 Post subject: |
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How old are you and how old is the girl?
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:09 Post subject: |
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| Mister_s wrote: | | How old are you and how old is the girl? |
Not relevant, sorry 
I just need a good excuse to get out of going to the movies next Friday
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:12 Post subject: |
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How is age not relevant? It's obvious you and this girl can't enjoy eachother's company. This happens a lot with young people. A "relationship" is considered as "doing shit together" at a certain age. If this bothers you and if you can't handle the financial part, why not just ask her wtf is going on? How can you not ask something so simple yet essential if you are already seven months into this relationship?
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:19 Post subject: |
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| Mister_s wrote: | | How is age not relevant? It's obvious you and this girl can't enjoy eachother's company. This happens a lot with young people. A "relationship" is considered as "doing shit together" at a certain age. If this bothers you and if you can't handle the financial part, why not just ask her wtf is going on? How can you not ask something so simple yet essential if you are already seven months into this relationship? |
We do definitely enjoy each others company. I just dont appareciate dealing with classes all day and then heading straight to another public place instead of relaxing and hanging out alone just the 2 of us. We havent been alone in like 2 months!
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helvete
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:28 Post subject: |
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In regard to the wallet beating remark.. are you paying for all her shit too? If that's the case the explanation is simple. You're her atm, not her boyfriend.
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:30 Post subject: |
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| helvete wrote: | | In regard to the wallet beating remark.. are you paying for all her shit too? If that's the case the explanation is simple. You're her atm, not her boyfriend. |
A lot of the time I pay because I dont wanna seem like a douche. She always insists that she pays for herself but it seems wrong for the girl to pay. And its not about paying for her, I dont even like paying for myself. I like watching movies at home for free
EDIT: screw this whining im just gonna call and tell it like it is. Bringing down the hammer!
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:45 Post subject: |
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| timechange01 wrote: | | helvete wrote: | | In regard to the wallet beating remark.. are you paying for all her shit too? If that's the case the explanation is simple. You're her atm, not her boyfriend. |
A lot of the time I pay because I dont wanna seem like a douche. She always insists that she pays for herself but it seems wrong for the girl to pay. And its not about paying for her, I dont even like paying for myself. I like watching movies at home for free
EDIT: screw this whining im just gonna call and tell it like it is. Bringing down the hammer! |
Maybe she's teaching you a lesson then...
That you shouldn't pay for all her shit, so she's trying to leech you til you finally cave in and let her pay for shit.. ^_^ |
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helvete
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:46 Post subject: |
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Sure, if you her to value you for your money and not for you, then go ahead and pay for her. I hereby declare you hooker and john. You may now kiss the hooker (if you pay for dinner afterwards).
Stop paying for her shit. She might just stop wanting to go out all the time and spend more alone time with you. Or she might dump you. I'd call that a win-win scenario.
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:46 Post subject: |
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It's not wrong for the girl to pay for her shit. Especially in Sweden, this is considered the norm.
And yes, just talk to her about this.
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| Posted: Thu, 25th Nov 2010 22:54 Post subject: |
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It is definitely not wrong for the girl to pay. This is the 21st century... How is it wrong for the girl to pay if she most likely has as much money as you do or more money than you do?
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 00:45 Post subject: |
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Just spoke to her on the phone and apparently the movie was not tron, it was Tangled. But basically she doesn't mind at all and said we can go see the movie some other time or even see it at my house. She doesn't care what we do as long as we spend the day together. And she likes my idea of us just hanging out at her place next week. W00t shes awesome!
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 00:56 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 01:56 Post subject: |
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| bushwacka wrote: | | how about a bit of fucking honesty and open discussion with her. if she can't accept that something is too much for your budget or that you don't wanna go see a certain movie/get dinner/do whatever-->wrong girl. otherwise, have fun with the money sink and time wasted on shitty stuff |
Nah she knows me very well and we rarely go out to dinner. Its just when we DO go out, I offer to pay for almost everything. I dont mind paying for stuff, its just been a long as hell time since we spent time alone at her place. And next week is our first opportunity to do that but she wanted to see a movie which is the main reason why I got all angry and started bitching like a bitch
But its all good now 
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 02:25 Post subject: |
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You are thinking with your loins again TC
Im betting she would rather you take her out first, then return home mid way through evening?
Id put money on it that if you changed your mind a bit now to her and said, hey lets go get something to eat early, we will grab that movies earliest showing grab some wine on way back to yours so we still got some of the evening left.. That you would be in more of a chance for some rumpy pumpy lol..
to me and this is a guess, cause women are fickle thinkers, I would say if I was her id probably already would of thought, "I bet hes just fucking dying to try it on and maximize the effort by longer stay over at my place". 
Have a good think about it hehe..
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 02:47 Post subject: |
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| timechange01 wrote: | Just spoke to her on the phone and apparently the movie was not tron, it was Tangled.
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j/k but seriously: fag |
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 02:51 Post subject: |
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Tangled looks pretty funny. Dont be a hater
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 08:08 Post subject: |
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If she does not share the cost then she's not worth being with, women (quite rightly) want independance but the trouble is some of them want it when it suits them, and want to live in the 1940's when it comes to paying the bills!
But anyway just fucking tell her for christ sake! If you can't be honest with each other after this amount of time together what chance does your relationship have for the future?
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 08:10 Post subject: |
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| Reg67 wrote: | | If she does not share the cost then she's not worth being with, women (quite rightly) want independance but the trouble is some of them want it when it suits them, and want to live in the 1940's when it comes to paying the bills! |
Shes very open to sharing the costs. She even offers to pay for me sometimes but I just cant accept because its wrong. I have to be the one to pay otherwise I just feel douchey. The thing is, I even hate paying for myself which is why I dont like to goto movies and dinner
Much better to just hang at home and everybody keeps their money
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| Posted: Fri, 26th Nov 2010 08:21 Post subject: |
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Why do girls like going out ? becuz u dont expect them to give their pussy to you just like that do yoU? you must take them out.. give em food , fun , gifts. then they give u some pussy and ur happy.
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