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 Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 07:30 Post subject: Greatest fucking day of my life. :( |
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Today something extrordinary happend. Something wonderful. Well, to the beginning. I was friends with one person for a long time. Try a couple years. Then I am friends with another. Again for a couple years. This goes on for a bit until they start getting pissed off at me. Apparently they were getting fed up with me. We hang out once a week usually, at the chicks place.
I am in 11th grade. They were my friends one from 8, another from the beginning of 9. And now I am not anymore because of a misunderstanding. I mistook something one of them said and I said something back which they took in a very very negative way. Now they would beleive a shit I say to them that I didnt mean to say it and apparently our friendships over. Fucking great. I contemplated suicide for a bit considering I am the type of person who would do so. I decided I would wait and see what happens but after a fucking week they still wont even talk to me at school.
This pisses me off past the point since I did not even realize what I did. Nor do I know now since they wont tell me. And they are both too stupid to let me say anything to them. And they were the only two friends I kept close to me for that time so I am fucked over.*Punches wall*
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Esel_Gesi
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 07:44 Post subject: |
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Let me start out by saying welcome to NFOrce...
Ok, here's the deal bro. you need to calm down about the whole killing yourself thing because it is totally not worth it for two people that obviously don't value your friendship in the first place. If they did they would be willing to act like adults and talk about the situation. I understand they wont talk to you at this point but it is very likely that they will get over it and you can then explain to them that it was just a misunderstanding. It is by far not the end of the world.
These little fights among friends are not uncommon and I can understand the anger that you are feeling but you have to remember life goes on dude. Life is hard but you have to accept it cause its really all you have.
Que Full House music as I go to bed.
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 09:00 Post subject: |
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Yea, 2 of my m8s from high school were best friends since the age of abbout 3. Then at about 15 they just started to hate each other. They both have sets of new friends and nothing really happened between them they just sorta drifted apart. Still it's not worth killing urself over, life goes on. Took me a while to realise wthat i had to start going school instead of being out with my m8s, the whole world just seemed to "grow up" and i was just left trailing. (I'm back ahead now though  )
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 09:24 Post subject: Re: Greatest fucking day of my life. :( |
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| Josh1 wrote: | Today something extrordinary happend. Something wonderful. Well, to the beginning. I was friends with one person for a long time. Try a couple years. Then I am friends with another. Again for a couple years. This goes on for a bit until they start getting pissed off at me. Apparently they were getting fed up with me. We hang out once a week usually, at the chicks place.
I am in 11th grade. They were my friends one from 8, another from the beginning of 9. And now I am not anymore because of a misunderstanding. I mistook something one of them said and I said something back which they took in a very very negative way. Now they would beleive a shit I say to them that I didnt mean to say it and apparently our friendships over. Fucking great. I contemplated suicide for a bit considering I am the type of person who would do so. I decided I would wait and see what happens but after a fucking week they still wont even talk to me at school.
This pisses me off past the point since I did not even realize what I did. Nor do I know now since they wont tell me. And they are both too stupid to let me say anything to them. And they were the only two friends I kept close to me for that time so I am fucked over.*Punches wall* |
Listen dude, killin urself ain't gunna accomplish anything. You miss ur boys now, well, if u off urself, ur never gunna be able to make ammends.
Like others have said, ur gunna have beef with ppl who u consider friends all ur life. Its something that is unavoidable. But the way u respond can make a world of difference. This may sound gay, but have u thought of writing a letter? You dont even have to give it to him in person, mail it. They may not listen to you in person, but will prolly read ur letter.
Losing a boy isnt the end of the world bro. My closet buddy, since the age of like 8 ended up fuckin my girl when we were in highschool. I can't lie, we fought it out, beat the shit outta him and all that. We exchanged words and such. I don't talk to him to this day, i miss him, but still, some ppl you just have to let go man cuz they willl fuck you...its not easy and ur gunna be depressed for a while, but u will get over it and YOU WILL make new, understanding, loyal friends as you can spot the qualities you don't like.
Life's all about experience man. When ur in highschool, and ur all fucked up cuz u gotta worry about grades, ur boys, gettin laid, partying, working, setting ur life up, the slighest problem can seem like its the end of the world. Just chillax man. Talk out your issues with ur parents, uncle, brother, sister or fuck, even on here...Im sure the guys who posted will lend an ear when u need one, as will I.
Just remember, everything ur most likely to go through, someone else has gone through it and they have come out the other side ok.
And please man, dont be thinkin about suicide...thats something very near and dear to my heart and shouldnt be considered at all cuz in no way is it a solution to anything. You don't sound like a coward so don't take the coward's way out man.
Anyway, take care dude and if u smoke, have a smoke, takes the edge off 
If you don't smoke, do some pushups, great way to relieve anger...dont punch shit, u'll fuck ur handup like i did, my middle and ring knuckle are like touching now.
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MAD_MAX333
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 10:11 Post subject: |
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well everyone has said the mature stuff, now here is what all of us immature people wanna know... what the hell happened and what did you say exactly.... please take your time
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 10:13 Post subject: |
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Josh1, go to your doctor and ask for some treatment for depression.
Im a cockfag
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 11:01 Post subject: |
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| dryan wrote: | | Josh1, go to your doctor and ask for some treatment for depression. |
lol, great advice, Josh1 said he feels depressed for one week now, no need to take antidepressive dugs so quick
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 11:13 Post subject: |
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| whoKnows wrote: | | dryan wrote: | | Josh1, go to your doctor and ask for some treatment for depression. |
lol, great advice, Josh1 said he feels depressed for one week now, no need to take antidepressive dugs so quick |
lol DONT COPE WITH DOPE!
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| Posted: Sat, 2nd Apr 2005 14:02 Post subject: |
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Exactly same situation happend to me. I became virtually enemies with two of my previously best friends, over really petty things. I tried to talk to them but it was pointless, and it almost came to a fight on a few occasions.
Anyway, it was difficult but I adjusted, and in the end made new friends. I met again with one of them recently and now we're both alot more mature and we got on really well, joking about the old times and admitting what idiots we were.
The point is, don't waste too much time on them, you'll make new friends and eventually when you're older you'll be able to joke about it with them. It's not the end of the world.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Apr 2005 01:25 Post subject: |
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| whoKnows wrote: | | dryan wrote: | | Josh1, go to your doctor and ask for some treatment for depression. |
lol, great advice, Josh1 said he feels depressed for one week now, no need to take antidepressive dugs so quick |
He's "the type of person" who contemplates suicide. Sorry but that's depression.
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SaQ
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Apr 2005 02:43 Post subject: |
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Don't get worked up over your mates or "ex-mates", try and make new friends. It is not worth doing such things over other people, be it mates or partners.
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| Posted: Sun, 3rd Apr 2005 11:02 Post subject: |
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don't do it, it's not worth it, they don't value your friendship... LISTEN TO YOURSELVES, PEOPLE. YOU'RE NOT MAKING ANY FUCKING SENSE.
This is tragic. Your friend isn't friends with you anymore. Woe is you. All is hell. God is no more. Might as well kill yourself. And, get this, you're just the kind of person to do it... lol.
If there's one thing you can get out of the heap of bullshit above, it's that all of it is hyperbole. Believe me, if I'd put a bullet in my skull every time I've contemplated suicide, the world's ammo supply would be running low. No joke. You think you're having a hard time in your life, that livin' ain't precious anymore. Get over it. It never was and never will be. Life sucks. And, here's the zinger... if you do nothing about it, it's GOING to suck. It's going to KEEP sucking. It's not life's fault, it's life's design.
So, you need to look at your life and situation, without self-pity, emotion, or reserve, and decide where it's going to go from now. Look at your friend leaving you in the big scale of things: is that one friendship going to matter 10 years from now? 20? 35? Are you going to miss out on everything in life - the things you enjoy, love, etc. over this one friendship?
What you have, my friend, is a gift. It could be a gift from God, a gift from chance, or a random combination, but the simple fact is that, with 6 billion people in the world, the chances of YOU coming into it are (1/3,000,000,000) for your father, (1/3,000,000,000) for your father, and (1/1,000,000) or so that it was your sperm that got in (forgive the crude language). The odds of you being born were less than 1/9,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000. You're seriously lucky to be here. Wasting something like this on one friendship gone bad is stupid. So I leave you with one final question: are you stupid?
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