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ClaudeFTW
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 Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 09:52 Post subject: I'm a horrible friend. |
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I've been lusting after my best friend's girl ever since spring/summer got here, as soon as she started wearing lighter clothes. But jesus, last night was the tip of the iceberg, I just can't take it anymore, that girl is bloody-fucking gorgeous, she's blonde, she's got brains, she's got funn-ay, she got the tits, ass and legs of a '60's model(voluptous, but noy fat or anything) and he's been treating her like shit, never letting her talk whenever we're talking and shit, making her miserable and to be honest, I've been her shoulder to cry on ever since their relation started sucking.
And to be honest, I feel like a traitor, because I could never steal, or even desire the girlfriend of another friend, especially someone I've known for the better part of the last 15 years. I know these are white-boy problems, but I just can't take it anymore, I will either tell them and never go out with them anymore, or keep it inside and feel like scum around them and my GF.
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 10:01 Post subject: |
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The truth will set you free. Whatever the consequences are , at least you won't feel like an scumbag for hiding your real emotions and feeling guilty like you are right now.
Living a lie is never good.
1 and 2 are still amazing.
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 10:25 Post subject: |
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the answer is totally obvious
fuck her in teh butt
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 11:20 Post subject: |
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I wouldn't feel sorry if he treats her like crap, bastard deserves a knife in the back (from a friend  ).
And she deserves something else "from the back".
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garus
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 11:32 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 11:39 Post subject: |
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If you think you've got a chance to be with her then come clean. If you think you haven't then don't, nothing good will come of you telling your best friend that you've been his girlfriends confidant.
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 12:05 Post subject: |
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If you like her so much go and take her. I doubt that lust for her will go away.
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 13:18 Post subject: |
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So what about your gf? Are you treating her any well by desiring your friends gf? Doesn't that mean that you are not even a tad better than he is?
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Mantis2K9
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 13:27 Post subject: |
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Sadly from my experience most girls like these kind of men, so dont fuck up your friendship, if it makes you better just say to him " stop being such an asshole to your girlfriend, I thought you was better than that " and if he gets all confrontational then fuck him he aint a friend.
But don't expect her to be happy about it, you never know what shit it going on in a womens head.
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 13:40 Post subject: |
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It happens often. but bros before hoes ain't for nothing. a friendship with a mate is more important in the long run than a temporary relationship with a hot chick.
Choose the chick and you'll lose both.
if you don't give a fuck about your mate then make a move, just don't blame it if it all blows up in your face.
I prefer prostitutes myself.
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M4trix
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Mantis2K9
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 13:53 Post subject: |
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| FireMaster wrote: |
I prefer prostitutes myself. |
9 out of 10 serial killers, do to.
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 14:01 Post subject: |
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I could probably want her because I saw how he's treating her, and I hate bros that act like that. But then again, I should probably leave it be, I'm not gonna ruin what I'm having with my girl or the friendship I have with a guy I've known for the better part of my life on the off-chance I could have something with a girl I'm LUSTING(not loving) after. Besides, she wouldn't be the first woman I would want to try something with while being with someone else, it's just that I'm seeing her more often than others.
Better keep it to myself, I'm saving other people. And I don't know how she is in their private life since he is one of the good guys and he never acted like this towards other girls he had.
xTerro's right, I should really keep it to myself and not act upon it because I deserve a proper beating for even thinking of wrecking another friend's home.
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Hierofan
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 14:27 Post subject: |
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fuck him in the butt (!?)
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b0se
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 14:55 Post subject: Re: I'm a horrible friend. |
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| ClaudeFTW wrote: | I've been lusting after my best friend's girl ever since spring/summer got here, as soon as she started wearing lighter clothes. But jesus, last night was the tip of the iceberg, I just can't take it anymore, that girl is bloody-fucking gorgeous, she's blonde, she's got brains, she's got funn-ay, she got the tits, ass and legs of a '60's model(voluptous, but noy fat or anything) and he's been treating her like shit, never letting her talk whenever we're talking and shit, making her miserable and to be honest, I've been her shoulder to cry on ever since their relation started sucking.
And to be honest, I feel like a traitor, because I could never steal, or even desire the girlfriend of another friend, especially someone I've known for the better part of the last 15 years. I know these are white-boy problems, but I just can't take it anymore, I will either tell them and never go out with them anymore, or keep it inside and feel like scum around them and my GF. |
Can't you just fucking find another girl ? Is she he only one ?
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 15:06 Post subject: |
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| Mantis2K9 wrote: | | FireMaster wrote: |
I prefer prostitutes myself. |
9 out of 10 serial killers, do to. |
I... CAN'T... HELP IT!!!
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 15:21 Post subject: |
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Mate, the way I see it is, if he's really treating her that horribly, and if the girl really is as smart as you say, then your friend's ass would be dumped already. Your story just doesn't add up.
1. Either the girl is not really that smart
2. Either she's not telling the whole truth, when complaining to you (basically, this is fact, not just a probability)
3. Or you are seeing more in to the conflict then there is in it.
Either way, lusting for other women, when in a relationship is normal, me and my gf, whom I really love, and I just might marry her one day, have a few rules. Like we can flirt with people, and we do go out a lot without eachother. Keeps things exciting, and we are 100% confident in each others' loyalty. Sometimes, knowing you can have another woman, and pursuing her a little is all the freedom you need, while staying loyal. And then there's porn, which I use liberally, even though we have a great sex life, but sometimes, I just like to fantasize about other women. She knows this, and is cool with this. She doesn't like to fantasize about other men though, so I consider myself doubly lucky.
I say speak to your friend, tell him, that his GF is bitching about him behind his back. Make a conflict, see how it ends up. The goal here not being you gettin the girl, fuck that. The goal is, if they truly don't get along well, they should talk about it, and you could initiate that.
My bet? I bet the chick is leading you on, and talking rubbish about your friend partly out of attention whoring and self pitty. No matter how good some people have it, they still like to feel sorry for themselves.
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 16:20 Post subject: |
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| garus wrote: | | Ekhm... friendzoooned! |
+1001
She needs a shoulder to cry on and bla bla. Nearly everyone loves to have many friends of the opposite sex. FACT.
1 and 2 are still amazing. |
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Nalo
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 16:24 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 16:31 Post subject: |
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Obviously hes in a friend zone since shes got a bf....DUH
bros before hos, screw that shit if you really must then wait untill they break up and fuck her in teh butt
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 16:46 Post subject: |
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| Nalo wrote: | You best start believing in freind zones,
You're in one. |
As for everyone else, I really appreciate the feedback since I can't really talk to anyone around here about it, they're talking too much. I will choose to either do nothing about it so I won't hurt other people for whom I care or tell him about her and get the truth to surface.
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deelix
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 16:52 Post subject: |
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Claude... you are not FTW. Shame on you!
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ClaudeFTW
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 16:59 Post subject: |
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tonizito
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 17:14 Post subject: |
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You need to take the edge off whenever you're about to see her... I recommend some heavy duty fapping.
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Sun, 31st Jul 2011 17:28 Post subject: |
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| JahLux wrote: | Obviously hes in a friend zone since shes got a bf....DUH
bros before hos, screw that shit if you really must then wait untill they break up and fuck her in teh butt |
Ever heard of extra marital affairs and cheating on gf/bf ? 
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| Posted: Mon, 1st Aug 2011 04:12 Post subject: |
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Go for it man. Im currently dating my best friend's ex (they were only together for like maybe 2 or 3 months and they didn't do anything sexual). I started having lunch with her while they were still officially together in January/February 2010. He was treating her like shit and she didn't deserve it. And then they broke up and I told my friend that I liked the girl and he didn't care and was fine with it. Weve been together for over a year now. Best decision I ever made.
However, it kind of did impact my friendship with my best friend (or so called best friend because we dont hang much anymore). We barely hang out anymore because my gf can't stand to be in the same room as he. So be prepared for that impact
PS. if my friend wasn't fine with it, I would have probably still gone after her secretly
I think I did something similar before. I used to have a friend named Ed and we were both in love with an asian chick named Betty back in early 2009. I dont think he knew that I liked that girl but I knew he was deeply in love with her. There was also another guy named Andy who I think liked her as well. Both very cool guys who I considered my friend and still do. But I mainly used them for information on Betty at the time since that chick was unstable I had to learn as much as I could about her. I would have instantly screwed them over (or anyone else for that matter) for a chance at her. Its how I roll 
EDIT: another funny connection I just realized. My current best friend (the guy whos ex Im dating), I met him because back in Fall 2008, I used to have french class with Betty's lesbian best friend at the time named Ellie. So me, Ellie and my current best friend all had that class together. I liked Ellie at the time and so did he. I used to pretend to not like her but I think he was still jealous because I used to leave class with her every time. I just used to pretend to be her good friends with Ellie but really I liked her.....until I found out shes a lesbian ofcourse
He used to hate my guts at that time cuz he thought I liked Ellie. We then became best friends a year later when we ended up in the same french class together and ELlie wasn't there. But for some reason, until this day he STILL denies that he ever liked Ellie hes such a bullshitter
EDIT 2: Just found the thread about me bitching about that 2008 situation
http://www.nfohump.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=48728&highlight=
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| Posted: Mon, 1st Aug 2011 07:41 Post subject: |
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In other words: Don't become this guy.
Clown Fiesta
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| Posted: Mon, 1st Aug 2011 08:43 Post subject: |
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| xTerro wrote: | | In other words: Don't become this guy. |
Another thing I just remembered is that my best friend being a bad boyfriend to my current gf is partially my fault. Back in the end of 2009 we both got into relationships at approximately the same time (same week I think). I was dating a stupid bitch named jen and he was dating my current gf. We used to both ditch our GFs and come over to my house to play modern warfare 2. I remember I used to brag about that here on this forum and then I got dumped a few weeks later
EDIT:
At first I was like: http://www.nfohump.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=56957&highlight=warfare
BUt then I was like: http://www.nfohump.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=1117270&highlight=warfare#1117270
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| Posted: Mon, 1st Aug 2011 08:53 Post subject: |
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after reading all of this, I realize my buddies... they could be secretly in love with my woman. I should kick all their asses!
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