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 Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 12:28 Post subject: Pushing girls |
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So I'm flirting with a girl, but she's the kind that like to be pushed/ordered around.
Where is the line, between pushing and leaving her some breathing space?
If I leave her the initiative - there is no progress. But if I push her - there's magic happening. So to what extent should I push?
Today I called her to get together, she said yes, but told me that she can't tonight, so I told her it's ok for her to call me when she can. But now i think I should have pushed for tomorrow evening. argh! I'm usually a very personal freedom oriented guy, so this forcing is something kinda new for me..
Any advice?
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Last edited by StrEagle on Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 12:31; edited 1 time in total
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Lutzifer
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 12:31 Post subject: |
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maybe, just maybe, if you re not the pushy type and she needs somebody pushy, you re not going to be a good couple anyways, so try to see if she ll manage to call back (e.g. see if she is able to adapt to you, instead of you forcing shit)
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 12:35 Post subject: |
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If you're thinking about a relatinship, drop the girl immediately. Such girls have a habit of getting clingy and nagging very fast. If a girl allows you to force her every time into whatever you want to do, she's not relationship material (unless you're a dick). It can be convenient and easy in the beginning, but will blow up in your face soon. Maybe she thinks you're the pushing kind, so she lets you do it just because she likes you too much?
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 12:36 Post subject: |
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Nah, it's kinda casual thing, both ways.
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 12:54 Post subject: |
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| StrEagle wrote: | | Nah, it's kinda casual thing, both ways. |
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Horrordee
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 13:47 Post subject: |
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Does she like it rough in the bedroom?
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 13:53 Post subject: |
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I don't know. Haven't used big force.
| Lutzifer wrote: | | and yes, mine is only average |
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 14:35 Post subject: |
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i think you should push her to anal
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 15:42 Post subject: |
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| Lathieza wrote: | | i think you should push her to anal |
yes make her fuck you in the butt, with a strap on.
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| Posted: Wed, 2nd Nov 2011 16:13 Post subject: |
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Girls with no initiative are only bad for you long term, you'll get bored of her, and by that time she might have gotten used to you. I'd drop her, if she's not an exceptionally good lay.
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| Posted: Thu, 3rd Nov 2011 07:16 Post subject: |
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You forcing shit (as Lutz suggested, I like) just means she has really bad boundaries and probably a whole whack of other issues that you will just end up complaining about on here.
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