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Ugh, fucking women, i suggest that if she talks and texts you text back, think about when, so you dont spam her while working, surely the 3 day thing was a bitter drink, but she replied... ok reply then, she disappears again? wait for the reply, in the end you will have to decide if you seriously like a women like this, going on and off.
I would just say do whatever the hell you want to, because its who you are, ur current personality, ull learn a lot and maybe later you will learn all these tips yourself and keep dating and getting the thing right.
Edit: you could say it "molds you" the experience i mean, in my case it did, and im currently pretty good to date (even though i have my downs)
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ixigia
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 17:47 Post subject: |
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| Lopin18 wrote: | | Edit: you could say it "molds you" the experience i mean, in my case it did, and im currently pretty good to date (even though i have my downs) |
Haha I'm expecting your typical date to be: do you like me motherfucker? I double dare you! you already know the correct answer so get into my car and let me entertain you. And yes, before you ask, you'll sleep with me tonight!   |
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 17:51 Post subject: |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 17:56 Post subject: |
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| garus wrote: | | ixigia wrote: | | Lopin18 wrote: | | Edit: you could say it "molds you" the experience i mean, in my case it did, and im currently pretty good to date (even though i have my downs) |
Haha I'm expecting your typical date to be: do you like me motherfucker? I double dare you! you already know the correct answer so get into my car and let me entertain you. And yes, before you ask, you'll sleep with me tonight! |
Knowing the modern woman this works more often than being nice  |
Damn true!
Go Acer, it's worth a try   |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 18:10 Post subject: |
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Sounds more like a rape team: Lopin charms them with the help of Garus' money and I drive the van 
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 18:17 Post subject: |
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ixigia
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 18:24 Post subject: |
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but it was inevitable! the best way to break the tension till the next move.  also FHITB
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 19:10 Post subject: |
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Now he stops posting and appears in a video being chopped to pieces by a russian skinny sob.
Hey! Yeah lets team up, i charm them, you pay, i fuck them, you pay the cab in the morning, i go home and you then call them and tell them that ur the rich one and its yours.
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garus
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TheSaint
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 19:41 Post subject: |
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Dude, harden the fuck up. You are the men, she is the women. You need to go after her. Dont be down if you dont get a txt back within a second. Its life, move on! Continue to be nice to her, it seem like you really like her, she is worht the investment..
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 19:57 Post subject: |
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It's not true, that you shouldn't change for anyone! It's one of these one-liners, that make you feel well about yourself, but ultimately fuck you up. Like: never give up your dreams. Yeah well, what if your dream sucks and would never work ... Life is a bitch, and if you want to be successful in anything, you have to adapt.
I have changed a lot since I am with my current girlfriend, and it's things I always wanted to change (nothing major), and she gave me strength to do it. She changed as well, also for the better, and it's great. Living together, like we do now, you have to compromise to be happy (of course if it's only the man doing it, then he's pussy-whipped right there!). Greatest thing about it all is, neither of us is controlling, we never get jealous, trust each other very much, and it's great. I in fact love the fact, that she has a lot of male friends (it would be really fucked up, if she had typical twenty-something female friends, because those are fucked up bitches the lot of 'em).
Anyway, the time will come, when you will change for someone, and you'll be happy about it.
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On topic: be a fucking man already. Appear strong and dominant.
1. She didn't respond to you, because she was thinking you over, like I said before. Maybe she had an ex, another date, I can't know what. Conclusion is, that she texted back with a friendly tone, that means you should go ahead and push for another date.
2. Don't be a pussy, don't ask her out maybe, if she feels like it, casually. If you really fancy this girl, then come out strong. Prepare a date, tell her she's coming. Be cocky and be funny. Being nice doesn't mean you have to be a puss.
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 20:01 Post subject: |
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| Radicalus wrote: | | Lopin18 wrote: | Im pretty smooth, only thing i dont have is money, if i had money i would have died of aids by now.
Garus, theres a certain true in that, but lets leave it at that, no need to enrage someone now |
Lopin, I like you and all, but I remember your relationship issues, and you were seriously pussy-whipped man. |
I have my ups and downs and i had that damn crazy women thinking shit of all kinds and a damn ex that made me spin around. For some reason when im an ass it works, when i want to make shit work it fails. In my case ive had women i cared for, so i do know what it means to be emotionally atatched, but i swear to god, the more i try to make something work nicely and to get what i really want, shit just blows up.
Lucky for me i turned to the bastard side, closed the ex deal, closed the gf deal. Restarted the gf deal (same one i had talked about) but this time i made it very clear that everything had to stay behind and start anew. Now being an ass works and the relationship moves on a good course. Funny thing is stuff works better when im single and just messing around. But i cant afford to go that way.
Fuck understanding women.
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 20:02 Post subject: |
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| Acer wrote: | So I called her an hour ago, no answer. Called her again just now, again no answer.
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| Posted: Mon, 26th Nov 2012 20:09 Post subject: |
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| Lopin18 wrote: | | Radicalus wrote: | | Lopin18 wrote: | Im pretty smooth, only thing i dont have is money, if i had money i would have died of aids by now.
Garus, theres a certain true in that, but lets leave it at that, no need to enrage someone now |
Lopin, I like you and all, but I remember your relationship issues, and you were seriously pussy-whipped man. |
I have my ups and downs and i had that damn crazy women thinking shit of all kinds and a damn ex that made me spin around. For some reason when im an ass it works, when i want to make shit work it fails. In my case ive had women i cared for, so i do know what it means to be emotionally atatched, but i swear to god, the more i try to make something work nicely and to get what i really want, shit just blows up.
Lucky for me i turned to the bastard side, closed the ex deal, closed the gf deal. Restarted the gf deal (same one i had talked about) but this time i made it very clear that everything had to stay behind and start anew. Now being an ass works and the relationship moves on a good course. Funny thing is stuff works better when im single and just messing around. But i cant afford to go that way.
Fuck understanding women. |
First, I'm happy it works now.
Second: I told you for a long time to not let her behave as such. You see, what you describe as being nice, is actually often perceived as being weak. Women (and some men) don't do this consciously, they smell it and act up on it. It's a push shove mechanics, classic. You apologize and try to explain yourself, she just attacks you more. You have to be firm and in control. That's very important.
I don't really think you're being a dick now, I'd say you're being a man. Congratulations on finding your balls mate! Cheers!
To avoid confusion: I'm NOT saying treat women like dirt (it certainly works, btw). I'm saying treat your partner AND yourself as well with respect. It's not enough to give respect, you also have to demand respect. That's how it works. If your woman doesn't respect you, then you are pussy-whipped, and that's sad.
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| Posted: Tue, 27th Nov 2012 10:33 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 27th Nov 2012 10:39 Post subject: |
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As for you Acer, bro you're doing it all wrong. Too many expectations, she has no obligation towards you, remember that. Bleh Honestly you seem to be throwing all advices and reasoning out the window. Can't see a good outcome out of this.
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| Posted: Wed, 28th Nov 2012 22:02 Post subject: |
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Ok i got a text just now. She had spoken with her ex during the weekend and wanted to be sure whether she had feelings for him which she did.
Its ok by me, i just wish i got 5 minutes with the ex, really want to kill the dickless cunt right now.
Typical when you finally like someone this happens...
Dont mess with God, he can impregnate your girlfriend/wife without taking his pants off!
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| Posted: Wed, 28th Nov 2012 22:36 Post subject: |
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Not to be a negative nancy, but you probably scared her off with a million texts and calls. Next time chill the fuck out, play some FPS and smoke some weed.
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| Posted: Wed, 28th Nov 2012 22:42 Post subject: |
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| Acer wrote: | Ok i got a text just now. She had spoken with her ex during the weekend and wanted to be sure whether she had feelings for him which she did.
Its ok by me, i just wish i got 5 minutes with the ex, really want to kill the dickless cunt right now.
Typical when you finally like someone this happens... |
Wait... you think he is to blame? 
By your wording SHE spoke to him to be sure she still had feelings for him, not the other way around.
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Wed, 28th Nov 2012 22:44 Post subject: |
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It's ALL in your head and your hands Acer. You messed up with your obsessiveness and scared her away. Fear of rejection all the way, esp. the kind of jealousy you show. You got too emotionally involved too quick.
Go buy a case of beer and watch Star Trek or something the entire coming weekend.
Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn!
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