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She got her period today which means Im getting a second GTX 680. Im off the hook and life is good! Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool



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Haha congrats then Very Happy

Though I must admit that the idea of a little Timechange running around, settings things on fire, washing his Baby Touch monitor with water and soap, and kissing all the fat toddler girls was quite exciting Cool Face <3
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PostPosted: Wed, 3rd Apr 2013 09:33    Post subject:
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Haha congrats then Very Happy

Though I must admit that the idea of a little Timechange running around, settings things on fire, washing his Baby Touch monitor with water and soap, and kissing all the fat toddler girls was quite exciting Cool Face <3




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I've never seen anyone who was friend-zoned so hardly, that the girl actually feels free to send him nudez of her. TC, you're the fucking man.
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PostPosted: Thu, 4th Apr 2013 09:46    Post subject:
You enjoy all this drama, eh?
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PostPosted: Thu, 4th Apr 2013 14:04    Post subject:
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She got her period today which means Im getting a second GTX 680. Im off the hook and life is good! Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool


hahaha! Live it up my dude, live.it.up.


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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 05:23    Post subject:
A little update on my situation with Gina. It didn’t exactly end as happily ever after as I had hoped last week. I was getting over the breakup and taking it slow day by day. The idea of having Gina as a friend with benefit was growing on me and it sounded nice because I could still have her spend the night with me just like old times. But things took a turn for the worst on Saturday. Remember how I mentioned we met on a dating site, well we both decided to open our accounts again a little over a week ago. But she said that she wasn’t looking to date any time soon and I said the same (and I meant it).

Well on Saturday night I received the most hurtful text from her. We were talking and all of a sudden she says “so I think I met someone.” That really fucking hurt that she already met somebody and that she had moved on so fast. Apparently this new guy “Carl” has very similar personality as her. I was trying to make sense of the whole situation but once again I broke down like an idiot. The little bit of joy I was feeling for a few days was gone. Everything just turned to shit in an instant.

I don’t understand why I feel this way about a girl that I wasn’t planning to be with forever. I WAS planning to break up with her eventually. Anyways I told her immediately on Saturday night that it really hurt me that she had already moved on so fast and that I also found it quite insulting. You just dont do that to somebody you care about right?

Anyways she called me immediately from her work (still Saturday) and asked if there was a diner near my home so that we could talk. This was the first I saw her since that Tuesday when she walked out of my life. I met her at the diner at around midnight and we spoke for about 2 hours. I barely touched my food. I just wanted to know why she lead me on like she did for 2 months if she was going just break my heart like this.

I then found out that I wasn't a very good boyfriend to her. I have never taken her out to dinner and I barely spent any money or effort on her. For example, I never bought her flowers or any gift to show appreciation. All this time I thought she was the best gf ever by doing everything for me, but she was keeping count of everything. Apparently I only visited her home 4 times whereas she came over to mine over 20 times. Also she had to always buy the condoms, not me. And she bought quite a lot of them. She also had to spend a lot of money on gas for travelling to my home. Basically, I did absolutely nothing except text her sometimes, speak to her on the phone, and fuck her whenever she was horny (which was always). Sometimes I wouldn't even fuck her, I would just fake tiredness.

And then she asked me something that really made me question myself. She asked me what I know about her... I was completely silent because in that diner was the first time I realized that I know absolutely nothing about Gina. I didn't know what her favorite color was, where she went to school before she met me. I know nothing about her life before she met me and I never cared to ask. She on the other hand, knows every little detail about my whole life from when I was born. This night did open my eyes a bit but it still did not excuse the fact that she already met somebody...

And then she told me about this Carl guy and how they have similar personalities. They have not met in person yet and only started talking via text since Thursday April 4th. Me and Gina do not have similar personality at all and I couldn't deny that. All we had was a physical connection. I then asked her why she let me get away with all those things like not taking her to dinner or movies ever, and she said it was because she found me attractive. Apparently she found me more attractive than any guy she has ever dated and still finds me more attractive than this new Carl guy. In a way I was kind of flattered but also hurt that she really didn't like my personality too much. She said she liked my personality sometimes but most of the time I just annoyed her with my stuff. She also said that I am "weird as shit"

And all those things she said about wanting to marry me and wanting to move in with me, it was all because she felt physical lust. So then I asked, if she never really liked my personality, why does she still care about me at all. Why did she drive all the way to near my home (40 minutes drive from her work) at night after work just to tell me these things in person. She said she did it because even though she doesn't feel the same about me as she once did, she still loves me as a friend.

It was just a really weird night. I broke down at certain points of the conversation and actually was tearing in a public place (nobody saw thankfully). At the end of the conversation she said we will stay friends indefinitely but we can't have sex because of two reasons. Reason one is because clearly Im not ready for something like that and reason two is because it would be wrong to this Carl guy who she never met yet. But she still does like him and wants to meet him

I then asked her what if she just spends the night and not have sex, she says that would be impossible because shes gonna wanna have sex with me. Anyways to thats the situation, no more sleeping over or sex with Gina ever. Shes going to be dating a new guy named Carl (I think they are meeting for the first time this Thursday). This asshole guy is already angry that she came to see me Saturday night at the diner even though he hasn’t even met her yet. What a fucking retard

So at this rate, it seems to me like this friendship will not last. She firmly believes it will last, but I think that once she starts dating this Carl moron, hes not gonna let her stay friends with me and that’s how it always works.

Anyways the only way to get over this is with a rebound. I remember back in 2009 when that crazy Asian girl Betty broke my heart, I forced myself to like a new girl named Nicky (I remember I even made a thread about her) during a summer course I was taking and it really did help me get over Betty. Seems like any time I like a girl, it ALWAYS ends in me getting fucked over

So in conclusion: My love life is always bound to end this way. Gina and I are friends for now but eventually we probably will stop speaking because of this carl idiot



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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 07:00    Post subject:
I had a good wall of text but im gonna turn into my bad side and share my perception, i find it distasteful to bottle up things and blow them open at the end, all that stuff about who visits who, money, travels, etc, why didnt she TALK about it, sometimes these things happen just because someone is open to do it, if its happening its not like ur using her or forcing her, if she talked i think things would have been different because you probably didnt THINK it was a bad thing. Forget about that, i think thats a very bad sign from her part.

Now, she hangs out in a dating site, i dont know in USA but..... to me... i find it hard to take someone seriously through that, specially if i hear she has done webcam shows etc, come on, chill out, shes very open, why wouldnt she meet someone soon, consider those facts again and think about who she is.

And last, as i would say to a close friend, you became involved with a very unusual person, very open, probably not stable "lets get married material", you were taking it chilled out and then you get dumped and you get all hurt and attached because she is using all the things she saw to prove her points, she never really talked it out in the moment, she bottled it up. Now she met another guy fast, in the dating site, so again i ask, do u think she is worth it? is that good material?

Hmm, i would be pissed off, i would close up that chapter and move on. From the parts i read, she was very open and usually i say that when its a pandora's box.

Edit: Ehmmmmm, i quickly checked back to see some more details..... TC... if u were i friend of mine i would have beaten u up with a stick, i wont say much but men usually use dating sites cause they are fucking fed and use it as last resort , now a women, who just has to say "fuck me" and gets 10 men in line, using a dating site? fuck, neon danger signs would be too subtle.

Now you also gotta calm down and rethink what relationships should be about, you lost ur calm and ur ideas pretty easy, that talk about another person, that anger etc, that wont ever work, that sticks with you, did u see that time she checked ur phone because she was cheated at? thats trauma, thats being broken and unable to carry a relationship, and if you keep thinking and blowing up like that, you will soon be one of those who cant carry a relationship because you carry a burden of bad experiences on top of u.


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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 07:09    Post subject:
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Now, she hangs out in a dating site, i dont know in USA but..... to me... i find it hard to take someone seriously through that, specially if i hear she has done webcam shows etc, come on, chill out, shes very open, why wouldnt she meet someone soon, consider those facts again and think about who she is..


Youre confusing my ex gf Gina with my best friend Nina (the naked girl who sends naked pics). This is why I didn't want to explain anything regarding Nina because it makes this thread more confusing. Forget about Nina (the naked webcam girl)

Gina never posted or shared naked pics of herself on the internet. She once sent me a picture of her wearing a bra via text but thats about it. And shes not exactly very open. She had her dating site account closed since the week we became bf and gf back in January. And she was very loyal while we were a couple. One night she was drunk as hell on her birthday on February 14 and I was with her and her friends at a bar and one of her ex BFs was also at the same bar and tried to kiss her and she pushed him away. I didn't say anything at the time but then later on I asked why she pushed him away, and she said because she loves me. Shes a pretty tough chick who doesn't get persuaded easily and doesn't take shit from people



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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 07:22    Post subject:
Fuck this is a mess lol, just drop everything and move on. Im too late to read and understand what went on Very Happy but never argue too much with people who want to move away from you, you can talk but asking things like another guy etc will only hurt u, its best to cut off and move on. Things get too fuckign complicated when someone asks to break up because of an internal doubt or a decision that is unrelated to a direct action from you.
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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 07:36    Post subject:
Its more complicated than just cutting off all contact and moving on. It was easy for me to do that with my previous gf who I dated for almost 3 years. I didn't give a shit about her because we barely saw eachother. But with Gina it was just really different, we spent almost every hour together for 2 months. She smothered me with love and affection and attention. I felt like she was my best friend. I have never felt so loved before, it was really nice to be cared about that much. Also Gina knows things about me that the previous 3 year bitch doesnt, thats how close we had gotten. And we still do talk everyday even though were not together anymore. Im just sad I will have to give this up eventually. I was hoping to at least hold on to the friendship part.

Fuck I just hate the idea of going back to my old shitty life from before I met her

I have actually made plans to hang out with her this coming Friday. She said "yea maybe." But her first date with this Carl idiot is on Thursday night. So I guess we willl see what happens and whether she decides this carl guy is more important to her than her friendship with me.

On Saturday night I was sitting in her car after the dinner and before I got out of the car to go home, I sat there for a good 2 minutes and looked at her and I told her "I have a weird feeling that this might be the very last time I ever see you". She thought I was being dramatic and told me wel see eachother again but I could just feel it in my stomach that that actually was the very last time i ever see her

I hope her date with this carl guy fails



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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 07:56    Post subject:
timechange01 wrote:
I don’t understand why I feel this way about a girl that I wasn’t planning to be with forever. I WAS planning to break up with her eventually.

She did things her way, rejected you, didn't let you fulfill your plans... That's why. Seems to be that classic "I want what I can't have" kinda thing.

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I then found out that I wasn't a very good boyfriend to her. I have never taken her out to dinner and I barely spent any money or effort on her. For example, I never bought her flowers or any gift to show appreciation. All this time I thought she was the best gf ever by doing everything for me, but she was keeping count of everything. Apparently I only visited her home 4 times whereas she came over to mine over 20 times. Also she had to always buy the condoms, not me. And she bought quite a lot of them. She also had to spend a lot of money on gas for travelling to my home. Basically, I did absolutely nothing except text her sometimes, speak to her on the phone, and fuck her whenever she was horny (which was always). Sometimes I wouldn't even fuck her, I would just fake tiredness.

Of course you weren't the best boyfriend, you never cared much for her! And you said it here. Besides, she doesn't seem to be genuinely nice, it looks like she only did all those things because she expected a lot in return, and dumped you when she noticed she wasn't getting it. If she really really liked you, maybe she would do those things without expecting (and keeping count of) so many things, just to be nice.

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She said she liked my personality sometimes but most of the time I just annoyed her with my stuff. She also said that I am "weird as shit"

I don't know you, and I certainly don't mean to offend you, but it sounds to me that you're the kind that goes on and on about yourself all the time. That would explain why she knows every little detail of your life while you know nothing about her... But this also may have something to do with the fact that you never loved her in the first place (you only truly wanted her after she dumped you, which is a side-effect of being rejected).

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Anyways to thats the situation, no more sleeping over or sex with Gina ever. Shes going to be dating a new guy named Carl (I think they are meeting for the first time this Thursday). This asshole guy is already angry that she came to see me Saturday night at the diner even though he hasn’t even met her yet. What a fucking retard

He can't be angry (more like jealous) at you, but you can call him an asshole without even knowing him?

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So at this rate, it seems to me like this friendship will not last. She firmly believes it will last, but I think that once she starts dating this Carl moron, hes not gonna let her stay friends with me and that’s how it always works.

Anyways the only way to get over this is with a rebound. I remember back in 2009 when that crazy Asian girl Betty broke my heart, I forced myself to like a new girl named Nicky (I remember I even made a thread about her) during a summer course I was taking and it really did help me get over Betty. Seems like any time I like a girl, it ALWAYS ends in me getting fucked over

So in conclusion: My love life is always bound to end this way. Gina and I are friends for now but eventually we probably will stop speaking because of this carl idiot


You don't need her as a friend. You don't need her at all. Move on. And take it slow next time, don't go opening your life/heart/mind on the first week Laughing
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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 08:02    Post subject:
BTW, she could just be playing you. Telling you all that stuff (what you should have done) and mentioning this new guy to make you jealous, hoping that you will fight for her and change your ways. IMO, you should see it as a big warning sign and run away. Remember you didn't really like her in the first place. What you're feeling now is probably just an illusion caused by the rejection.
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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 08:12    Post subject:
Invasor wrote:
BTW, she could just be playing you. Telling you all that stuff (what you should have done) and mentioning this new guy to make you jealous, hoping that you will fight for her and change your ways. IMO, you should see it as a big warning sign and run away. Remember you didn't really like her in the first place. What you're feeling now is probably just an illusion caused by the rejection.


I may not know her whole life story but I know this girls personality and she would never do something like that. She wasn't expecting a full pay back of the stuff she was doing for me, she just wanted to go out sometimes and maybe flowers once in a while. Remember I NEVER took her out to dinner ever. So she does have the right to be upset about that but yes she should have said something. She said she was giving me hints by mentioning that we never go out, but I didn't take those comments seriously at the time.

Shes very genuine in what she says. She could have easily just not told me anything about this carl guy that she is going to meet but she did tell me. And also coming all the way to my home after her job just pick me up by car, take me to a diner at midnight explain all these things to me just because I told her that I was hurt. If she was playing me she would be heartless, and if she was heartless she wouldnt have come all the way here in the middle of the night just to talk to me

And yes it is true I did talk about my own life a lot and didn't care too much about hers and that was a huge mistake on my part

None of my friends understand why I feel sad about all this when I was planning to end it with her eventually. It doesn't make any sense to me either but I still do hope her date fails on thursday



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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 10:15    Post subject:
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Invasor wrote:

None of my friends understand why I feel sad about all this when I was planning to end it with her eventually. It doesn't make any sense to me either but I still do hope her date fails on thursday
Hmm...you seem like a person, who goes by the policy "if I can't have you then no one can". Shitty way to live Rolling Eyes
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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 11:13    Post subject:
timechange01 wrote:

I may not know her whole life story but I know this girls personality and she would never do something like that. She wasn't expecting a full pay back of the stuff she was doing for me, she just wanted to go out sometimes and maybe flowers once in a while. Remember I NEVER took her out to dinner ever. So she does have the right to be upset about that but yes she should have said something. She said she was giving me hints by mentioning that we never go out, but I didn't take those comments seriously at the time.


Em so what did you actually do?

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Shes very genuine in what she says. She could have easily just not told me anything about this carl guy that she is going to meet but she did tell me. And also coming all the way to my home after her job just pick me up by car, take me to a diner at midnight explain all these things to me just because I told her that I was hurt. If she was playing me she would be heartless, and if she was heartless she wouldnt have come all the way here in the middle of the night just to talk to me


It's obvious she's playing you. Heartless? People do it without even realizing. Before you said you didn't really care about her that much, things have changed haven't day Very Happy And you being the drama queen you are, have totally taken the bait. Ask yourself why should she tell you about a guy she hasn't even met yet? If she had your best interest at heart, she would have come over, comforted you and left without talking about a new guy she's seeing. Before you said, she gave you all her attention, while you didn't. Things are changing eh?

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None of my friends understand why I feel sad about all this when I was planning to end it with her eventually. It doesn't make any sense to me either but I still do hope her date fails on thursday


Because like Invasor said, now that things haven't worked out, now that things didn't go how you planned them, its become interesting. Let's get real for a minute, after skimming over this thread, its obvious you like attention (a lot of it, since we have a whole thread about YOU here) and drama. Basically you're living a soap-opera. I didn't care much for this girl, but now that she has another date, i want her for myself and fuck the other guy.

The only sound advice is stop it with this girl, but we know you won't since you enjoy it.
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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 11:15    Post subject:
Well at least she gave you some valuable information. Use it to better yourself.
Even though she could have communicated better, it is still nice that she eventually did.

Like you said you weren't really into her from the beginning, and that showed and for her the physical attractiveness kept her around in the hopes she could change you a bit, but that's usually an error everyone makes. You can't really change someone that much.

Now that Carl dude being annoyed at you is a bit normal. Most likely what she told you about she whined to him. He is interested so he feels to hack on you some more. After all if a girl came to you and told you about a guy who never showed interest or did nice things you'll prolly going to say: what an arse

The weird part you can't blame, most here are weird you are no exception Laughing

But well the whole thing to get out of this is still: work a bit on yourself. And maybe go for the ones you are interested in not just to get over someone or just because you are lonely.

Shame you aren't into Nina sexually since, even though she has a lot of issues you'd seem a nice fit. It's not rocket science, a partner shouldn't be only someone you can love it should also be one of your better friends if you want something lasting.

Any who, I hope you realise that it's mostly the 'what you can't have' effect so you can move on a bit easier. And when you are ready and not interested in Nina, ask her to hook you up she seems to know you best so maybe she can steer you in a better way Smile


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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 12:19    Post subject:
oh man so much drama
How hard is it to lead a simple life
fuck bitches
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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 18:21    Post subject:
FireMaster wrote:
oh man so much drama
How hard is it to lead a simple life
fuck bitches
get money


Well you're not living the american dream (yet?) are ya? so it ain't easy Laughing
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PostPosted: Tue, 9th Apr 2013 18:25    Post subject:
timechange01 wrote:
Shes very genuine in what she says. She could have easily just not told me anything about this carl guy that she is going to meet but she did tell me. And also coming all the way to my home after her job just pick me up by car, take me to a diner at midnight explain all these things to me just because I told her that I was hurt. If she was playing me she would be heartless, and if she was heartless she wouldnt have come all the way here in the middle of the night just to talk to me

And yes it is true I did talk about my own life a lot and didn't care too much about hers and that was a huge mistake on my part

None of my friends understand why I feel sad about all this when I was planning to end it with her eventually. It doesn't make any sense to me either but I still do hope her date fails on thursday


Of course she told you about the new guy, she wants to make you jealous. And if she was heartless, you wouldn't try anything, it would be easier for you to move on.
This way she's all like "you see, you fucked up, and now there's this new guy, but I'm still here for you, just not for long so hurry up...".

The thing is you only want her now that she dumped you, it's easy to ignore the fact that you wanted to dump her (for a reason, by the way). It's hard to believe it will last if you do get back with her. You'll probably get bored quickly.
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PostPosted: Wed, 10th Apr 2013 09:03    Post subject:
Alright guys I really appreciate all the advice. I have decided that this is a lost and hopeless situation. It doesn't matter if the date with this carl guy fails because after carl there will be another guy and then another guy after that.

Ive decided Im done with this girl in any romantic way. I will stay friends with her if she wants, but I am no longer going to chase after her. I spent today with a friend of mine (whom I actually had a crush on for 2 years) and we had such a great time just spending the whole day together (shopping, eating, drinking). She reassured me that wanting Gina back is all in my head and that its not what I really want. I already have what I really wanted during the whole relationship, my freedom. She also made single life sound really fun. I just had such an awesome day, I feel like Im almost back to normal. I really needed this Smile

So yea thats pretty much the end of it. Forget Gina, she and Carl can go do whatever they wish



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Just buy the second gtx 680, it will not hurt your feelings unless there is not working SLI profile for specific game. You will be probably the most happier person in the world, PhysX damn! Laughing.
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PostPosted: Wed, 10th Apr 2013 13:54    Post subject:
Good, ive had a lot of bad experiences in my life and 2 or 3 were devastating, but i got over it and over the years i learned that meeting friends will always yield better results in life than living in a constant women hunting mode. Usually friends bring in more friends and sometimes the occasional friend that you get to know and like and usually its the best way to meet someone worth it.

Also sharing with said friends will always give you valuable insight and feedback about yourself.
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PostPosted: Wed, 10th Apr 2013 19:07    Post subject:
Don't go for the "stay friends" part, it will just interfere with future relationships..

Trust me, it's simpler to learn from it, and grow from it, if you cut the cord.
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PostPosted: Wed, 10th Apr 2013 19:33    Post subject:
Yeah, why friends? Don't you have enough?
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PostPosted: Wed, 10th Apr 2013 19:37    Post subject:
Namarie wrote:
Don't go for the "stay friends" part, it will just interfere with future relationships..

Trust me, it's simpler to learn from it, and grow from it, if you cut the cord.


Seriously, this is some good advice here. I mean to each his own, but I've also found out the hard way as well. Especially if you jump into a new relationship, it might end up hurting it more than you know.

Put her in the past and move forward bud Wink


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PostPosted: Wed, 10th Apr 2013 20:03    Post subject:
Yea Im starting to see that. I just cant see this friendship working out. Maybe we will reconcile in a few months/years. But for now Im just gonna stop talking to her

Hanging out with an old crush yesterday really helped quite a lot. Oh but unfortunately Ive been friend-zoned by this girl years ago Laughing but its okay shes ACTUALLY a good friend who has been there when things are going well and when things are going shitty. Shes excited that Im finally single for the first time in years and that now we can go out and have fun and not be tied down by relationships. I dont need a rebound or anything, I think Im fine. Im looking forward to the future again Smile

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PostPosted: Wed, 10th Apr 2013 21:37    Post subject:
Namarie wrote:
Don't go for the "stay friends" part, it will just interfere with future relationships..

Trust me, it's simpler to learn from it, and grow from it, if you cut the cord.


Ugh, i definitely learned this in recent years, i always thought i could manage the past as friendships, but it crashes head on with future relationships as only you know whats going on and makes things a clusterfuck of problems when others try to understand it. Better off cutting ties.
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