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kazemaky




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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 12:58    Post subject:
actually we talked things through properly and we're going with a friends with benefits deal for now. She told me she doesnt want to lose me from her life so she's ok with it. Im not so convinced of it yet, so when it gets awkward Ill end it.


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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 13:03    Post subject:
At least you did good now on your side and you can have all the fun with her you want Smile


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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 13:25    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 13:32    Post subject:
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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 14:55    Post subject:
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so when it gets awkward Ill end it.


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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 16:20    Post subject:
Roll with it. She knows what you want from her so just enjoy it.

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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 22:55    Post subject:
Nalo wrote:
kazemaky wrote:
actually we talked things through properly and we're going with a friends with benefits deal for now. She told me she doesnt want to lose me from her life so she's ok with it. Im not so convinced of it yet, so when it gets awkward Ill end it.

Wow, treat her like shit and she still comes running back! Well done, you've found the female version of sellob Cool Face


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kazemaky




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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 23:23    Post subject:
ive really made sure what my stance is and she is ok with it and I even told her the conditions when it would end. She says it's ok, so I'll take this opportunity. Not like she's not getting anything from this. We live too far away for normal relationship for me anyways.


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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 23:33    Post subject:
From now on I will project all my women-problems on you Laughing
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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 23:44    Post subject:
you're doing good, and still being decent. Just dont get her pregnant Laughing
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kazemaky




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PostPosted: Tue, 24th Dec 2013 23:52    Post subject:
:I that would suck major ass so we have that covered Razz


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PostPosted: Wed, 25th Dec 2013 00:27    Post subject:
She's gonna try and put a spell on you with her vagina! Soon you'll be clingier than a sellob sobbing in a corner!


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kazemaky




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PostPosted: Mon, 17th Feb 2014 21:17    Post subject:
It ended today Sad I really got to like her as a friend. Talked about everything with her. Ive never been so open in my life. She started falling for me more each time we met and she couldnt take it anymore. I feel like shit inside. Im still quite certain I dont feel romantic affection towards her tho. Here's hoping im not in denial or something and realise that when it's too late. Feels like shit :/


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PostPosted: Mon, 17th Feb 2014 23:33    Post subject:
kazemaky wrote:
It ended today Sad I really got to like her as a friend. Talked about everything with her. Ive never been so open in my life. She started falling for me more each time we met and she couldnt take it anymore. I feel like shit inside. Im still quite certain I dont feel romantic affection towards her tho. Here's hoping im not in denial or something and realise that when it's too late. Feels like shit :/


You may think that you've done the wrong thing in the future, but its your mind playing tricks on you. We all like to idealize the past and you may start to think that "hey maybe it could have worked".

Well you did the right thing. If it didn't click at all, it never would have. So even if you feel guilty later, fuck it. If something was meant to happen it would have.
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kazemaky




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PostPosted: Mon, 17th Feb 2014 23:37    Post subject:
Well I really treasured the friend part we had so it's not really "fuck it" for me. I dont feel quilty for not having romantic feelings for her, but I do feel frustrated at this situation.


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PostPosted: Mon, 17th Feb 2014 23:39    Post subject:
kazemaky wrote:
Well I really treasured the friend part we had so it's not really "fuck it" for me. I dont feel quilty for not having romantic feelings for her, but I do feel frustrated at this situation.


The fuck it was meant if you start feeling guilty about not being romantically involved with her.

Of course you're frustrated, but its best for her and probably you. Its hard to hang around someone you're in love with while he isn't.
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