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I had something similiar happen to me a few years ago. I dated a girl who stuttered like me, I really liked her and she seemed like such a sweet, loving person. She had planned to go to India for a few months to be with poor children at an orphanage. This was something she both looked forward to but also dredded and I could see how much of a strain it was on her that she was on her way to india to live and work for a few months. Before she left she cried alot, said she'd miss me terribly and so on, I tried to support her but I told her on more than one occasion that she probably shouldnt go considering how she felt.
She went though and had a pretty hard time, we spoke on the phone regurarly and she got worse as time went. One day she called me and said she didnt wanna be with me because she felt it was hard to have me back home and she didnt want to think of me and also that she didnt feel for me that strongly. This came as quite the shock considering how she'd been before she left, how much she enjoyed our time together etc
A month later she had a nervous breakdown and was forced to come back home. She told me she wasnt yet ready to see me again and she needed some time on her own, but she kept messanging me. But this time I had kinda gotten tired of the whole thing, I didnt give her too much attention and I didnt respond to her messages. One night she sent me an email where she basically blamed me for how she had felt these last months, and how she tought I was a bad person and bad influence on her. To this day I dont know what I did to her to make her react like that, this sweet loving girl who turned in an instant and became something totally different. I like to think of myself as a decent judge of character but this girl really did a number on me. She even sent an email to my father where she bashed me, told him how much I'd hurt her etc
Some people, not just women but some people are really odd and you can count yourself lucky not to have gotten in deeper with them.
Dont mess with God, he can impregnate your girlfriend/wife without taking his pants off!
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tonizito
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Aaaaaaaaaaand that's why I'm lucky to be dead inside 
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2014 15:33 Post subject: |
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| Acer wrote: | I had something similiar happen to me a few years ago. I dated a girl who stuttered like me, I really liked her and she seemed like such a sweet, loving person. She had planned to go to India for a few months to be with poor children at an orphanage. This was something she both looked forward to but also dredded and I could see how much of a strain it was on her that she was on her way to india to live and work for a few months. Before she left she cried alot, said she'd miss me terribly and so on, I tried to support her but I told her on more than one occasion that she probably shouldnt go considering how she felt.
She went though and had a pretty hard time, we spoke on the phone regurarly and she got worse as time went. One day she called me and said she didnt wanna be with me because she felt it was hard to have me back home and she didnt want to think of me and also that she didnt feel for me that strongly. This came as quite the shock considering how she'd been before she left, how much she enjoyed our time together etc
A month later she had a nervous breakdown and was forced to come back home. She told me she wasnt yet ready to see me again and she needed some time on her own, but she kept messanging me. But this time I had kinda gotten tired of the whole thing, I didnt give her too much attention and I didnt respond to her messages. One night she sent me an email where she basically blamed me for how she had felt these last months, and how she tought I was a bad person and bad influence on her. To this day I dont know what I did to her to make her react like that, this sweet loving girl who turned in an instant and became something totally different. I like to think of myself as a decent judge of character but this girl really did a number on me. She even sent an email to my father where she bashed me, told him how much I'd hurt her etc
Some people, not just women but some people are really odd and you can count yourself lucky not to have gotten in deeper with them. |
Stress and pressure can do weird things to people and people often blame others because they influenced their decisions indirectly. You may not have been the cause directly, but she may have done stuff as a result of things you said, out of pride, etc.
Think of it as bungee jumping. You may have boasted to your gf that you love to bungee jump but when the time comes perhaps you have second thoughts. Except you already told your gf you'd do it and her going "but perhaps you shouldn't do it" wouldn't help - if anything it would be even more a matter of pride to do it anyway. The human ego can be weird. So you'd blame her for making you jump because, if she wasn't there, you would have backed out.
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I am not that kind of man though.
jesus. I seem to attract crazy girls too and it means every week or two I have to be prepared for some major bullshit and the only way to deal with it is to make them realize that they're being unreasonable. my ex would often explode over the most irrelevant bullshit and it was a struggle to make her calm down or not act like a stupid cunt but when she finally did she could see clearly that she was being a stupid bitch.
