Let's just hope she's not too tired for anal. She might have gotten some already before coming home from work. You know how those 20 year olds are. Full of energy. Unlike us 25 year olds.
Not really asking. Its a bitchin topic !
something to dump thoughts out
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Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
they've been a quiet dormant couple and he settled. he was happy with coming home from work, plugging in his xbox, killing some locusts. She would do the same. Come home from work. Admire her husband to be. Eat dinner. They'd both relax on the couch. Put on a movie. And call it a day.
That's a life you live when you're 40/50
it's a fantastic life. But you're missing out on a lot. saying you aren't into partying because retards... lol. you aren't used to partying because you haven't really partied.
Neither has she. Concert, social gatherings, movies... once in a while... that does not fill the empty social void. We are a social species. Isolation is not good for us. She is having her social outbursts now. It will continue. It will get more intense. People change. She's not the same person you have met 7 years ago. She won't be the same person in 3 years.
Her friend sees how she's bored at home. Doing nothing. So she takes her out. meets new people. it becomes a norm for her. but not for you. never you. you find that sort of behaviour retarded. you'd rather be at home, in bed, under three layers of blankets eating pop corn and ice cream out of a tub. as if you just had to your heart crushed.
The big question is who at work has given you the idea to not trust her and why.
Because you would not be having these thoughts on your own. Not to insult you, but you aren't the brightest bulb in the house, and also you never hard a reason to not trust her. Therefore, ergo, vis-a-vis, eric the half a bee, states that someone gave you an idea and you have taken it too far.
Damage is already done. Step 1. admit that you're retarded. Step 2. Talk to your girl and let her know what you're thinking. Step 3. Stop being an idiot and trust her. If she were to cheat on you, or leave you it would have happened during that one concert you laughed in her face for when she invited you to. She prolly met some hardcore fan standing in line by himself. She smiled and he smiled. playing in both their heads. He whips out his wallet and takes out an old condom, smiles at her and winks and pulls her hand and drags her to the bathroom while their favourite band serenades their love making.
Are you even sure she's meeting with these reddit fags? or she knows you so well to know that you hate them that regardless how many times she'd invite you, you'd rescind the invitation?
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Sin317 wrote:
I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself.
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But if she really was to become party monster (which she wont, i know her), It's her choice. And I won't all of sudden become party monster too. I always hated that and all those idiots and horrible music.
If I started skydiving each day, This wouldn't mean she would have to do it too (she is afraid of heights)
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Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
not quite. if he keeps thinking this way, then yes. He will get jealous, he will get annoyed and he will lose all the trust he has with her. Then it will be over.
I hope it won't go that way. KC doesn't strike me as a guy who can find another woman who can endure his bull shit.
Well we don't really know anybody on the internet. People behave/or say they behave, different over the internet.
We are a good couple and I don't see that changing. Little bit of jealous from either side is ok. after all, I am in relationship for 7 years. I know her perfectly and I can confidently say that i have experience in that field. It was a serious relationship from beginning.. not some gf/bf bullshit.
I don't like how some people assume they perfectly know someone just from their posts that they like gears of war, xbox 360 games and don't like gta V just... c'mon. Some traits of personality can certainly be traced this way but people behave completely differently on internet, in work, in relationship, with friends... for that fact, You seem like a fucking dick too, You know Waldo ? And certainly not a person who should tell anyone that they put themselves above others.. because YOu look that way too me. Like I am a little unexperienced maggot, who knows nothing and have no experience but You put Yourself in a position of experienced god jsut happening to look at me from above. He made a spelling error? "what an idiot", He likes Gears of War? "a console douche fag" while in fact i enjoy those games on another level than You might imagine and I have life experience of my own which... makes me myself.
But that's normal. Most people feel this way(that they are protagonist and others are npc's... it's called somehow professional). it's normal anyway.
That way or another, You and Leon, do make some valid points. sure.
I always was antisocial and always had friends anyway. Not liking to party, don't have anything to do with anything really... I don't have and don't want to be liek everyone else. If I find something unintersting or downright disgusting, why would I do that. I always liked ambient music, chiptune, scene music and soudntracks... for most part I don't like vocals in music... so what? I am worse than others ? I could think so but thanks to places like galbadia hotel I am aware than tons of people feel similiar.
After all, I've met my gf on one of those rare occasions when I went out with friends and she was the one who was showing signs of interest(very shy) which I've picked up and invited her for first date... good times
That was a perfect day btw. I was still working as a carpenter back then. We were appointed to meet after my work. So we did and it was totally book case study. Walk, amusement park(little cars), ice cream, talking and even a kiss as we wait for her bus
edit: Oh and no offense ofc
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Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
Euhm not to burst your bubble... but you reveal a lot of your behaviour (as all of us after years) so stop being daft in thinking it's the opinions you have on games that causes those assumptions.
You are quite detached from your real persona, often do I see you having a very different perception of yourself than that you are showing... and what you are showing is not in any kind of way that it makes you look better. So I wouldn't say it's a case of having different behaviour due to the anonimity one has on the web.
Not saying it to piss you off, but have a bit of realism.
We are riding your balls because it shows how insecure you are. You're insecure about yourself which is why you don't go out. Not because you like the quiet life. You're insecure. You're insecure about your relationship which is why again you prefer of not doing anything extravagant and keeping it at a simple, steady pace.
And that's ok. You're young, in a real relationship for 7 years. Most of those years you and her lived a secluded, shy, solitary life. Now she's experiencing something you purposely denied her. because it is not something you enjoy. You're the asshole here. You're making it sound like she's a home girl. Doesn't like partying. Doesn't like going out. When in fact it is you who doesn't like any of that. At all. You're the one who kept her indoors when she wanted to go out. You're the one who distanced her away from everyone because YOU thought everyone else but you is a social retard.
You want me to go on? I can give her so many reasons to break up with you and they will all be justified.
Look at her now, she's going out... having beers with her friends and what do you do? paint them in a bad light. Why? Why do you care what they do with their lives? Who gives a fuck if some girl broke up with her boy only to find another one. A relationship is as solid as the two parties within it. If she did not like where her relationship with one guy was going why the fuck would she endure a lifetime of unhappiness? You're a selfish, entitled little brat... calling me a dick? Really?
You got your girl stockholmed. That's being a fucking douche.
Not trusting her... doubting her motives... if she cheated on you before, if she kissed another boy while with you, if she fucked someone else while you were on her speed dial... then yes. You can be jealous. You can be an idiot and stalk her and never trust her. But she has not done a single thing.
So it is you. It's all you. Keeping her away from others, making fun of her tastes, making her feel sub human because you are insecure.
I don't give a fuck what games you like. I don't give a rats ass how bad you are at english. At least you are trying to communicate. At least you are enjoying a hobby. letting others make fun of you is what makes it so easy to troll you. You are insecure. You are soft. You are still a child.
7 years in a relationship and he still doesn't trust her... You wouldn't be jealous at all if you had full faith in her love for you. Start figuring out what this relationship is before it becomes a regret on your death bed.
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i could go into the whole thing about how people reveal their true self online rather than in the real world because there are no immediate consequences but then i'd have to define the word consequence and I'm too rattled to do that right now
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seriously, relax KC
in case you haven't figured it out. It's all in jest!
Sin317 wrote:
I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself.
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Wow. Now thats a lot of bullshit waldo. Wow. Insecure, stockholmed. Holy shit, that done it for me
We have a wannable psychiatrist and relationship expert here. All You say couldnt be further from truth. This is a very good relationship and i trust her. Its not about her cheating on me. She is happy with me and who said that we have to share friends. We dont
You ruined the topic. Thanks. It was going so well for first few posts. Then You started to imagine things out of thin air. Fucking what... I dont care if its a joke. Its not a topic for it
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Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
If you have such a good relationship and you trust her so much, why does this topic even exist?
Maybe just irrational thinking ? I still think its weird. Find me a 20yo who meets 25 and older girls the age difference is bigger at this age than later. Women usually seek older experienced men. But maybe prefer to party with younger ?
As for their beer meeting i described in op, my gf was there just to keep company to her friend more than anything else.
I was always a little jealous without any reason. But usually kept it to myself and it passes after few days. Dont want to stress out my lady too much
3080 | ps5 pro
Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
I still think its weird. Find me a 20yo who meets 25 and older girls the age difference is bigger at this age than later. Women usually seek older experienced men. But maybe prefer to party with younger ?
he must have a huge dick or alot of money. damn he will fuck her good
It was a serious relationship from beginning.. not some gf/bf bullshit.
Those words from an 17/18 yo... hahahaha
KC tell us, did you bang any other chicks in your life or it's the very same hole from the beginning? And I guess the same question applies for your gf. Did she had other men than you?
If not... well... you already should know how it's going to end
Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
Euhm not to burst your bubble... but you reveal a lot of your behaviour (as all of us after years) so stop being daft in thinking it's the opinions you have on games that causes those assumptions.
You are quite detached from your real persona, often do I see you having a very different perception of yourself than that you are showing... and what you are showing is not in any kind of way that it makes you look better. So I wouldn't say it's a case of having different behaviour due to the anonimity one has on the web.
Not saying it to piss you off, but have a bit of realism.
To be fair, I'm a lot more of a dick on forums than I am anywhere else Mostly because I'm quite stubborn when it comes to certain arguments. So you can't really tie an online persona directly to the RL person - especially since we, in RL, all wear a mask of some sorts to conform to what society expects us to be.
And on to the topic: am I the only one who finds it weird then? I wouldn't want my gf to hangout with a guy I don't know. If the roles were reversed, I don't see a girlfriend agreeing with a guy spending hours each week with a girl she doesn't know even if his best friend was along with him.
Sure, there's trust, but young guys like that tend to think with their dicks and after having been cheated on by three gfs in a row, all involving guys that age, I like to think that it's healthy to at least ask yourself questions about the guy. Your gf may be trustworthy but who says she has the correct idea about this guy? I've had guys like that poison the relationships of many girls by placing seeds of doubt in their minds.
Thank You for this post.
I mean... If a naked beauty 20yo girl would want to have sex with me I would still tell her to fuck off. I assume the same thing in opposite direction.
The dude could be good looking, smart, cool and everything but it still requires boths sides cheat. I never understood beating up the dude who makes it out with ones gf. If lady dont want it, it wouldnt happen. So the dude is not to blame... And if lady would cheat its not fault of dude who tricked her
3080 | ps5 pro
Sin317-"im 31 years old and still surprised at how much shit comes out of my ass actually ..."
SteamDRM-"Call of Duty is the symbol of the true perfection in every aspect. Call of Duty games are like Mozart's/Beethoven's symphonies"
deadpoetic-"are you new to the cyberspace?"
How much fault you can blame the guy lies on if he knew about you or not. If he did, then punch away to your hearts content, and don't forget to give your gf a blue eye as well. If your gf had said she was single (when she was not) then i agree with you that you can't really blame the guy. But we're not usually this really this rational are we?
guess these days u have to turn muslim to get a real woman. all those bitches aren't even worth it to communicate cause they will do what they fuck they want.
man i hate those wannabe strong independent woman! (even better with short hair ffs)
guess these days u have to turn muslim to get a real woman. all those bitches aren't even worth it to communicate cause they will do what they fuck they want.
man i hate those wannabe strong independent woman! (even better with short hair ffs)
Em i would be a bit worried. I'll be brutally honest here, but you sound like quite a boring person to be with. Do you even do anything together? Because to me it sounds like you spend most of your free time playing games at home and listening to chiptune (had to google that, you seriously listen to that crap?)
I'm not as social as my gf, but that doesn't mean i don't enjoy hanging out with people, going for drinks etc or just going for walks and shit. It looks like your gf is finding out that socializing is fun and she missed it. The reason i'd be worried KC is she's 25 and you're her first boyfriend, at that age girls are turning into proper women and they usually start knowing what they want more. So does she want someone who thinks everyone is "retarded/stupid" (which is total bullshit). Going to hang out with friends is hardly what i would call a "party animal".
I'd start to ask myself what do i even bring to the relationship? You're acting like you're 80 years old ffs.
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You wouldn't be jealous at all if you had full faith in her love for you. Start figuring out what this relationship is before it becomes a regret on your death bed.
