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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 00:26    Post subject:
Laughing To be honest I still have no clue how to contact her. I haven't seen her for months, I just randomly found her FB ( I don't use FB myself). I've no idea how to actually talk to her without seeming like a freakin' stalker lol.
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Newty182




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 00:47    Post subject:
How about, "hey, I was just looking around on FB and I stumbled across your profile, you work at that fast food place, right?".


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speedgear




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 00:53    Post subject:
H4wkeye wrote:
Well I actually did manage to track her down Laughing But then I got disappointed, she's fucking 1995. So that makes her 19/20, I'm 6 years older Fucking hell, whenever I like a chick she's a kid.



YOU SIR, ARE A FUCKING IDIOT.

IM 38, my wife is 27, ive meet her 6 years ago, we have a 4 old kid now, and i feel happy with her, you 26 , shes 20?? , ive got news for you, you are the "kid".


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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 00:55    Post subject:
Yeah that doesn't sound too bad. I just need to figure out how, cause I don't use FB nor do I have an account Very Happy And I ain't making one. So I guess I'll borrow someone's or something I dunno, I'll try to figure something out.
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Morphineus
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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 00:56    Post subject:
Newty182 wrote:
How about, "hey, I was just looking around on FB and I stumbled across your profile, you work at that fast food place, right?".


This, was about to reply and saw Newt already said it


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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 01:01    Post subject:
speedgear wrote:
H4wkeye wrote:
Well I actually did manage to track her down Laughing But then I got disappointed, she's fucking 1995. So that makes her 19/20, I'm 6 years older Fucking hell, whenever I like a chick she's a kid.



YOU SIR, ARE A FUCKING IDIOT.

IM 38, my wife is 27, ive meet her 6 years ago, we have a 4 old kid now, and i feel happy with her, you 26 , shes 20?? , ive got news for you, you are the "kid".


Yeah everyone keeps telling me that. Sad
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M4trix




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 01:19    Post subject:
speedgear wrote:
H4wkeye wrote:
Well I actually did manage to track her down Laughing But then I got disappointed, she's fucking 1995. So that makes her 19/20, I'm 6 years older Fucking hell, whenever I like a chick she's a kid.



YOU SIR, ARE A FUCKING IDIOT.

IM 38, my wife is 27, ive meet her 6 years ago, we have a 4 old kid now, and i feel happy with her, you 26 , shes 20?? , ive got news for you, you are the "kid".


@speedgear, you're too old for her. When you step into your 60's and your willy stays more down than up due to gravity, then I'm afraid she will dump you and find more younger guy than you. Cool Face Wink


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Janz




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 01:28    Post subject:
@speedgear: obviously you didnt get her with your fifa skills

but ofc you are right and you are a lucky man!
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ixigia
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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 03:28    Post subject:
H4wkeye wrote:
Yeah that doesn't sound too bad. I just need to figure out how, cause I don't use FB nor do I have an account Very Happy And I ain't making one. So I guess I'll borrow someone's or something I dunno, I'll try to figure something out.

Yeah you need to find a good wingman Very Happy
Someone who isn't rude and can introduce you to the girl through FB without making it feel too awkward or creepy. Just take it lightly, be smooth and if she's interested you'll get her number..and then giggidy!
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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Tue, 28th Apr 2015 11:52    Post subject:
Sounds like a plan. Very Happy We'll see how it works out Laughing
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Janz




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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 01:32    Post subject:
ah cmon, you dont need a wingman. im kind of shy sometimes to new persons too, but just give it a few min with a glas of something at a private "party" and everythings fine. not club shit, im not into that and will never be, but if someone of my friends brings a new person with him/wer (and if hes a guy and hes into that woman) its easy. still have my hopes up cause my female friends know woman i dont know and it happens one/twice a year they bring one i dont know and i like (still a bummer the last times whe kinda connect but shes studys a few houndred km away or so)
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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 03:17    Post subject:
My closest female friend is studying like 90km away so that's kinda hard Very Happy Plus, this chick, no one from the circle of people I hang out with knows cause she's much younger. I dunno, I still haven't done anything we'll see, was busy these past few days.
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Morphineus
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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 03:21    Post subject:
Tsss crybabies, me and my fiancee had 1200KM between us for 6 years... and here you are talking of a few hundred and 90 km

Razz


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Yuri




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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 06:49    Post subject:
speedgear wrote:

YOU SIR, ARE A FUCKING IDIOT.

IM 38, my wife is 27, ive meet her 6 years ago, we have a 4 old kid now, and i feel happy with her, you 26 , shes 20?? , ive got news for you, you are the "kid".

Shamefur dispray, calm down... It differs for everyone, why force your opinion on him.

Good it worked for you, it doesn't work for everyone so get a grip yo



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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 14:02    Post subject:
Morphineus wrote:
Tsss crybabies, me and my fiancee had 1200KM between us for 6 years... and here you are talking of a few hundred and 90 km

Razz


It's lucky that worked out for you. Honestly, everyone I know who had a long distance relationship it never worked. As for what Speedgear said I personally never dated someone that much younger so I dunno what to expect really. Guess I should talk to her first (if she's free at all) before jumping to conclusions. But I've been out of the dating scene for quite a while I'm rusty Laughing
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sabin1981
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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 14:09    Post subject:
H4wkeye wrote:
Guess I should talk to her first (if she's free at all) before jumping to conclusions.


Yeahhhh, you might want to actually get those conversations going first before you plan your relationship grinhurt
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PumpAction
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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 14:13    Post subject:
7 years, 3000KM here, 4.5 years age difference and I wifed her Very Happy

@H4wkeye: just write her over facebook directly and ask if she isn't that girl from the other place. You don't need to justify it with "I was just stalking through my friends friendslist" or "I was just searching for girls in your age range" or some other stuff Laughing


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Morphineus
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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 14:21    Post subject:
H4wkeye wrote:
Morphineus wrote:
Tsss crybabies, me and my fiancee had 1200KM between us for 6 years... and here you are talking of a few hundred and 90 km

Razz


It's lucky that worked out for you. Honestly, everyone I know who had a long distance relationship it never worked. As for what Speedgear said I personally never dated someone that much younger so I dunno what to expect really. Guess I should talk to her first (if she's free at all) before jumping to conclusions. But I've been out of the dating scene for quite a while I'm rusty Laughing


Luck is small part, it's a lot of hard work, time, money and fitting extremely well together. It wouldn't work with just anyone tbh. Smile

Anywho, first thing first... get to know her and see what is what. Might be lust/fling/nothing... so no need to think further ahead of the game


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sabin1981
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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 14:42    Post subject:
PumpAction wrote:
"I was just searching for girls in your age range" or some other stuff Laughing


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PickupArtist




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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 14:49    Post subject:
mail order brides dont count !! Twisted Evil
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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Wed, 29th Apr 2015 15:03    Post subject:
sabin1981 wrote:
H4wkeye wrote:
Guess I should talk to her first (if she's free at all) before jumping to conclusions.


Yeahhhh, you might want to actually get those conversations going first before you plan your relationship grinhurt


Yes that sounds like a good start definitely grinhurt

@Pumpy Laughing The searching for girls of her age range thing would probably not quite work out Laughing
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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Fri, 1st May 2015 00:13    Post subject:
Alright upon further review I will probably not pursue this. Friend's gf is 1994 (5 years younger than him) and he had a fair share of headaches. So as I said, girls that young dunno wtf they want and I certainly don't need the bs, plus I don't have much time anyway.
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freiwald




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PostPosted: Fri, 1st May 2015 00:25    Post subject:
enough time to think about her and stalk/find her! try it man, just try it. even if you just dip it in a few times!! make it happen. if you think like that you will be alone for a long time
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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Fri, 1st May 2015 00:36    Post subject:
Weeeeell I wouldn't mind dipping it a few times for sure Cool Face She's a hottie. And heck I've been alone for a while. Shit I dunno, when I listen to you, you have a point. I guess I won't give up yet sigh Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri, 1st May 2015 01:14    Post subject:
give up? just send a friend request and a message right fucking now!
the possibilities are infinite, you just need to try and see what comes next. Smile



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The_Zeel




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PostPosted: Fri, 1st May 2015 01:33    Post subject:
speedgear wrote:


IM 38, my wife is 27, ive meet her 6 years ago


good you declared that you met her 6 years ago, wouldve been a different story if you said 15 years ago Laughing
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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Wed, 13th May 2015 00:10    Post subject:
Well someone said I should keep the thread updated so here it is. I still haven't done shit. Yes I know, call me an idiot and all that. I keep making up excuses, I'm busy working stuff, or I am too tired etc. Sigh, I'll never make a move. I guess I'm making myself busy so I wouldn't have to think about all that. I'm such a pussy I know. Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: Wed, 13th May 2015 00:59    Post subject:
H4wkeye wrote:
Well someone said I should keep the thread updated so here it is. I still haven't done shit. Yes I know, call me an idiot and all that. I keep making up excuses, I'm busy working stuff, or I am too tired etc. Sigh, I'll never make a move. I guess I'm making myself busy so I wouldn't have to think about all that. I'm such a pussy I know. Crying or Very sad



Go! You have nothing to lose^^. Just try and make the move, if you see good results then yay, otherwise..well it's not a problem really, you can carry on like nothing happened. Very Happy
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H4wkeye




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PostPosted: Wed, 13th May 2015 01:44    Post subject:
Lol that gif. Ok I guess I'll talk to one of my female friends tomorrow to see her advice on best approach and see where it goes from there. Suppose if she ain't interested or is taken I can just move on and forget all about it Very Happy
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PostPosted: Wed, 13th May 2015 10:10    Post subject:
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