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You’re 18. You’ve got the whole life ahead of you. Once you finish school opportunities will open up and then you won’t have to see that bitch ever again if you choose so.
Bobbies, y'all need to relax. Y'all can ignore certain posts. Read a little bit into the text and move on. No need to go on crazy about it.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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Saner
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Nov 2005 15:10 Post subject: |
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Move out.
You live in there house, so you live by there rules.
you dont like it leave.
| ragnarus wrote: |
I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Nov 2005 15:17 Post subject: |
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Any one can move out at any time, bro.
But unless you want to live on the streets you need a flat of your own.
To get that you need a job.
To get a decent job to allow you to pay for the flat, food, clothes, car etc
You need decent school credits.
You can go straight into construction.
Money is good but the hard work and stress could get to you.
And starting in low level construction will get you treated like shit by your boss and everyone else. 
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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Saner
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Nov 2005 15:20 Post subject: |
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I moved out at 16 cause I was pissed of at my parents attitude towards my then girlfriend (now wife)
End of the day, I lived in a shithole for 2 years because I couldnt afford any better.
It was the best thing I ever did, i thought I knew everything then (didnt we all) but I had to learn the hard way.
But at the end of the day I now respect the fact that when you live under someone else's roof (be it your parents, a friend or whomever) you live by there rules unless you are especially lucky.
| ragnarus wrote: |
I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Nov 2005 15:25 Post subject: |
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Ok, charlie brown, now you gotta ask him if he can afford moving out then suggest it again.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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Saner
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| Posted: Thu, 17th Nov 2005 15:31 Post subject: |
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lol, now there is something I have never been called before =D
Anyone saying they cant afford to move out is talking complete bollocks.
what they actually mean is they are not willing to take shit jobs and live in a shithole.
As long as you are willing to take shit work, and live in a dump until you can get a better job / afford something better, then you can move out.
There are always shit jobs and shit bedsits etc... avalable.
| ragnarus wrote: |
I saw things like that in here and in other "woman problems" topics so...... Am I the only one that thinks some authorities needs to be alerted about Saner and him possibly being a rapist and/or kidnapper ? |
Saner is not being serious. Unless its the subject of Santa!
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Gizzie
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Location: in a nice and wet pussy :)
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Nov 2005 10:37 Post subject: |
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| Gizzie wrote: | | Lutzifer wrote: | | ollax, you should stay away from this thread. Seriously =) |
good point |
yeah well indeed
anyways
me and my mom had a fight recently about her drinking and now shes not been drinking for 2 days yeey but i wonder how long she will keep it up 
@|nSaNe you didnt move out alone, you had your gf. i'd do the same (to some extend) if i had a gf, propably living with her house but i dont have one
| Quote: | Any one can move out at any time, bro.
But unless you want to live on the streets you need a flat of your own.
To get that you need a job.
To get a decent job to allow you to pay for the flat, food, clothes, car etc
You need decent school credits. |
and staying at home offcourse cause i dont have to money yet
| Quote: | | You can go straight into construction. |
i know someone who did and he regretted it ever since
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so what your saying is that because my mother gave birth to me she can systematicelly break me down
thats pretty funny Laughing |
that was just in reply to him thinking your parents can do everything they want you just cause they gave birth to you
| Quote: | | Dont get me wrong, she could eventually end up doin shit to ruin your relationship...but from the sounds of it, shes just bein a mom and the worst she's doin is pissing you off - which all moms do, part of life |
the worst she is doing is drinking 2 bottles of wine and half a bottle of strong liquer when she gets home from work every day, sometimes 1 bottle of wine + the liquer but no less. try talking to that.
Even worse is that she remembers everything when she is drunk, she just doesnt realize she was drunk so even worsererererer.
im feeling better although im sick now. |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Nov 2005 10:41 Post subject: |
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Still man...bring up her drinking to her...like, obviously dont go up to her and say "hey u dumb drunk bitch, im pissed because etc etc" 
Save/work, take her out to dinner or something and approach it in a mature fashion. Who knows, she may be surprised u noticed or by the way ur expressing yourself and may make a change or come to an understanding with you
Seriously, try it...if talkin doesnt work, and the person is too stubborn, after numerous attempts at trying to repair the relationship, then I'd say fuck it. But yellin or bitchin or whatever about your issues wont get you far
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Nov 2005 10:57 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Still man...bring up her drinking to her...like, obviously dont go up to her and say "hey u dumb drunk bitch, im pissed because etc etc"
Save/work, take her out to dinner or something and approach it in a mature fashion. Who knows, she may be surprised u noticed or by the way ur expressing yourself and may make a change or come to an understanding with you
Seriously, try it...if talkin doesnt work, and the person is too stubborn, after numerous attempts at trying to repair the relationship, then I'd say fuck it. But yellin or bitchin or whatever about your issues wont get you far
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seriously thats a great idea, atleast if the attempts fail i wont feel guilty for anything
i'll take her out for a drink  . dinner is a good idea but really she would keep drinking wine or whatever cause she doesnt drink sodas, no way she would drink water with a meal so whats left: milk?orange juice?.
but doing something special for her and thn gently bringing up the subject is a good idea |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Nov 2005 11:00 Post subject: |
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Do something which would prevent her from drinking or ask her not to drink for whatever reason - make something up
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| Posted: Fri, 18th Nov 2005 14:07 Post subject: |
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she sounds like an alcoholic to me. You can't reason with her at all. Take her to AA and make her stay off the drink. She either knows she's an alcoholic but wont admit it and tells u to stop drinkin because she doesnt want u to see it or she's just still fucked up and isn't aware of what she's doing.
If you talk to her before she starts drinkin then maybe you might have some effect on her other than that it's hopeless trying to be nice and then ending it with a slap down discussion.
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| Posted: Sat, 19th Nov 2005 03:06 Post subject: |
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Find a girlfriend or if to hard buy a dog (beeach)...
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sat, 19th Nov 2005 09:13 Post subject: |
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| MikiMouse wrote: | | Find a girlfriend or if to hard buy a dog (beeach)... |
beach?  |
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| Posted: Thu, 24th Nov 2005 01:32 Post subject: |
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I do not know you and do not post real often here......But is been a long time im watching you guys....Well anyway i just hope thank everything going to be better with time.....I know sometime it hard to deal with parents.25 years here and still argue with my father alot...Good luck dude.
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deelix
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Dec 2005 16:54 Post subject: Re: i hate my parents |
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| JeanPerrier wrote: | they never give me any freedom, i cant go out after school hours, not in weekend, not ever (i dont go out in the weekend i fucking hate it no wonder i dont go to school, no wonder i hang out with friends during school its the only time im free
i dont get any money from them (allowance) so they can control even more
they bitch about me drinking (five beers even) when they are drunk themselves every goddamn night
i hate it so much seriously i cant handle it nomore
today was the last draw,i went to the bar untill 18.00 hours and was home 19.00 hours and the fucking bitch(my mom is the real problem) bitches about that
im crying now goddamnit fucking bitch, its the last draw now, im 18 so i can leave, fucking stupid fucking drunk stupid bitch, hopes she dies, seriously i wouldnt miss her one bit and i dont talk shit i cant backup.
it has been going on all my life, supresion and all last draw now last fucking draw
if i have a place to stay im outta the house for good
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does anyone know some really good angry music (hard is the best) |
well.. i know you love them... but fuck, what your talking about is no life.. if the picture you posted that was you was real you sure can take care of yourself..
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[sYn]
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Dec 2005 19:04 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | she sounds like an alcoholic to me. You can't reason with her at all. Take her to AA and make her stay off the drink. She either knows she's an alcoholic but wont admit it and tells u to stop drinkin because she doesnt want u to see it or she's just still fucked up and isn't aware of what she's doing.
If you talk to her before she starts drinkin then maybe you might have some effect on her other than that it's hopeless trying to be nice and then ending it with a slap down discussion. |
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Dec 2005 19:31 Post subject: |
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JeanPerrier, just pm me if you wanna talk in dutch...
My grandfather is also "alcoholic",in the meaning that it"s the only thing he drinks: he thinks water is for fishes,not for him 
But after a few years I didn't realize it anymore when he was drunk 24/7
And when he does drink alot,his head turns red like a tomato fo sho'.
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Dec 2005 20:50 Post subject: Re: i hate my parents |
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| deelix wrote: |
well.. i know you love them... but fuck, what your talking about is no life.. if the picture you posted that was you was real you sure can take care of yourself.. |
yes it was really me and thx
| Quote: | | i bet JP appreciates it when you dig out that heavy stuff on christmas Rolling Eyes |
yeah well they still do it but less after we had a big fight and i figured out that when i made the topic i was also depressed (moodswings blah) .
power training feels good to let the anger out.
and im not home that much either so all good
| Quote: | | JeanPerrier, just pm me if you wanna talk in dutch... |
thx |
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deelix
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| Posted: Wed, 21st Dec 2005 16:41 Post subject: Re: i hate my parents |
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| JeanPerrier wrote: | | deelix wrote: |
well.. i know you love them... but fuck, what your talking about is no life.. if the picture you posted that was you was real you sure can take care of yourself.. |
yes it was really me and thx
| Quote: | | i bet JP appreciates it when you dig out that heavy stuff on christmas Rolling Eyes |
yeah well they still do it but less after we had a big fight and i figured out that when i made the topic i was also depressed (moodswings blah) .
power training feels good to let the anger out.
and im not home that much either so all good
| Quote: | | JeanPerrier, just pm me if you wanna talk in dutch... |
thx |
ok, mom and dad let me drink everything exept vodka and absint, but i dont care that much. They aint so enoying.. just say that i should not drink something i dont know where came from
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| Posted: Wed, 21st Dec 2005 19:03 Post subject: |
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my mom and dad were always old school, really strict and everything, no drinking, no going out late etc.
did that really stop me? no, i sneaked out at night, drank, smoked weed,
sure it got me a couple of bruises from dad and mom was crying a few times, but thats life,
you cant tell someone strictly what to do and what not.
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deelix
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| Posted: Wed, 21st Dec 2005 21:10 Post subject: |
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| D_A_Kuja wrote: | my mom and dad were always old school, really strict and everything, no drinking, no going out late etc.
did that really stop me? no, i sneaked out at night, drank, smoked weed,
sure it got me a couple of bruises from dad and mom was crying a few times, but thats life,
you cant tell someone strictly what to do and what not. |
yeah!
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| Posted: Sun, 1st Jan 2006 20:31 Post subject: |
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So JeanPerrier how you getting on?
dust.
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deelix
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