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You're obviously bitter about it, and only you can do something about it. Don't mean to be all positive and optimistic and shit, but you miss all the shots you don't take, and it's not just about women. Get off your ass and do something to be happy if you ain't. There's no excuses
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Aug 2022 23:07 Post subject: |
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Broaden your horizons Rage. Your lifestyle is not the only lifestyle.
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Aug 2022 23:09 Post subject: |
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I mean sure, being mopey, old and sad is a way to live too I guess. Strive to join and live in society instead of closing the door behind you on the way out, you'll be a lot happier.
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Aug 2022 23:16 Post subject: |
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You sure can be miserable in a marriage also. It's not all roses and rainbows. Who's mopey though?
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DXWarlock
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| Stormwolf wrote: | | Broaden your horizons Rage. Your lifestyle is not the only lifestyle. |
Broaden your horizons. 
There is dozens of ways to run into, bump into, find or meet that one other than the dating scene.
I met my wife by being locked out of a club I worked at and she was outside waiting for a ride. We met up, went out a few times to see if we got along, fucked a lot and went "this is kinda cool. want to keep doing this?"
Until we decided that we might as well get married, we somehow ended up pretty much living in the same house by visiting all the time, and had a kid on the way after two years of being 'we like hanging out as friends and the sex is an awesome bonus'. And that was 26 years ago.
My friend met his wife at a dog park walking his dog. They did the same as us: Find each other attractive, ask each other if they want to hang out to see if they can stand each other for a whole night and implied "if we do, we are going to fuck probably at the end".
Then slowly wound up deciding they both liked the company and the fucking..so why not make it official?
If you are in the 'dating scene' you are actively looking for people that are actively looking for someone too. The best ones are the ones not actively looking you can run into during life happening. As they are not 'seeking' anything or have any expectations of shopping around trying to find that one that fits thinking "this one will go right..I know it". There is that air of expectations and awkwardness of if one or both of you dont match, you feel you went car shopping with the purpose of buying a car, now you have to tell the guy selling it you dont like it. Fuck all that.
Live life, tell chicks you think they are cute when you think they are...one will say it back one day and find out your personalities match and see where it goes.
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
Disclaimer: Post made by me are of my own creation. A delusional mind relayed in text form.
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| Posted: Thu, 4th Aug 2022 23:28 Post subject: |
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If you like having to work each time to get your dick wet..so be it 
Counters the animal and natural instinct of: Least effort for most gain.
I could either: Constantly have to go out, try to fish see if anything bites, spend energy and time trying to do some human mating dance to see if she wants to, repeat until one does.
OR
Walk in the other room and go "You down for some dick?" and walk 20 feet to a bed.
And you have a very skewed by personal experience or of others around you of how it works if it doesn't work out. It's not that way, I just think you either have little broad experience with it, or all your friends that divorced married the WRONG types. (NEVER marry someone until you know how they act at their worst)
Perhaps it's not the way 'people' are. It's just the patterns of the type of people you know are.
Know I DO know people like that..but that because THEY are people like that, that date people like that..a narrow circle of personality types being petty to each other.
If we got divorced my wife wants nothing. No alimony, no house, no keeping the kids. Even at our WORST fights over the years where we considered it, we never either of us, once wanted anything other than "You go you way, I go mine."
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 01:59 Post subject: |
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I would say 1/60 people i grew up with is Married, most of us in 10-15+ years relationships, but no marriages. Same goes for kids, only 1 had kids and he doesn't get to see them at all anymore.
That Autism / ADD / Alcoholism (not too much) has got pretty popular lately, i think i know 4-5 people with this diagnosis and legal amphetamine prescriptions.
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 17:52 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 18:22 Post subject: |
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What the fuck happened in this thread?  
| boundle (thoughts on cracking AITD) wrote: | | i guess thouth if without a legit key the installation was rolling back we are all fucking then |
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 18:27 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 18:43 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 21:15 Post subject: |
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we got ourselves a good ol' fashioned intervention!!!!
stop fuckin!
stop drinking!
stop being sad! or you'll get sad! (sudden adult death)
stop getting distracted.
stop being incels/femcels.
go touch grass and jerk off near a park for a thrill.
and most importantly join our slack!!!!!!!
but on a serious note. alcoholism is controllable. takes dedication.
ADHD and autism can help with that. find a suitable distraction whenever you feel like a drink.
feeling shit about life and other shit? that's an easy fix too. change your surroundings. either what feeds you read, what music you listen to, what games you play, which people you socialize with, etc etc etc. try new things. explore lives choices. get off of your fat ass and meet new people.
everyone can be happy, many settle. don't settle. it's your life, live it how you want to live. marriages and relationships aren't be all end all of life. it has its ups and downs. don't buy a house if you're only gonna sleep and cook and clean.
many people are truly happy being single and living their life on their terms. if you think your life is what you want, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. it's your life. not theirs. simple. however company is always great, whether is your significant other or a good friend. don't miss out on that.
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 21:41 Post subject: |
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@WaldoJ
I agree, you dont need a significant other. But you need others that are significant to you on almost the same level as a partner would be. Even if its spread over a few people.
Even me, the hermit recluse that without exaggeration spends 95% of his waking hours in 'private time' in my home office or garage-workshop needs friends/others that are significant to me when I need human interaction beyond frivolous daily interactions with strangers. I have barely left my house for 3 months other than for mandatory things like stores and shopping for needs. I go out so rarely it takes my wife by surprise anytime I mention I am going out somewhere not 'basic living' related.
Its not that I dont go out, I do it in spurts and clumps..then good for a few months.
We all need that in some way, humans are social creatures, even the self isolationist like me I get mine in spurts of going to local bar/pub where I know people every couple months for a few weekends in a row until my social gas tank gas tank runs dry and I 'got my fill of people', or the once a month hangout with friends we planned.
The rest of my friend time is done online in discord and on weekends (online) playing tabletop every saturday and gaming with them 3-4 times a week.
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 23:31 Post subject: |
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there has. it was all a ploy to get that intervention going!! now stop eating ants! it's gross!
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 23:48 Post subject: |
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Back in 2002+ here same type of people were having the same mindset, now in 2022 it's the same thing. Only these same people have gotten much older, uglier and forever-alone guaranteed.
Whose fault is it? But of course your own.
PS. Being the nice guy guarantees you being foreer alone x2. Or you may find some over-the-counter leftover partner, but you know she is always dreaming of some guy who takes action and is not a "nice guy".
Just life:) I am almost married.
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| Posted: Fri, 5th Aug 2022 23:50 Post subject: |
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...I'm not high or drunk enough for this thread. 
1 and 2 are still amazing.
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| Posted: Sat, 6th Aug 2022 00:07 Post subject: |
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| Iwasfaggotonce wrote: |
PS. Being the nice guy guarantees you being foreer alone x2.
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Absolutely not objectively true, I got my hot outgoing wife because I was the first non-asshole macho guy she talked to and went out with and was tired of the 'I R MAN, watch me be man and do man things, like a real man does".
I was literally the movie trope of the shy, nerdy, D&D playing computer geek that got the hot popular girl.
She realized she liked a guy she was equal with and could talk to like a normal person. Was tired of "She's with me" dynamic of the relationship and ready for "We are with each other". She ALMOST became celibate/lesbian before meeting me as she was done with feeling like being with a guy was the guy saying: You keep being cute and sexy, you get rewarded with being seen dating me, the man of the relationship".
| Stormwolf wrote: | | I feel there has been a 180 degree change on certain matters |
I didn't switch, I still think a partner is better than 10 friends that fill in the gaps it provides. It's still a matter of boiling down to: least expenditure of personal effort vs gain to me if you want to be blunt about it.
I COULD have 10 friends, that all do what a gf/wife would cover social and emotionally fulfilling. But then I got 10 people I am juggling, and spreading my time across...and still be damned if any of them would give me head or sex just because I asked if they wanted to right now. It's guaranteed fulfillment of needs be it emotional, social, or sexual on demand as my/our whims decide one of us needs it.
But to each their own, if you have worked into a place happy without one. Its still you worked away from the desire to have one, because of lack of ability to find one and found other outlets that you now consider least expenditure of personal effort vs gain.
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
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| Posted: Sat, 6th Aug 2022 00:24 Post subject: |
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yah old people don't know what a nice guy is.
it goes something like this.
hey, girl
hi
what's up.
nothing much, pretty bored at the moment.
bored? how can a goddess such as you be bored?
ewww go away.
hey I'm a nice guy, not like those jerks!
sure...
fuck off whore! you would choke on this massive cock anyway, I'm looking for a woman to match my nice guy alpha, not some slut who's bored!
that's a nice guy. they're incels. blame women for not getting laid. they deserve the bobs and vagene. it's owed to them because they're nice guys.
@Stormwolf were just joshing around lol. it's the first alcoholic thread that got traction. it's impressive.
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| Posted: Sat, 6th Aug 2022 00:26 Post subject: |
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I think you narrow nice guy down to what you need it to mean to exclude anyone that succeeded
I was the most awkward, shy, over trying 'nice guy' you could have met when I was a late teen. I had some fucked up friends, and did some stupid shit by being swept up in less than legal activities. But when it came to women, I would have been close to a neckbeard personality if they had that term back then, just I couldn't grow a beard, and was only like 120lbs wet. (man I miss being skinny...lol).
I mean what would you label a nerdy guy that all his [real] friends played D&D, hung out in the school library was part of medieval SCA festival stuff, awkward around chicks and tried to make up for his lack of manliness he thought 'men' needed with sappy kindness and being overly nice other than a 'bullseye hit for nice guy'?
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
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| Posted: Sat, 6th Aug 2022 00:27 Post subject: |
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Absolutely, like i said you will know when you meet the nice guy. Because IRL he's "so sweet". He only rages online. He's knowledge of women and badboyz comes from watching Wojaks all day long in YT. Wojaks, created by another incels.
A nice guy is also the guy who will forgive his loved one every time she gets busted for sucking your neighbor's dick
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| Posted: Sat, 6th Aug 2022 00:27 Post subject: |
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I think you narrow nice guy down to what you need it to mean to exclude anyone that succeeded
I was the most awkward, shy, over trying 'nice guy' you could have met when I was a late teen. I had some fucked up friends, and did some stupid shit by being swept up in less than legal activities. But when it came to women, I would have been close to a neckbeard personality if they had that term back then, just I couldn't grow a beard, and was only like 120lbs wet. (man I miss being skinny...lol).
I mean what would you label a nerdy guy that all his [real] friends played D&D, hung out in the school library was part of medieval SCA festival stuff, awkward around chicks and tried to make up for his lack of manliness he thought 'men' needed with sappy kindness and being overly nice other than a 'bullseye hit for nice guy'?
@WaldoJ That not nice guy, thats trope for incel. Nice guy trope =! incel trope.
All incels was nice guys losers, but not all nice guy losers are incels.
(all toads are frogs, not all frogs are toads)
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
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| Posted: Sat, 6th Aug 2022 00:28 Post subject: |
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no see you were getting laid and having kids when the nice guy term circulated
what you mean to say is you're genuine. you're not a nice guy. you're a genuine lad with genuine feelings and genuine man stink. none of that axe body spray shit.
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| Posted: Sat, 6th Aug 2022 00:48 Post subject: |
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right but now the term nice guy has been appropriated by women to describe incels. women over 37 use nice guy in genuine term. just like how mothers use handsome. women under 37 use it as a warning for other Whamen. being a nice guy from 18-36 is well not a positive trait. 
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