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 Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 11:30 Post subject: |
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Wize sultan, but distance is hard when you fall in love , brutal this love shit can be. But I agree with the sentiment. Hookers cheapest sexy time with no baggage
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 11:33 Post subject: |
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| PickupArtist wrote: | | Wize sultan, but distance is hard when you fall in love , brutal this love shit can be. But I agree with the sentiment. Hookers cheapest sexy time with no baggage |
Distance becomes no issue when you fall in love often enough. It becomes a problem when trouble starts brewing, which it usually does at some point in time. Some succeed long distance, most fail terribly. I personally only know one person who succeeded with one and they're pretty good.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 11:46 Post subject: |
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It's no issue when you got plenty of love to give to more than just one woman. For me I can love more than one woman easily, each one for what she's best at. What one doesn't have the other compensates on that front. But I can also pull out of love at will without too much trouble if something isn't working out for me. I know it kinda makes me a dirtbag to some but it beats being miserable over some bitch that don't appreciate a real G.
It's been working for me for years but I am 31yo now and my parents are about to club me in the head for some grandkids so who knows maybe I'll end up settling for a dumdum that does house chores and doesn't ask too many questions as long as her needs are met.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 13:44 Post subject: |
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And you get a child, woman grows tired of you and decides to leave. There you are getting miniscule amount of time with your kid while paying shitloads to your ex. As long as thr system works like this im not very interested in getting children.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 14:20 Post subject: |
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I won't lie that's a big factor that keeps me away as well. Not only is the risk so high but the current machine incentivizes it to happen. There is a lot of money to be made for the state and divorce lawyers in a profit based social dynamic.
If there is a risk of jail in anything I'm not gonna be too eager and romantic to get into it. Miss a payment and you might as well go full criminal since you're going to be in such company anyway.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 14:27 Post subject: |
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And the other thing i forgot to mention. All that happening perhaps without a single fault of your own and suddenly your own kid has a new father who'll do all the things you wanted to. Yeah, i'm not taking chances like this. I'd rather adopt a kid myself and raise it.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 17:42 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 19:34 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 19:46 Post subject: |
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Fuck her in the butt!!!!!!
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 19:47 Post subject: |
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| TheZor wrote: | | FireMaster wrote: | I had relationships in the past when I was a lot younger that didn't work out for mainly one reason and that was financials at the end.
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Maybe one day I'll meet someone crazy enough to marry me but is also ready to deliver on that long term stuff |
I do hope there comes a crazy enough lady for you 
Best way to go around it is not actively looking for it anyway (..not actively avoiding it too  ), good things like those tend to just fall on you, sometimes when you least expect it. Trust is a two-ways route.
I didn't imagine I'd be lucky enough to still be with my girl for almost 15 years now, but here I am  |
I agree. Going out looking for it, only really causes you to throw a bigger net and usually catch someone else that is also desperately (for lack of a more flattering word) seeking it. You end up finding people that are 'this will do, its better than nothing' vs finding people that willingly decide they want to pursue more as an option.
And it may be my personal bias and personality speaking here. But if a relationship broke up over financial reasons, all it did was amplify a problem that was already existing somewhere because the focus of one or the other was on the wrong part of the relationship to start with.
Ive know people that got in HUGE relationship arguments over bills and such. But its simply because it was a 'bad' relationship underneath that just begged to have a fuse lit to expose it.
And others that have been broke as hell (us included) that was tough to get thru; but not tough with/because of each other, but simply because being broke sucks.
If you are with the right person, living in a mansion or living in the back room of a family members ghetto house in one room with 2 kids (what we had to do) is no different on how you treat each other. Money doesnt cause relationship problems, it just exposes existing problems that having money 'made up for'.
-We don't control what happens to us in life, but we control how we respond to what happens in life.
-Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. -G. Michael Hopf
Disclaimer: Post made by me are of my own creation. A delusional mind relayed in text form.
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| Posted: Tue, 30th Aug 2022 20:05 Post subject: |
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