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 Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 18:40 Post subject: Intimate question |
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Hey guys,
Just wanted to ask your opinion on something.
What's the best way to approach my g/f about this, she doesn't shave down there, and that's a pretty big turnoff for me. How do I hint at getting her to shave without offending her?
Thanks for the advice,
Acc
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 18:45 Post subject: |
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Damn...doesnt even trim?
Just tell her straight up, in a soft, caring mannor of course. Say pubic hair bothers you, for whatever reason it does and if it doesnt bother her, could she shave it. If she wont bald eagle it, compromise and go for like a landing strip or a triangle or something. The landing strips are fuckin sexy still...a chick without a lil bit of hair is just...I dunno, takes me back to being a kid and I dont like it.
EDIT - Be prepared tho, she may ask the same thing of you.
And btw, the first time you completely shave, its itchy as fuck when it grows back in...let her know that because she may do it then snap when she finds herself scratching her coochie all day 
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 18:49 Post subject: |
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Is she sensitive about the subject?
You can just be upfront and ask.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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TheSaint
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:04 Post subject: Re: Intimate question |
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| Accelleron wrote: | Hey guys,
Just wanted to ask your opinion on something.
What's the best way to approach my g/f about this, she doesn't shave down there, and that's a pretty big turnoff for me. How do I hint at getting her to shave without offending her?
Thanks for the advice,
Acc |
I've put the things that are incorrect in the red color.
gf= by
she= he
her= his
kthxbye
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:08 Post subject: Re: Intimate question |
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| TheSaint wrote: |
I've put the things that are incorrect in the red color.
gf= by
she= he
her= his
kthxbye |
by = b/f
his = Him.
Fuck.
You're drunk already? Jesus. You're my hero 
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here. |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:09 Post subject: |
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Well, I think it's inexperience more than anything else, as the girl is 18 and a virgin.
Asking up-front sounds a bit direct, as she'll probably hear "You'd look extremely sexy shaved" as "zomgwtfbbq, what the fuck is that rainforest doing there? did you import half of brazil into your crotch or something? I think I saw an ape swinging around in there" as females have a tendency to do.
And yeah, Syco I wouldn't mind if it were something sexy such as a landing strip, something like this maybe:
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but atm it's nothing like that, it's Amazon rainforest, which turns me off to no end. It's like she put superglue on her vagina and had sex with a yeti.
I was considering suggesting that oral is a lot better for her if she's shaved, except that we aren't quite there yet 
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:09 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:12 Post subject: Re: Intimate question |
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| Injurious wrote: | | TheSaint wrote: |
I've put the things that are incorrect in the red color.
gf= by
she= he
her= his
kthxbye |
by = b/f
his = Him.
Fuck.
You're drunk already? Jesus. You're my hero |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:14 Post subject: Re: Intimate question |
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You want me to get banned? FFS!
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:18 Post subject: Re: Intimate question |
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| Injurious wrote: |
You want me to get banned? FFS! |
heh heh
Anyway, back to topic, anyone else have ideas for approaching this? |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:18 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:21 Post subject: |
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yeah. Go over to her place with an expensive shaving kit and go, "baby, today you and i are going to have a party. Not just any party, doll face. A shaving party, sweetheart. I'll shave you and then you shave me. It'll be fun. It's about time to start something new!"
Or get her wasted and trim it ffs.
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:24 Post subject: |
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| Injurious wrote: | | Or get her wasted and trim it ffs. |
sounds like an idea. Now to figure out how to get her wasted... |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:27 Post subject: |
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| Accelleron wrote: | | Injurious wrote: | | Or get her wasted and trim it ffs. |
sounds like an idea. Now to figure out how to get her wasted... |
Date rape drug she won't be as conscious. You aren't gonna rape her so it's all good. I allow you to use date rape drug Nobody wants pubic hair lodged in their throat
If she complains... tell her... the pubic fairy made a visit and look she left you a headache!
We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year, running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here. |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:30 Post subject: |
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| Injurious wrote: | | Accelleron wrote: | | Injurious wrote: | | Or get her wasted and trim it ffs. |
sounds like an idea. Now to figure out how to get her wasted... |
Date rape drug she won't be as conscious. You aren't gonna rape her so it's all good. I allow you to use date rape drug Nobody wants pubic hair lodged in their throat
If she complains... tell her... the pubic fairy made a visit and look she left you a headache! |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 19:51 Post subject: |
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guess i'm late, but what the hell anyway..
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:21 Post subject: |
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Just tell her to use the hair removal creames since 9 times out of 10 they do a better job and don't irritate her skin (of course read the case and you'll see that it says scary shit and tells you to test it too).
Of course there's a 'stand down' time of like 24 hours or somethin, but you'll be good to go. I don't think she'd have a problem shaving it in the first place and i've not come across a girl for a long time who doesn't at least keep it maintained.
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:26 Post subject: |
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| Accelleron wrote: | Well, I think it's inexperience more than anything else, as the girl is 18 and a virgin.
Asking up-front sounds a bit direct, as she'll probably hear "You'd look extremely sexy shaved" as "zomgwtfbbq, what the fuck is that rainforest doing there? did you import half of brazil into your crotch or something? I think I saw an ape swinging around in there" as females have a tendency to do.
And yeah, Syco I wouldn't mind if it were something sexy such as a landing strip, something like this maybe:
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but atm it's nothing like that, it's Amazon rainforest, which turns me off to no end. It's like she put superglue on her vagina and had sex with a yeti.
I was considering suggesting that oral is a lot better for her if she's shaved, except that we aren't quite there yet |
Well, wait till she wants you to go down on her.
If she's one of those girls who says she doesnt do oral (they all seem not to do it at first ) give her the "if you want me to down on you, you gotta go down on me" speech. Then give her the "i pluck my chicken before I eat it" speech, you know?  |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:29 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Well, wait till she wants you to go down on her.
If she's one of those girls who says she doesnt do oral (they all seem not to do it at first ) give her the "if you want me to down on you, you gotta go down on me" speech. Then give her the "i pluck my chicken before I eat it" speech, you know? |
Well she's a virgin she won't want oral. |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:31 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | Then give her the "i pluck my chicken before I eat it" speech, you know? |
Plucking hurts. Fuck! Why would you even suggest that. Jesus. Hahahaha.
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:41 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | Well, wait till she wants you to go down on her.
If she's one of those girls who says she doesnt do oral (they all seem not to do it at first ) give her the "if you want me to down on you, you gotta go down on me" speech. Then give her the "i pluck my chicken before I eat it" speech, you know? |
Well she's a virgin she won't want oral. |
Ive been with plenty virgins that give head and dont fuck...when I was a kid anyway.
when your 14, 15 and shit and girls dont want to fuck but want to do something because they are interested.
Either which way, after the first time he sleeps with her, u bring it up and act all casual about it. Its not like oral is a big deal. As long as he approaches it in a casual, somewhat sensitive way, should be no problem.
Who cares about her bush still if your not going down her you know?
Unless its some nasty ass, up to the stomach and around the legs type of thing going on....
@Injur
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:42 Post subject: |
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| nouseforaname wrote: | anyways, you need to get her to go to a place to get waxed professionally. They'll be more gentle and she'll probably have a better experience (and be more likely to continue doing it).
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NO WAY!
Taking her to a salon to get waxed will not only be embarassing but very uncomfortable too. By giving her a razor / some cream she can do it in her own time, in private and at her own pace really.
and by giving her a razor / some creame I don't mean handing her them and saying 'go shave' I mean, suggest them. You don't need to be so direct either. You can just drop it into conversation sometime how shaved pussies look better, and itch less and how you prefer them.
I don't think she'll be arsed about how hairy your knob is because most girls aren't unless you're super hairy :/ |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:46 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | | nouseforaname wrote: | anyways, you need to get her to go to a place to get waxed professionally. They'll be more gentle and she'll probably have a better experience (and be more likely to continue doing it).
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NO WAY!
Taking her to a salon to get waxed will not only be embarassing but very uncomfortable too. By giving her a razor / some cream she can do it in her own time, in private and at her own pace really. |
She's gotta get used to it anyways, and they do a much better job.
What if she slices into her clit or something shaving? Or gets terrible razor burn? Or can't pull out the hairs with a wax strip because it hurts too much? She'd be much less likely to continue doing it.
I'm sure there are a million places in Brooklyn (in Toronto it seems like they're all run by asian women) that do a brazilian wax for like $20-30.
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:48 Post subject: |
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AHHHHH...slit her clit?! ahhhh...
I dont think thats possible still but ahhh....that sounds so painful
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:53 Post subject: |
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| nouseforaname wrote: | | She's gotta get used to it anyways, and they do a much better job. |
First time though? You don't think she'll be embarassed enough already that her bf thinks her bush is too big, nevermind showing it to someone else to take off. Not a big deal to most, but she doesn't seem like the out going type who would just pass this by and go for it. I think she'd think long and hard about it.
Also she wouldn't shave her clit off, and that's another 'beaty' about the creames. They're dead easy to use and you can't really go wrong. |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 20:55 Post subject: |
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| Sublime wrote: | | nouseforaname wrote: | | She's gotta get used to it anyways, and they do a much better job. |
First time though? You don't think she'll be embarassed enough already that her bf thinks her bush is too big, nevermind showing it to someone else to take off. Not a big deal to most, but she doesn't seem like the out going type who would just pass this by and go for it. I think she'd think long and hard about it.
Also she wouldn't shave her clit off, and that's another 'beaty' about the creames. They're dead easy to use and you can't really go wrong. |
so....are you admitting to creaming your nuts? j/k bud |
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| Posted: Mon, 1st May 2006 21:01 Post subject: |
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nah I don't do that to myself. But I know a lot of people who do and i've done it myself before too.
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