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She told me don't even think another guy has anything to do with this. She was looked at as at as a tourist when she went to her home country. Guys there like girls with pale skin and who are traditional. She is very Americanized and has a gold skin tone, none of the guys there wanted anything to do with her and she made that clear to me.
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 20:28 Post subject: |
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Look at the bottom line-
She sees spending time with you as burden just like working and studying. That's not love.
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fraich3
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 20:57 Post subject: |
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Play hard to get, travel some of your own.
"Zipfero is the biggest fucking golddigger ever" - Mutantius
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 21:03 Post subject: |
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| mark322 wrote: | Look at the bottom line-
She sees spending time with you as burden just like working and studying. That's not love. |
Yeah....
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nouseforaname
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 21:06 Post subject: |
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how long have you been in a relationship with this person?
if it hasn't been that long, then you shouldn't really expect her to HAVE to make time for you, especially if there are other things that are an immediate burden.
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 21:11 Post subject: |
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nouseforaname
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 21:32 Post subject: |
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well then, I guess that's iffy ... she should maybe more committed to you at that point, but meh, you're still both in college right? I mean, you're both busy enough to not be spending every minute together?
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 21:53 Post subject: |
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All you can do is play it cool. Try hard not to come across as needy. The more you try to get a handle on the relationship the more it will get away from you.
Chicks are emotional beings and can rationalize ANYTHING. If she wants a different guy she will find excuses why she should dump you. There is nothing you can do.
Good luck.
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| Posted: Mon, 19th Feb 2007 22:47 Post subject: |
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| mark322 wrote: | Look at the bottom line-
She sees spending time with you as burden just like working and studying. That's not love. |
Very true.
"Techniclly speaking, Beta-Manboi didnt inject Burberry_Massi with Benz, he injected him with liquid that had air bubbles in it, which caused benz." - House M.D
"Faith without logic is the same as knowledge without understanding; meaningless"
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Feb 2007 00:59 Post subject: |
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Yeah we're both in college, we both have plenty of spare time it's just she wants to spend it alone in her room. She said don't think I'm getting attention from another source, I've gotten in 9 arguments with my mom since I've come home. When I get home from work/school I go in my room lock the door and do homework or go to sleep. So it's not another source of attention distracting her.
She said right now she just needs to give herself attention, not anyone else.
I was gonna do what [sYn] said and leave her a quick message on Wednesday when it becomes a week of no contact but I'm starting to think it would be better if I just let her relax on her own without be intruding for a bit. And if after 2 weeks she makes no effort to come forward then I'll contact her (maybe)
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kumkss
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Feb 2007 03:03 Post subject: |
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ummm... man.. based on my experience, 28 years old, a relationship with an ex girlfriend for 3 years, many other girls from time to time, and with another stable relation now, i can recommend you to cool yourself for a while.
you can cool your head down by doing some sports for example. don't be alone... stay with friends.
after you cooled yourself down, if you still have a STRONG love feeling about her, well, then start to reconquest her. do things you've done at the beginning... be somehow crazy to her. smile a lot... but don't ever loose your self esteem...
if the love feeling isn't that strong, well, time to leave. you gonna cry for two weeks. then, you will meet another girl.
true man!! the world is full of chicks! i know it may sounds somehow "cold" this point of view, but, trust me, it will make a lot of sense to you as time goes by.
sadly, relationships may turn complicated. just remember, a sad and painfull broke up with a girlfriend, is always better than a divorce, when you've got allready involved...
stay in touch!! we can be a support for your hopefully not, sad times you may experience. but you will grown!! 
remember always smile!!!
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| Posted: Tue, 20th Feb 2007 07:12 Post subject: |
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| KrAzY-KaMeL wrote: | I'm smiling don't worry!
Even at work or the gym I find myself just getting caught up in thoughts and memories and stuff.
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