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 Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:02 Post subject: Fucking stupid girls |
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for being so double-faced girls!
Well, here is my story...
I'm 28 and I had a relationship with a girl (22 years old now).
We were around 6 years together, but we had 5 broke ups, all of her false and fucking weird character.
She was a very weird and difficult character, that there is no man who can stand her weird shit. But i was so good to her, and always saying yes to her, just to not make her mad or feel bad. We were really love eachother.
But, many many times , around 1 time a year, she gets really different, and telling me that her mind is elsewhere, and she needs to stay alone, and have more freedom.
She always had her freedom with me, i can say she was spending more time with her friends, than me. I was staying home, to let her party with her girlfriends. Also, she was all the time talking to me about rent a house together, make kids etc etc...
I really dont understand what happens to her mind every time and time. She already did this around 4 times, we have broke up for around 5 months, and then, she was crying back to me, saying that she loves me, but i was with another girl, and i was stupid i left the new girl, and got back to her. I learned from her friends that she had no other relationship the time we had broke up, she's really a bad person for a man to love her. that's why.
Now, she did it again before 2 weeks. Suddenly she didnt want to see me, neither call me.
So it came to my mind that she will do the same thing like last year.
I called to her home, cause she didnt pick up her mobile phone, and i told her how is she,
she told me to talk on msn. And there, she told me that she needs freedom and to be alone (AGAIN). I did not gone mad, and i just make her understand that her future will be not so good for her. There will be no man that accept what she does etc etc. She felt like i was right, but she said i dunno...
Finally, she told me that she wants to broke up but she want to see me frequently, and said that she just cant live without me and she loves me. I said that this is bullshits, if you love someone you dont broke up with him without reason. And why this sudden change of her attitude every time?
So i think it was the best for me to 'delete' her from my heart, it's really difficult but i must. It was 6 years with the same errors from her everytime.
I know she will come back again after some months, but i dont think i can accept her...
So, fuck those girls who have a so stupid fuckedup mind, and dont know what's good for her.
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:13 Post subject: |
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When you were 22, you began a relationship with a 16 years old girl. What did you expected?
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:16 Post subject: |
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| mark322 wrote: | | When you were 22, you began a relationship with a 16 years old girl. What did you expected? |
Exactly, but after the 2 first years, she was always telling me things about our house, our kids, that she wants to marry me at 23, and many many things about that.
Even her attitude was great, like a good good normal girl. She was spending weekends to my house, met my parents and a lot of things.
Thats why i continued with her, i knew that she was young.
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:36 Post subject: |
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Most likely she got the feeling that she missed something during the time she spent with you.
Maybe she wants to meet other men, still doesn't know what she wants.
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:40 Post subject: |
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| mark322 wrote: | Most likely she got the feeling that she missed something during the time she spent with you.
Maybe she wants to meet other men, still doesn't know what she wants. |
That's for sure my friend, that she still doesn't know what she wants.
That's why she still wants to see me, to not leave her forever.
PS: She had her 'experiences' with men before some years, and she felt really bad with other men. That's why she turned back to me again... I dunno, she's getting crazy every time after winter? ahahaha
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:49 Post subject: |
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If I understand this right, you stayed with her because you thought you're gonna get married and live a beautiful life.
Obviously this isn't going to happen... Think about what do you expect from the future and make conclusions.
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:56 Post subject: |
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| mark322 wrote: | If I understand this right, you stayed with her because you thought you're gonna get married and live a beautiful life.
Obviously this isn't going to happen... Think about what do you expect from the future and make conclusions. |
Yes and of course but we still love each other, and we were always talking about the future. Mostly from her side. That's what made me to be patient and nice to her. I thought all it's going to be nice with this girl...
But as you say, yes, i don't think i have future with her wtih all that shit she does.
I know she still believes that she'll marry me someday (i have contact with her uncle, we're very good friends), but i don't think so...
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 12:59 Post subject: |
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Drop her, she's retarded. Later on when the love will be gone she will annoy you. Find a sweet mentally stable girl my suggestion.
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 13:00 Post subject: |
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| Freakness wrote: | | Drop her, she's retarded. Later on when the love will be gone she will annoy you. Find a sweet mentally stable girl my suggestion. |
You are exactly in my mind dude! That's exactly what i have in my mind last weeks.
There are many fishes in the sea, and if you love, you LOVE, not playing with your love!
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 17:45 Post subject: |
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Dont have any contact with her anymore. You are only wasting your time (and hers).
Now - if you can do this - which most men cant - keep her around only for booty calls, try to get with her friends, and also continue looking for a normal stable girl. This is what good players can do. It usually doesnt last long - but is a good fill-in when you are just playing the field..
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Esel_Gesi
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 19:38 Post subject: |
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| AnimalMother wrote: | Sometimes I wonder if girls are more trouble then they're worth.
Then you meet another one and the whole fucking cycle starts all over again.  |
Ha. So true. So true.  |
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| Posted: Thu, 22nd Feb 2007 19:50 Post subject: |
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I need a shit badly, brb.
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| Posted: Sat, 24th Feb 2007 00:01 Post subject: |
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tell her "we can be fuck buddys and you can have all the freedom you want"
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| Posted: Sat, 24th Feb 2007 01:44 Post subject: |
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Seriously tho, any 22 yr old guy who goes out with a 16 yr old girl does so because she is easy to manipulate and usually quite stupid. I know this from experience. I was 17 and dated a 23 yr old. He was going out with me because no other women his age would go out with him. He was the not so good looking one, and cheap too. Motherfucker. When she is my age you will become her motherfucker too.
Also, If you feel so strongly that she is a head case why are you going out with her? Or if you do still want to go out with her don't complain about her personality. Why should she change her personality for you. IMO NO ONE SHOULD CHANGE THEIR PERSONALITY FOR SOMEONE ELSE. Too big of a sacriface if ya ask me.
These dumb women, won't listen to their men who know what is best for them.
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| Posted: Sat, 24th Feb 2007 03:58 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | IMO NO ONE SHOULD CHANGE THEIR PERSONALITY FOR SOMEONE ELSE. |
This should also imply that you should not expect someone to change their personality for you. A lesson I know all too well. |
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| Posted: Sat, 24th Feb 2007 04:19 Post subject: |
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@PeeCee_Gamer
Excuse me? where did I say he was cheap because he didn't spend money on me. I had my own money thankyou very much. Cheap as in he wouldn't pay his own god damn way and if I wanted to do anything I had to pay for him. Ohh, and he bought a van in which he could sleep in so he could save money and what ended up happening is that people ended up letting him sleep in their spare rooms and stuff. Of course he was eating their food and stuff. Mine too. He even had the nerve to laugh at all the people (suckers he called them) who put him up.
| Esel_Gesi wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | IMO NO ONE SHOULD CHANGE THEIR PERSONALITY FOR SOMEONE ELSE. |
This should also imply that you should not expect someone to change their personality for you. A lesson I know all too well. |
Of course I don't want someone changing their personality for me. The origional and real personality is the one I would of fallen for. I think it is such an unfair thing to do. I know what it is like to be told you are wrong all the time and if people don't like who I am or have a problem with it they don't have to be my friend, or date me, marry me, or be anywhere in my life.
Relationships are a 2 way street.
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| Posted: Sat, 24th Feb 2007 07:17 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | Cheap as in he wouldn't pay his own god damn way and if I wanted to do anything I had to pay for him. |
Sorry Pistolshrimp, I misunderstood. He wasn't cheap...he was a bum!
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| Posted: Thu, 1st Mar 2007 16:26 Post subject: |
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I tried reading the OP, and a few comments; but instead of replying on topic, I'm going to flame your engrish.
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| Posted: Thu, 29th Mar 2007 10:11 Post subject: |
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Hi Blackmoon, unfortunately people always change during the course of the years ... someone you know or at least think to know could totally change in a few years ... someone you think to love and that you think loves you can change and become the opposite ...
I learned this in friendships too, and it changed me ... i don't get anymore surprised for nearly anything, i don't expect anything to last forever, i am happy when a relationship lasts, i love who loves me, i'm a friend for who is my friend ... but when someone tries to fuck me or betray my trust it's always very painful for me but i try to simply delete them from my life ... and if i can give them back the "favour" i'll do so if given me the occasion ...
So, if i were you, it'll be painful, terrible, but i'll try with all my forces to get her out of my life. I, and you, have a life to live and we could try to live it with someone (in love and friendship) that makes me/us happy.
Hope it helps.
There are only 10 kinds of people : those that understand binaries and those that don't.
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Apr 2007 02:03 Post subject: |
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Delete her from your heart and hey.. you just got yourself an FB (That is what she want anyway --the romance and freedom)
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| Posted: Tue, 3rd Apr 2007 03:18 Post subject: |
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pix plz
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| Posted: Sun, 8th Apr 2007 04:34 Post subject: |
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She is 22 do not expect stabability, she is a emotional fruitloop.
When you date someone this young, you need to relise that it is fleeting and the chance of it REALLY lasting forever, is extremly slim.
Just back off a little, you even sound panicy just from your post. A woman will sniff this out in you like you would not believe.
She is wanting to tell you to fuck off, without hurting you lol.......... basically, either that or there is a potential interest elsewhere, however she's trying to keep you around as a bit of a "insurance policy" should the new interest not work out as planned.
It's emotional immaturity on her behalf.
Good Luck Mate, we've all had out hearts ripped out and stuck in a microwave, at least once, your not alone in your confusion and hurt.
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| Posted: Sun, 8th Apr 2007 16:01 Post subject: |
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Do like I did.
Give her a couple of slaps in the face and tell her to wake up.
Im with my gal for almost 4 years now and she was allways telling that shit about me being too good for her and that crazy chick talk, but one day I was so fucked up with my problems that I had to explode, and so I canalized that to her and since then, those trashy talks of her never apeared again.
Even here in EU, girls act similar to US. Movies fuck theyr minds, I say!
Oh, good stuff for a first post, I think!
Greetz to all.
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