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| ChinUp wrote: | IMHO its all about time .. guy = 3 min, girl = 30 min .. plus men & women work on differnt cycles .. men have like one day a month they don't feel like cumming .. girls have one day a month they really feel like comming ..
monogamous relationships are a nightmare I swear humans aren't biologically set up for it .. interesting article on the health aspects of sex here |
That would be saying women want sex once a month. I don't think that is a healthy sex drive. Altho with a busy lifestyle, kids and job I can understand if it slows down.
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| Posted: Mon, 17th Dec 2007 08:43 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | ChinUp wrote: | IMHO its all about time .. guy = 3 min, girl = 30 min .. plus men & women work on differnt cycles .. men have like one day a month they don't feel like cumming .. girls have one day a month they really feel like comming ..
monogamous relationships are a nightmare I swear humans aren't biologically set up for it .. interesting article on the health aspects of sex here |
That would be saying women want sex once a month. I don't think that is a healthy sex drive. Altho with a busy lifestyle, kids and job I can understand if it slows down. |
This is perfect, I get both comments to quote.
First, how many guys actually last 3 mins? that's not realistic, most men last significantly
longer, and women if you know how to treat them they can be done in much less than 30 minutes, so you meet somewhere in the middle. This is why women like foreplay it helps
close the gap between the time it takes him and her to achieve climax.
@pistol, Well being you are the resident woman here please let me know, am I wrong?
and I also think a busy lifestyle shouldn't reduce desire all that much, but limit oppourtunity.
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| Posted: Mon, 17th Dec 2007 21:09 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 17th Dec 2007 21:30 Post subject: |
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I find women to be more about the fantasy, and foreplay , rather than the actual act when it comes to orgasms.
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| Posted: Mon, 17th Dec 2007 22:53 Post subject: |
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names, adresses and pictures of all the women that you know that are like that. Plz and thank you. 
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| Posted: Mon, 17th Dec 2007 23:15 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Mon, 17th Dec 2007 23:33 Post subject: |
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he's cute 
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 07:39 Post subject: |
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Actually, what you stated was a stereo type, it's false information, in every regard, it applies
to the vast minority of the population. I have no desire to point out all the inaccuracies someone does, I do enough on my own. I am well aware that you know not ALL men last 3 minutes, I have no insecurities about me, my sexuality or anything of the like. I simply think what you posted would only further allow this misconception carry forth.
I am aware that you most likely meant that men can orgasm quicker than women, and my counter point which I will clearly make now is that, that is a piss poor excuse to not make sure
your partner is fully satisfied on a regular basis.
Why is it that you in turn feel the need to think we are all brutish sex masters with insecurity issue's? I think you take these things far to seriously, you are on a public forum, relax a little breath and enjoy yourself.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 19:23 Post subject: |
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| Martian123 wrote: | Actually, what you stated was a stereo type, it's false information, in every regard, it applies
to the vast minority of the population. I have no desire to point out all the inaccuracies someone does, I do enough on my own. I am well aware that you know not ALL men last 3 minutes, I have no insecurities about me, my sexuality or anything of the like. I simply think what you posted would only further allow this misconception carry forth. |
how is stating that men don't require as much time as women to archive orgasms promoting bad preconceptions ? I would have thought it would dispel any illusions that men & women are the same sexually. Understanding our differences is I feel the lion share of the issue of getting & giving the most out of sex.
| Martian123 wrote: | | I am aware that you most likely meant that men can orgasm quicker than women, and my counter point which I will clearly make now is that, that is a piss poor excuse to not make sure your partner is fully satisfied on a regular basis. |
What kind of person uses the reality that men & women have differing time frames orgasmicly to shirk on offering their partner an equal if not greater amount of pleasure ? Inj 
| Martian123 wrote: | | Why is it that you in turn feel the need to think we are all brutish sex masters with insecurity issue's? I think you take these things far to seriously, you are on a public forum, relax a little breath and enjoy yourself. |
I called it as I saw it. folks going on about how they didn't need any video the were 1337 sexually & using what I wrote to state the obvious 
I was not stereotyping anyone. only stating an important part of making sure your partner gets the most out of sex, understanding how time plays a role. men have a nasty habit of thinking women can get off like they do & vic versa, I have found that when women & men acknowledge the differences between men & womens physical rhythms the whole shebang is more gratifying for both parties.
-------------------------------------------------------- nuff said
NOw how about you offer up some tips of your own. I thought this thread would be a great place to swap tips. you said you said found some great methods in your first post. please expand on that .. I'm genuinely curious what you have discovered.
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 20:06 Post subject: |
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IMHO its all about time .. guy = 3 min, girl = 30 min .. plus men & women work on differnt cycles .. men have like one day a month they don't feel like cumming .. girls have one day a month they really feel like comming ..
that statement broken down is simply not true,
guy = is a pretty static way of writing, it's roughly equivilent of saying men are exactly...
stating that men can achieve orgams faster than women is different and you have now corrected that.
stating women only feel like cuming once per month is simply not true, stating that women
desire sex less than men, is true.
that statement could also be read to imply that for the reasons you stated it is acceptable to have a partner not be satisfied because she takes 10 times longer to achieve satisfaction, which is not cool IMHO.
Now tips eh? lol I don't know I mean if I share what makes me special, than I will no longer be.
let me think about that.
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 20:22 Post subject: |
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Well, Ive been with a few women who could cum in under 10 mins. I dunno if it was me or them, but I have been with a few women who dont need long or much stimulation to cum
I think the male orgasim is all mental. You can cum when you want if your strong enough of mind. Im not saying im a super hero, but I can go off pretty much when I want....unless the woman is workin me good and I get into it to much
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 20:53 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Well, Ive been with a few women who could cum in under 10 mins. I dunno if it was me or them, but I have been with a few women who dont need long or much stimulation to cum
I think the male orgasim is all mental. You can cum when you want if your strong enough of mind. Im not saying im a super hero, but I can go off pretty much when I want....unless the woman is workin me good and I get into it to much |
Everyone is different,
I agree about orgasm being mental, but when you have one that does it for you, mmm.
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 21:45 Post subject: |
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| Martian123 wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | Well, Ive been with a few women who could cum in under 10 mins. I dunno if it was me or them, but I have been with a few women who dont need long or much stimulation to cum
I think the male orgasim is all mental. You can cum when you want if your strong enough of mind. Im not saying im a super hero, but I can go off pretty much when I want....unless the woman is workin me good and I get into it to much |
Everyone is different,
I agree about orgasm being mental, but when you have one that does it for you, mmm. |
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 22:13 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | Well, Ive been with a few women who could cum in under 10 mins. I dunno if it was me or them, but I have been with a few women who dont need long or much stimulation to cum
I think the male orgasim is all mental. You can cum when you want if your strong enough of mind. Im not saying im a super hero, but I can go off pretty much when I want....unless the woman is workin me good and I get into it to much |
ya me too, knew one girl who got off from just the build up, but on the whole the ladies need time taken with them to be able to relax enough to let loose. Ain't it a bitch that letting yourslef get off on it calls a halt to it .. rofl o the irony .. still you can bounce with that shit & get off without actually getting off, like I said I find timing is a big part of making it work for both of you.
ever tried a blindfold ?
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 22:30 Post subject: |
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| ChinUp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | Well, Ive been with a few women who could cum in under 10 mins. I dunno if it was me or them, but I have been with a few women who dont need long or much stimulation to cum
I think the male orgasim is all mental. You can cum when you want if your strong enough of mind. Im not saying im a super hero, but I can go off pretty much when I want....unless the woman is workin me good and I get into it to much |
ya me too, but on the whole the ladies need time taken with them to be able to relax enough to let loose. Ain't it a bitch that letting yourslef get off on it calls a halt to it .. rofl o the irony .. still you can bounce with that shit & get off without actually getting off, like I said I find timing is a big part of making it work for both of you.
ever tried a blindfold ? |
yeah man, handcuffs, whips etc
Been with a few kinky girls. My exwife was kinda kinky too. |
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 22:35 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | ChinUp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | Well, Ive been with a few women who could cum in under 10 mins. I dunno if it was me or them, but I have been with a few women who dont need long or much stimulation to cum
I think the male orgasim is all mental. You can cum when you want if your strong enough of mind. Im not saying im a super hero, but I can go off pretty much when I want....unless the woman is workin me good and I get into it to much |
ya me too, but on the whole the ladies need time taken with them to be able to relax enough to let loose. Ain't it a bitch that letting yourslef get off on it calls a halt to it .. rofl o the irony .. still you can bounce with that shit & get off without actually getting off, like I said I find timing is a big part of making it work for both of you.
ever tried a blindfold ? |
yeah man, handcuffs, whips etc
Been with a few kinky girls. My exwife was kinda kinky too. |
I find the tease factor can really yield results, i personally don't really get off on the whole anticipation thing, but some ladies really eat that shit up.
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| Posted: Thu, 20th Dec 2007 22:44 Post subject: |
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| ChinUp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | ChinUp wrote: | ya me too, but on the whole the ladies need time taken with them to be able to relax enough to let loose. Ain't it a bitch that letting yourslef get off on it calls a halt to it .. rofl o the irony .. still you can bounce with that shit & get off without actually getting off, like I said I find timing is a big part of making it work for both of you.
ever tried a blindfold ? |
yeah man, handcuffs, whips etc
Been with a few kinky girls. My exwife was kinda kinky too. |
I find the tease factor can really yield results, i personally don't really get off on the whole anticipation thing, but some ladies really eat that shit up. |
Same here. The blindfold doesnt really do it for me. Same as being handcuffed and shit
Scratching, biting and slapping on the other hand...well, thats a whole next conversation |
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| Martian123 wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | ChinUp wrote: | | I find the tease factor can really yield results, i personally don't really get off on the whole anticipation thing, but some ladies really eat that shit up. |
Same here. The blindfold doesnt really do it for me. Same as being handcuffed and shit
Scratching, biting and slapping on the other hand...well, thats a whole next conversation |
Um, no is no Syco! bad man! bad man! |
hahahahah  if you only knew 
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PC?
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viagra?
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] for u unless of course u satisfied with your current 3 minute stage atm 
I still don't understand how come you presumed i meant all men only last 3 min by stating that men 
I would not advise anyone to use pharmaceuticals to address premature ejaculation or a sluggish erection personally.
we believe you honest 
