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 I know. But a lot of people share that idea of love. You love someone, you're commited to them  Familia started being important to me like... couple odd long months ago when i met this girl... then it didn't last... but i liked the idea of having a want for family. And I'm not gonna go into homemaking w/ someone and look at it like a bidness like lotta people.  I wanna raise kids... not finances
I know wha love is. It's good when it happens. It's bad when it ends. It makes you feel pleasant. Just pleasant. Everything is pleasant and you're oh so pithy. but like yah...  That was eons ago. I forced myself to grow up and stop looking at clouds. It's boring down here with my feet on the ground, but it's safer. Sex is lesser than it used to be, but now it's... more... 'frequent'. 
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| Posted: Mon, 7th Jul 2008 22:59 Post subject: |
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Quality is amazing. But quantity... I go for them ... dysfunctional girls like recently in the past 2 weeks i've been going out with like the very first normal girl and i'm still hoping to see something pop up.
I agree over quality... it's just that... you don't know you got quality and you lose it the moment you find out. Quantity can help you get to quality faster but then you'll have a problem apperciating the quality. so meh... it's lose/lose for me or win/win i'll find out in the coming weeks
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 07:45 Post subject: |
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I believe that you don't just love someone, it is entirely up to the person who loves.
You allow yourself to love someone, the qualities of the person are appealing to you, they are what you want or perhaps even need, and you then allow yourself to fall in love with that person.
Read not to contradict and confute, nor to believe and take for granted, but to weigh and consider.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 09:43 Post subject: |
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Heh. Maybe. I remember that everytime it ended i missed a lot of the talks and shit  the eyes and smile and the lil stupid things they did like prenounce certain words differently... things that stuck out You become attached to the person and you adore every single moment. Then it ends and it's like... what the fuck kind of a feeling. Like you dunno if you can adore someone like that again. Then you do and you go through different things next time, the hair, the legs, the lil birth mark on her neck.... little things. Big things don't tend to stand out.
Like, I can remember what the eyes looked like but never the eye colour 
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 11:46 Post subject: |
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| Martian123 wrote: | I believe that you don't just love someone, it is entirely up to the person who loves.
You allow yourself to love someone, the qualities of the person are appealing to you, they are what you want or perhaps even need, and you then allow yourself to fall in love with that person. |
You can control whether you fall in love or not ? In my experience all you can control is the staying with the person. The falling happens all by itself.
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 17:19 Post subject: |
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| ChinUp wrote: | | Martian123 wrote: | I believe that you don't just love someone, it is entirely up to the person who loves.
You allow yourself to love someone, the qualities of the person are appealing to you, they are what you want or perhaps even need, and you then allow yourself to fall in love with that person. |
You can control whether you fall in love or not ? In my experience all you can control is the staying with the person. The falling happens all by itself. |
If you were to have written down every interaction with someone, from the moment you met them to the moment you realized that you loved them, you would be able to see what I mean. There would be a point of interest, like hey we had a great time, there would be a point of comfort, like hey I really enjoy being cuddled up, so on and so forth..
You would be able to see what it was that brought you close, it's the enjoyment of that persons qualities that allow you to get close enough to love them.
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 20:19 Post subject: |
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| Martian123 wrote: | If you were to have written down every interaction with someone, from the moment you met them to the moment you realized that you loved them, you would be able to see what I mean. There would be a point of interest, like hey we had a great time, there would be a point of comfort, like hey I really enjoy being cuddled up, so on and so forth..
You would be able to see what it was that brought you close, it's the enjoyment of that persons qualities that allow you to get close enough to love them. |
So you have never met somebody & loved them immediately, even as you first set eyes on each other ? Like you just fell over a precipice into another world ?
"Most of the change we think we see in life is due to truths being in & out of favor." ~ Frost
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| Posted: Tue, 8th Jul 2008 20:42 Post subject: |
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With me it happens after 3-4 days of meeting someone, never instantly, but 3-4 days is rather quickly, you don't just fall in love with looks, you fall in love once the other person opens their mouth(atleast thats how it works for me).
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