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Cohen
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so fucking angry..
about 9 months ago i split with my ex of 2 years. Im with someone who is ten times the girl now and im happy. Today my fucking ex texted my best friend to find out / mine information on what im doing and who im seeing. he fucking told her. Im so angry, we agreed we would ignore her should she get in contact anymore so i could move the hell on with my life and now she does this. I fucking hate the bitch, im serioulsy thinking of posting her pictures all over the net then printing them out and posting it to her family members to really fuck up her life she seems so intent on not letting me get on with mine FUCKING BITCH!!!
Whew.. let that one out there...
WTF do i do now.. i told my best mate of 8 years its her or me, not both.
fucking whorefaced bitch slag slut cunt. apparently shes happy that ive moved on with a new girl. MY FUCKING ASS.. fuckin bitch wasnt saying that when we broke up, fucking bitch.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 01:56 Post subject: |
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CUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNT FUCK FUCK FUCK RARAAAAAAAGE!!!!!!!!!!
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 02:09 Post subject: |
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Man, i know its easier said than done but let it go. All she wants is to mind fuck you and screw with you.
By getting angry and such, your letting her win bud.
Thats why i dont stress over my exwife anymore. There's no point. You gotta just let things slide, act like it doesnt bother you and thats it
You have a new good girl in your life, good job and such. Who cares about your ex ya know? Fuck her. Like I said, she's just trying to get to you and by getting angry your letting her win man
Your a good guy, dont get suckered in by some stupid bitch
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Btw, my exwife as of late has done similar things. Got in contact with a couple of my friends, trying to find out shit about me and my new girl etc So I know where your coming from
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 02:21 Post subject: |
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That's it, let it all out, break something ... something cheap.
Shift-del some hd-rips ... vent your anger !
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 02:51 Post subject: |
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Let it go. She is a BITTTTTTTTTTch. A big one at that.
If I were you I would maybe look at your friend that told her info in the first place. I had a stalker once and the friend I had at the time told him everything. He was PLAYING my friend to get at me. I don't want friends like that today.
Sooo, heads up, re-evaluate your friends and their loyality.
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 02:56 Post subject: |
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Send me pics or post them here and in 24h she will be not your trouble . We have a policy on that .
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 03:03 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | Let it go. She is a BITTTTTTTTTTch. A big one at that.
If I were you I would maybe look at your friend that told her info in the first place. I had a stalker once and the friend I had at the time told him everything. He was PLAYING my friend to get at me. I don't want friends like that today.
Sooo, heads up, re-evaluate your friends and their loyality. |
If you dont mind me asking, why was he stalking you? cause he thought he loved you and wanted you or for some other reason.
If you dont want to answer, thats cool. Im just curious. Ive never understood stalkers. Why lust/want someone who doesnt want anything to do with you, ya know? Same thing goes for rapists. Just dont understand the mentality behind it |
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 03:13 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | Let it go. She is a BITTTTTTTTTTch. A big one at that.
If I were you I would maybe look at your friend that told her info in the first place. I had a stalker once and the friend I had at the time told him everything. He was PLAYING my friend to get at me. I don't want friends like that today.
Sooo, heads up, re-evaluate your friends and their loyality. |
If you dont mind me asking, why was he stalking you? cause he thought he loved you and wanted you or for some other reason.
If you dont want to answer, thats cool. Im just curious. Ive never understood stalkers. Why lust/want someone who doesnt want anything to do with you, ya know? Same thing goes for rapists. Just dont understand the mentality behind it |
I had a girl stalk me for a bit. She would text me, call me, etc when I was out with my other woman, post on my facebook til I deleted her. People who stalk are plain just crazy. |
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 03:16 Post subject: |
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rape is simple, they want something that they cant have so they abuse their strength to take it. Thats human nature.
Stalking is the same thing only it affects people who are tapped in the head, they think differetly to others and have feelings and morals different to other people. They may think you telling them to fuck off is really you saying you want them to stalk you. Who knnows?
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 03:17 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 03:31 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | Let it go. She is a BITTTTTTTTTTch. A big one at that.
If I were you I would maybe look at your friend that told her info in the first place. I had a stalker once and the friend I had at the time told him everything. He was PLAYING my friend to get at me. I don't want friends like that today.
Sooo, heads up, re-evaluate your friends and their loyality. |
If you dont mind me asking, why was he stalking you? cause he thought he loved you and wanted you or for some other reason.
If you dont want to answer, thats cool. Im just curious. Ive never understood stalkers. Why lust/want someone who doesnt want anything to do with you, ya know? Same thing goes for rapists. Just dont understand the mentality behind it |
I think he got angry more than anything else and couldn't let it go. The more I ignored the more he bit into my friends for info.
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 03:48 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | Let it go. She is a BITTTTTTTTTTch. A big one at that.
If I were you I would maybe look at your friend that told her info in the first place. I had a stalker once and the friend I had at the time told him everything. He was PLAYING my friend to get at me. I don't want friends like that today.
Sooo, heads up, re-evaluate your friends and their loyality. |
If you dont mind me asking, why was he stalking you? cause he thought he loved you and wanted you or for some other reason.
If you dont want to answer, thats cool. Im just curious. Ive never understood stalkers. Why lust/want someone who doesnt want anything to do with you, ya know? Same thing goes for rapists. Just dont understand the mentality behind it |
I think he got angry more than anything else and couldn't let it go. The more I ignored the more he bit into my friends for info. |
Well, i hope he got what he deserved. Either a very severe ass kicking or jail time |
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 04:51 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | | pistolshrimp wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: |
If you dont mind me asking, why was he stalking you? cause he thought he loved you and wanted you or for some other reason.
If you dont want to answer, thats cool. Im just curious. Ive never understood stalkers. Why lust/want someone who doesnt want anything to do with you, ya know? Same thing goes for rapists. Just dont understand the mentality behind it |
I think he got angry more than anything else and couldn't let it go. The more I ignored the more he bit into my friends for info. |
Well, i hope he got what he deserved. Either a very severe ass kicking or jail time |
No, the court date took about 1.5 years. In the meantime he stopped. I was scared the court date would just remind him of all the shit and make he start all over again.
Nothing happened to him. The judge called him a liar tho. For me that was huge.
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 07:44 Post subject: |
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 15:48 Post subject: |
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 17:03 Post subject: |
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| VGAdeadcafe wrote: | That's it, let it all out, break something ... something cheap.
Shift-del some hd-rips ... vent your anger ! |
shift-del something, lmfao, that's gotta be the best thing i've heard in venting anger, that's a new one to me, hahaha. |
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Tue, 15th Jul 2008 18:10 Post subject: |
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| pistolshrimp wrote: | | kaeye wrote: |  I am going to try hard to let it go, Ive told my friend I want to know nothing about her or even bring her up in conversation. My new lady is being great about it however.. I told her the whole situation and she offered to take me out for a meal tonight and a few drinks to chillax and forget the whole situation.
Im starting to realise now ive calmed down, what difference does it make that she is still friendly with my best friend? It doesnt effect me and my lady so, so be it. |
I think it makes a difference because crazy girl still thinks she has her foot in the door. If she is the controling type she will use your bf to get at you. He will end up saying something he shouldn't without thinking and her little mind will take off with it. You can't fathom what she might do. You know her best tho and the type of person she is. Is she is a true mean person then I would be worried she is still talking to your bf.
I am prob tainted because of my experience. When I had problems with that idiot stalker guy he totally used my friends. They wouldn't keep their bloody mouth shut about me. He told them so many lies, like it was his brother doing half the stuff and they believed him. He actually made them feel sorry for him. His controling behavior started to piss them off and they caught him in too many lies. When they finally saw what he was doing it was too late. Our friendship was over. I didn't want friends that thought it was ok for fuck-heads to show up at your work and cause a scene or thought it was ok put their hands on you, (around your neck actually) because you wouldn't "fucking listen" to him. I never forgave them. |
Damn, i wouldnt forgive friends like that either |
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Cohen
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| Posted: Wed, 16th Jul 2008 03:51 Post subject: |
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I think im about to lose my best friend over this.
Hes taken it badly as to thinking I dont trust / respect him over it. In a way hes got it right, I dont know if I trust him now he broke our agreement to ignore her for good.
Gutted really. I guess life really does kick you in the nuts while you are down sometimes.
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| Posted: Wed, 16th Jul 2008 04:31 Post subject: |
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| kaeye wrote: | I think im about to lose my best friend over this.
Hes taken it badly as to thinking I dont trust / respect him over it. In a way hes got it right, I dont know if I trust him now he broke our agreement to ignore her for good.
Gutted really. I guess life really does kick you in the nuts while you are down sometimes. |
I am sure he really doesn't want to hurt you and I am sure he is not a bad guy. He just doesn't have the experince in his life to realise what is happening and how he is being used. In your ex's mind I am sure she thinks she have every right to do what she is doing.
Sounds like you just need time to make that decision. I hope stuff doesn't happen in the meantime but if it does I am sure you are aware of his weakness. We all have them.
I never really blamed my few friends for doing doing that to me, I just got pissed that they made excuses and downplayed what was happening, My friends were naive, plain and simple. They got called into court and they looked like asses. I felt sorry for them. I just want to say tho that my friends at the time were good people. Just not my kind in the long run.
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| Posted: Wed, 16th Jul 2008 07:33 Post subject: |
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| kaeye wrote: | I think im about to lose my best friend over this.
Hes taken it badly as to thinking I dont trust / respect him over it. In a way hes got it right, I dont know if I trust him now he broke our agreement to ignore her for good.
Gutted really. I guess life really does kick you in the nuts while you are down sometimes. |
Forgive him. No need to make this harder on yourself and true friends are hard to come by. If you wish you could use him as a method of getting rid of her though by having him lie to her by saying your thinking about proposing to your new girlfriend or something. This should cause your ex to feel that her chance of either getting back to you or using you in any form of way is no longer a option.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Wed, 16th Jul 2008 16:42 Post subject: |
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Well I talked with my buddy and we figured out our differences. He apologized for breaking our agreement and I apologized for over reacting a little. He suggested I should just relax a little more about it and embrace my new love more which is true. He also stated he senses exactly what shes like and shes full of jealousy after hearing about me moving on. Which for me is a good thing.
She hasnt been in contact with either of us since monday. He apparently only replied to her, not innitiated conversation so..
Im glad ths situation has defused. He expressed not being able to sleep well and worrying about what he saw as a minor incident.. I saw it larger but I think it was because I have not quite fully let go of my past.
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| Posted: Wed, 16th Jul 2008 17:04 Post subject: |
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| NuclearShadow wrote: | | kaeye wrote: | I think im about to lose my best friend over this.
Hes taken it badly as to thinking I dont trust / respect him over it. In a way hes got it right, I dont know if I trust him now he broke our agreement to ignore her for good.
Gutted really. I guess life really does kick you in the nuts while you are down sometimes. |
Forgive him. No need to make this harder on yourself and true friends are hard to come by. If you wish you could use him as a method of getting rid of her though by having him lie to her by saying your thinking about proposing to your new girlfriend or something. This should cause your ex to feel that her chance of either getting back to you or using you in any form of way is no longer a option. |
I think that would be bad. Lying about a proposel is just asking (maybe even begging) for more drama esp if the situation is dying down. Also someone was to 'use' their friend for something like that they wouldn't be any better then the girlfriend.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Wed, 16th Jul 2008 17:19 Post subject: |
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I would never lie like that. Lying leads to more pain than good.
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