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WaldoJ
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Oct 2008 02:50    Post subject:
Shit nice. Never heard of Vo and vsop. But I hate Crown. Oh my god. The after taste. It's arrgh. Too sweet. I like to taste the scotch and not be bombarded with a sweet aftertaste. Y'know. It just such a turn off for me.

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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Oct 2008 06:44    Post subject:
WaldoJ wrote:
Shit nice. Never heard of Vo and vsop. But I hate Crown. Oh my god. The after taste. It's arrgh. Too sweet. I like to taste the scotch and not be bombarded with a sweet aftertaste. Y'know. It just such a turn off for me.


you've mever heard of vo and vsop (the better one). man, premium liquer. You should try it. I am sure you'd like it. If you have an extra couple of bucks, go to the lcbo and look around/ask for it. Its a brand, its not called Vo or VSop its called something else but the...i dunno what you call it, is vo or vsop. Great stuff man. One of the few liquers I can drink.
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Oct 2008 22:10    Post subject:
Neon25 wrote:
I am Polish. And yes, most of the pretty ones are either sluts or dumb asses, but she's not like that.

I guess I'll ask her friend then, but if you guys have any other ideas feel free to write them here.


Pass a note with her friend.

Ask if she wants to go steady. Only yes or no options.
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PostPosted: Wed, 1st Oct 2008 22:23    Post subject:
Include a (definitely)maybe just for fun.
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 19:47    Post subject:
That's one-side love, Neon25; so tell her that you can't wait to see her again, that she becomes very important in your life.
And let her choose.
Her answer won't come normally at once.
It will take her perhaps days to accept or refuse this new fact.
So take your distances to let her decide.
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 19:56    Post subject:
Shit, I forgot about this topic, lol.

Anyway, we had a long talk (3hours or more). She didn't turn me down, in fact she said she would be my girl someday, but she's just not ready. She said she hurt somebody, and she has to wait. I asked her what happened, but she said it's difficult for her to talk about it and that she'll tell me "when the time comes". She wants to enjoy her life, as being in relationship "limits her", she said.

Life goes on.
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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 20:05    Post subject:
Neon25 wrote:
Shit, I forgot about this topic, lol.

Anyway, we had a long talk (3hours or more). She didn't turn me down, in fact she said she would be my girl someday, but she's just not ready. She said she hurt somebody, and she has to wait. I asked her what happened, but she said it's difficult for her to talk about it and that she'll tell me "when the time comes". She wants to enjoy her life, as being in relationship "limits her", she said.

Life goes on.


lol I had the exact same thing. wacha do? I moved on. Sort of. Got me another girl and totally stopped talking to this one, well not stopped but was like, if she dun wanna relationship i ain't gonna waste my time, ya kno. I dun need another fuck buddy kind of a thing, cause in the end you lose respect for them and if they wanna go in, you end up tinkin shit like... she's a slut and the like. Laughing

But yah... I wanna know whacha do. or what you'll do. Razz

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PostPosted: Sun, 5th Oct 2008 20:44    Post subject:
Neon25 wrote:
Shit, I forgot about this topic, lol.

Anyway, we had a long talk (3hours or more). She didn't turn me down, in fact she said she would be my girl someday, but she's just not ready. She said she hurt somebody, and she has to wait. I asked her what happened, but she said it's difficult for her to talk about it and that she'll tell me "when the time comes". She wants to enjoy her life, as being in relationship "limits her", she said.

Life goes on.


sorry to say dude, but that sounds like she was letting you down easy. All this "when the time comes" bullshit...come on. Im not trying to be mean to ya dude or hurt your feelings, but she turned you down in a nice way. Dont wait around for her hoping that "time" will come. It wont.
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PostPosted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 01:38    Post subject:
first of all: what syco said Smile
second, that sounds as if she really likes you and that's always cool.
think about it, we all (well, most of us) have alot of "friends" but only few who you would really call close friends (at least that's how it's with me)
so once you get over her and move on, you might find that she could become a very good friend (unless she already is to you) and even if that isn't what you wanted, it's something, right? (again, if you two already are close friends, just forget this pots Very Happy)
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PostPosted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 06:32    Post subject:
Reklis wrote:
first of all: what syco said Smile
second, that sounds as if she really likes you and that's always cool.
think about it, we all (well, most of us) have alot of "friends" but only few who you would really call close friends (at least that's how it's with me)
so once you get over her and move on, you might find that she could become a very good friend (unless she already is to you) and even if that isn't what you wanted, it's something, right? (again, if you two already are close friends, just forget this pots Very Happy)

being close friends with a girl you're physically attracted to is usually a one way ticket to fail city. well, it was in my case Very Happy. It just doesn't work and the guy usually ends up with blue balls and a broken heart. I, for one, stopped making this compromise. Smile

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PostPosted: Mon, 6th Oct 2008 12:30    Post subject:
that's why i said once he is over her Wink
yeah, i know for some of us that might never happen or takes a whole while - for me normally it's rather fast, for i don't see a reason to want a girl that doesn't want me.
my best friend is a girl, i find it much easier to talk to her about stuff i've got going with my girlfriend than with my male friends - might be because thy all act a bit immature as soon at the conversation is about women... damn, i need some friends who are a bit more serious Very Happy
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PostPosted: Tue, 7th Oct 2008 02:37    Post subject:
You know what I dont get about alot of you guys....you play games. Fuck, be direct. Make a move. If you get turned down, you know the answer or she is shy and in which case, the result is the same, not woth the time or effort.

Maybe its my age and or experience but i dont write notes or do these kiddie things. Seriously, being direct is the best way to go about things. that way there is no confusion
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2008 04:37    Post subject:
SycoShaman wrote:
You know what I dont get about alot of you guys....you play games. Fuck, be direct. Make a move. If you get turned down, you know the answer or she is shy and in which case, the result is the same, not woth the time or effort.

Maybe its my age and or experience but i dont write notes or do these kiddie things. Seriously, being direct is the best way to go about things. that way there is no confusion


Have to agree, sometimes direct is the best way to go.

It may not always work out the way you want it too tho. Age however is not always a factor. There are some very smart young people out there that may know may know more then the older.
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2008 04:51    Post subject:
pistolshrimp wrote:
SycoShaman wrote:
You know what I dont get about alot of you guys....you play games. Fuck, be direct. Make a move. If you get turned down, you know the answer or she is shy and in which case, the result is the same, not woth the time or effort.

Maybe its my age and or experience but i dont write notes or do these kiddie things. Seriously, being direct is the best way to go about things. that way there is no confusion


Have to agree, sometimes direct is the best way to go.

It may not always work out the way you want it too tho. Age however is not always a factor. There are some very smart young people out there that may know may know more then the older.


of course there are exceptions to the rule, that applies for almost everything in life. But in general terms, young adults tend to play more games than ppl who have already been through certain things.
Like i said, there are exceptions. I was speaking generally.
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PostPosted: Sat, 11th Oct 2008 10:15    Post subject: Re: This girl.... Yeah, girl topic again.
Neon25 wrote:
Alright, so there is a girl in my class. As you know, most Polish girls are hot as hell, and she isn't an exception. We've known each other for about 3 months now. She's really great, understanding and intelligent. She even said I was very important to her right from the beginning.

The problem is, that there is this guy. He always waits for her after our classes, and she talks with him on most breakes too. They seem to know each other, and to say the truth I'm jealous. Even though I'm not even with her. I mean- when I see them talking it's like my pulse speeds up. It just makes me sad, but I know I'm just fucking jealous. I'm too shy to ask her if she's going out with that guy currently, but about 3 weeks ago she said he was a close friend, but it sure doesn't look like it.

Oh god, I feel like a wuss.
Do you find possessiveness sexy in a woman ? No. its needy & a turn of. Next time you speak to her take her hand in yours while you speak. Here reaction will address all your concerns. Critical part of this is your willingness to accept whatever the result is. Don't waste too much time sniffing around a girl your not going to get anywhere with. You don't need it nor does she.

Better to keep a clear head & know where you are than be living in constant doubt & confusion. She shrugs you off just walk. She doesn't kiss her. Easy as making pancakes. Wink

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PostPosted: Sun, 12th Oct 2008 07:36    Post subject: Re: This girl.... Yeah, girl topic again.
ChinUp wrote:
Neon25 wrote:
Alright, so there is a girl in my class. As you know, most Polish girls are hot as hell, and she isn't an exception. We've known each other for about 3 months now. She's really great, understanding and intelligent. She even said I was very important to her right from the beginning.

The problem is, that there is this guy. He always waits for her after our classes, and she talks with him on most breakes too. They seem to know each other, and to say the truth I'm jealous. Even though I'm not even with her. I mean- when I see them talking it's like my pulse speeds up. It just makes me sad, but I know I'm just fucking jealous. I'm too shy to ask her if she's going out with that guy currently, but about 3 weeks ago she said he was a close friend, but it sure doesn't look like it.

Oh god, I feel like a wuss.
Do you find possessiveness sexy in a woman ? No. its needy & a turn of. Next time you speak to her take her hand in yours while you speak. Here reaction will address all your concerns. Critical part of this is your willingness to accept whatever the result is. Don't waste too much time sniffing around a girl your not going to get anywhere with. You don't need it nor does she.

Better to keep a clear head & know where you are than be living in constant doubt & confusion. She shrugs you off just walk. She doesn't kiss her. Easy as making pancakes. Wink


exactly. Smile
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PostPosted: Mon, 13th Oct 2008 01:42    Post subject:
I think you are wrong there chinup.

well, not wrong.. I guess.. but I 'disagree' with you.

I find the needyness in a girl quite an attractive quality. some of my bad relationship was with girls who are too distant and kinda just wanted a BF for the sake of it.

I think that relationships work best when either partner 'needs' the other person for whatever reason (obviously not life dependent or anything Laughing) you know? perhaps no one can make them feel as special as you make them feel, no one else gives 'that' hug, or can talk that advice or comforting words they 'need' to hear in a time of crisis. A big mistake people often make in relationships is making someone a priority in their own life when they are just an option in that other persons life.. Ive made that mistake before and believe me, it isnt a good situation to be in after it goes tits up.

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PostPosted: Mon, 13th Oct 2008 02:06    Post subject:
@kae

neediness and affectionate are two different things mate
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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Oct 2008 03:48    Post subject:
Tell her she reminds you of your sister. She will thinks its adorable!


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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Oct 2008 05:22    Post subject:
timechange01 wrote:
Tell her she reminds you of your sister. She will thinks its adorable!


I really hope your joking....

If your not and you actually say that to girls...I suggest you stop using it.
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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Oct 2008 06:10    Post subject:
Just kidding Very Happy


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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Oct 2008 08:06    Post subject:
timechange01 wrote:
Just kidding Very Happy


lol ok good. Cause if you ever were in a bar and you know, your hittin on a chick and you say (at the end of the nite) "wanna come back to my place?" and then as your walking out your like "you know, you remind me of my sister"....lol she'll either walk away or slap you.

Imagine your making out with a chick and you stop for some air and she's like "you remind me of my brother".....there goes the stiffy...lol
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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Oct 2008 11:28    Post subject:
Better line, "Im going to adopt you as my little sister" and yes its just a line, but it works.
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PostPosted: Tue, 14th Oct 2008 11:46    Post subject:
lmfao. Time change strikes again Laughing

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