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wanking before meeting her helps. Just dont make too a big a deal out of it. It might also her insecurities transfering to you...
if you shag her, post a video though 
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Cohen
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Support81
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2008 02:37 Post subject: |
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| kaeye wrote: | well, its not that.. Its hard to explain.. Like, I really want to bang her, In my mind I want to fuck her senseless. But when she pounces on me I start feeling weird and nervous. I dont understand. I feel bad telling her im not ready, cos It doesnt feel like me. 
Weve been seeing each other for almost a month now too. |
Ur in love dude.  |
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2008 03:17 Post subject: |
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you like her, she likes you... you take too long she'll think you dun wanna fuck her, you go too fast she thinks you're too eager and you only wanna fuck her... seriously let it happen... take her to a nice meal, snuggle up close, kiss her neck and let shit happen.
Like what are you a virgin? Stop taking your time with this. You can only fuck things up if you take your time. Seriously. She's into you right now. You're into her. You want her to feel unattractive and unwanted? Sometimes you have to make the first move. Show her you see her as more than just a friend. Cause right now you're treading on best friend lines. You may have made out. You may have got your dick sucked, and you may have ate her out, but if you don't have the guts to do mans work, you're going to lose her.
If you started seeing her (just now) i'd say wait it out and it'll happen naturally, but since you're delaying it, you're sort of fucking yourself up. There's no advice here. Just stop being a pussy and fuck one.
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2008 04:04 Post subject: |
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You act as if there is something more to a healthy relationship beyond sex.
Sense Amid Madness, Wit Amidst Folly
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WaldoJ
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2008 05:19 Post subject: |
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First three months are sexual. You get to know a person... if you dun pop your relationship cherry within first three months without a logical reason both parties will feel neglected and unwanted. Simple as that. Reasons not to have sex: not ready, had a rough patch long way back and needs stability in a relationship first, psychological issues.
Yeah you can be all flowers and bouquets and picnics and candlelight dinners. Yeah you can have that, but we're species driven by sex and sexual needs. Sex is fucking normal. Everyone wants it. It seals a relationship. It makes it 'permanent'. It makes it mean something. it means that you are comfortable with that person. it means you want to be with that person. Sex in a relationship is pretty much everything. It defines a relationship. You cannot have a relationship without sex and call it a relationship. Relationship is built on trust, love, respect, and attitude.
You cannot be in a relationship and not get pussy. it sounds harsh and shallow and fucked up, but I'm serious. Sex makes a relationship real. It gives reason and logic to a relationship. gives a light in their eyes. Gets them a better flower. A sweeter cake. If you don't want to have sex with your partner, don't date them. Because the longer you hold out on them, the more pain and turmoil you cause.
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2008 08:16 Post subject: |
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I am not quite sure what you are asking exactly?
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2008 08:45 Post subject: |
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Dude just have sex, even if the first time doesent feel that great it releaves tention making you both feel more comfy togheter. After that its all good babe...
Dont mess with God, he can impregnate your girlfriend/wife without taking his pants off!
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| Posted: Mon, 27th Oct 2008 09:17 Post subject: |
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| Acer wrote: | | Dude just have sex, even if the first time doesent feel that great it releaves tention making you both feel more comfy togheter. After that its all good babe... |
Have to agree with that. The first time with someone new almost always sucks, but then you are so much more comfortable with them the next time it can be really great.
Kae,
I am not telling you what to do tho. You have to do what is right for you and if you don't feel comfortable then don't do it. Sometimes it is your bodies way of saying no even if your brain is thinking "I should do this, this is what I am suppost to do" In the end it will all work out. Take care Ok
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 00:08 Post subject: |
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we finally went further today... it felt great.. it feels so different to what im used to with ex's. She touches me how I enjoy, not just as if shes reading a manual. Not all the way but i so wanted to.. but i guess taking it slow is better. now shes saying she doesnt mind taking it slowly this time, waiting.
we ARE together btw, have been an item for a month now.
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 00:50 Post subject: |
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it doesnt matter where she touches you. you will like in a different more meaningfull, enjoyable, horny way! love 
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 00:51 Post subject: |
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| kaeye wrote: | we finally went further today... it felt great.. it feels so different to what im used to with ex's. She touches me how I enjoy, not just as if shes reading a manual. Not all the way but i so wanted to.. but i guess taking it slow is better. now shes saying she doesnt mind taking it slowly this time, waiting.
we ARE together btw, have been an item for a month now. |
Marvellous!!!!
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 01:08 Post subject: |
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Wanking before definatly helps. The shit part however, is that if thats the night you decide to bone - Your dick is going to hurt a shitload. Not to mention it sucks blowing like a drop of load. So basically, fucking deal with.
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Cohen
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 01:35 Post subject: |
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lol!
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 01:47 Post subject: |
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Girl I know has a special way of making me crazy, and I don't need sex for that, its indeed how she touches you, it can drive you mad with desire, not alot of women know how, and when you have one that knows how to move a man, then you'r onto a winner. So yeah Kaeye, I'm with you on this one.
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 01:53 Post subject: |
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You don't want to hug, you just want bang bang bang?
I also think fisk should be unbanned.
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 01:55 Post subject: |
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| dominae wrote: | | You don't want to hug, you just want bang bang bang? |
Hugging is for girls and eurofags. Real men
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 02:31 Post subject: |
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If you go for the kill instantly your sexlife will be extremely boring, tease, make her crazy, delay the inevitable and they'll keep begging, then and only then should you give it to them. I have plenty of women girlfriends and they hate guys that don't know how to drive women crazy, and by the looks of it many here are noobs at it, your hands are tools, and should be used properly.
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 02:48 Post subject: |
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Don't overlook the relationship between sex and food. Its too strange a concept to fully understand, but it is a scientific fact that there is a direct link between the two.
So why not utilise that fact? Prepare cosy night at home without her knowledge. Dim the lights, play some soft music, maybe light some candles and treat her to a quiet, comfortable, romantic afternoon. Then, when you feel the moment is just right, unzip your pants and slap your dick down on the table. If she dosn't stick a fork in it, you're golden!
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 19:43 Post subject: |
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| Pfiemelcheese wrote: | | If you go for the kill instantly your sexlife will be extremely boring, tease, make her crazy, delay the inevitable and they'll keep begging, then and only then should you give it to them. I have plenty of women girlfriends and they hate guys that don't know how to drive women crazy, and by the looks of it many here are noobs at it, your hands are tools, and should be used properly. |
so true
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 19:56 Post subject: |
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 womens love to be teased. It's lol. So easy to manipulate. So easy to take and so easy to sweep off of their feet. 
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 22:40 Post subject: |
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Sounds like something I talked about recently in another thread.
It entirely means what sex means to you, not about what everyone else is saying here.
Do it when you feel comfortable, regardless of how long that takes.
In saying that, My girlfriend and I waited a few weeks, and now we turn the bed into a swimming pool of bodily fluids after going at it for 5 or 6 hours. It was really awkward the first few times, trying to get to know each others bodies, but it's not changed our relationship emotionally at all. As long as you're adult about everything, and make each other comfortable, and KEEP COMMUNICATING THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS ABOUT THE ISSUE AS WELL AS EVERYTHING ELSE, you're all good.
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 22:55 Post subject: |
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clap clap clap clap
but you're an ea fan... you can't be taken seriously 
| Sin317 wrote: | | I win, you lose. Or Go fuck yourself. |
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| Posted: Tue, 28th Oct 2008 23:44 Post subject: |
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| Phluxed wrote: | | KEEP COMMUNICATING THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS ABOUT THE ISSUE AS WELL AS EVERYTHING ELSE, you're all good. |
What if she isn't capable of thought? (I like em that way).
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