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wawrzul
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I've been living alone for a few years and I've discovered that it's awesome. Actually, I can't live with anyone else for long, not my friends, not my parents, it starts getting hectic after a few days.
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wawrzul
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 09:52 Post subject: |
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| VGAdeadcafe wrote: | | I've been living alone for a few years and I've discovered that it's awesome. Actually, I can't live with anyone else for long, not my friends, not my parents, it starts getting hectic after a few days. |
I actually know the feeling. I felt like this only for a month or so.
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 09:55 Post subject: |
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Lived alone a year now, in a 1 room apartment and I cant say I hate it, once a week I gather a couple of friends and smoke some ganja while watching films and gaming on the Xbox. Also the parties man, you gotta make something of what you got, throw a party or two!
"Why don't you zip it, Zipfero?" - fraich3
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 10:03 Post subject: |
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It's great, living with someone else (anyone) means you have to compromise and don't have total freedom to do what you want.
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wawrzul
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 10:23 Post subject: |
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| inz wrote: | | It's great, living with someone else (anyone) means you have to compromise and don't have total freedom to do what you want. |
Well life is about making compromises, so i guess everyone is going to face it eventually and will have to get through it somehow.
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 10:39 Post subject: |
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Says who? And even if it were true, that's not all that life is about, so why introduce that element to the privacy of your home, as well?
Imo in all things one should strive for things to go the way they want, not settle for compromise if it can be avoided.
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 10:46 Post subject: |
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The worst thing you can do is base your happiness around someone, be it gf, friend etc
Especially your gf will lose all her respect for you if she feels that you're to needy.
Just be happy, try and find some interesting after work/school activites and live. Women are very much attracted to guys with a sense of purpose, guys who have a clear path of where they're going in life.
Its when you least want a relationship that you'll get women all over you.
Dont mess with God, he can impregnate your girlfriend/wife without taking his pants off!
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 12:36 Post subject: Re: Living alone |
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| wawrzul wrote: | | It's hard to find a good girl to live with. |
why do you have to live with her? if there's one route that leads to boredom in a relationship quicker, then it's moving in with the other person.
i would have a hard time living with someone else again. after 2 fucked up years of living together with my ex, i've started valuing the time i have for myself alot more. i need a place of my own to retreat to, otherwise i'm drained of energy. when i feel like hanging out with someone, i either go to them, or they come over, so that's not a problem either. i'm quite happy with this.
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 12:46 Post subject: |
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living alone is the best, you can bring in hookers, bitches & drink and do all the shit you want without someone annoying you, also nothing beats living naked.
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 12:55 Post subject: |
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| FireMaster wrote: | | also nothing beats living naked. |
CCIE
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wawrzul
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 13:41 Post subject: Re: Living alone |
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| lhzr wrote: | | wawrzul wrote: | | It's hard to find a good girl to live with. |
why do you have to live with her? if there's one route that leads to boredom in a relationship quicker, then it's moving in with the other person. |
Yes, that's absolutely true. It's even worse when you get married. It's easy to notice after a few relationships. It gets boring eventually. Also after moving in many issues which didn't show up earlier are being on the loose and a pain in the ass. Every previous relationship (except one) was bound to end because it became boring and predictable.
So you are right here.
| Quote: | | i would have a hard time living with someone else again. after 2 fucked up years of living together with my ex, i've started valuing the time i have for myself alot more. i need a place of my own to retreat to, otherwise i'm drained of energy. when i feel like hanging out with someone, i either go to them, or they come over, so that's not a problem either. i'm quite happy with this. |
I also lived with a girl for over a year (plus two months) and i feeling extremely good after she left. Actually, i was with another girl (now also ex) the same day.
I guess the period of time when you feel good is short for me. Maybe that's because i have a big amount of free time.
| spankie wrote: | living together is easier, because you split the work in 2.
but you cant do what you want.
pros and cons...  |
Well, that's a petty pro of living together (splitting the work), but true 
Being able to do whatever you want is cool, especially not wearing clothes  That's actually pretty fucking rad 
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 14:22 Post subject: |
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I live alone...well, kinda. My girl is usually here (as in stays over) 5 or 6 days a week. It's great. She cleans and all that, cooks etc
Not that I expect her to, I'd gladly do those things as I'm used to doing them (even when I was married I did most of the household chores) but it's nice to have a girl who does it and doesn't mind doing it. I help her clean obviously, but she likes to cook and hates it when I get involved so its perfect.
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 14:39 Post subject: |
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Haha syco, you and me both brother, we got it made
My girl is a great cook, gets really pissy if i try to help out, insists that i sit down with a movie while she cooks me a meal.
Why do people assume 'you cant do what you want, when you want.'
I dont get it, Ive been with my girl here for around 4 months already and not once has she complained when I play games or music or do anything I wanted. She sleeps while I have music on, it relaxes her to watch me working on the comp with my music on in the background she falls asleep on the bed behind me. Or if we watch a movie, she sometimes starts to playfully tempt me into sex, we miss the movie but who cares?
These are the benefits of living together, sex when you want it, food when you dont always have to make it, if you have the right partner who doesnt mind what you like to do and does it with you. She even likes to play some games too, so when starcraft 2 comes out I will have my 2v2 partner
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SycoShaman
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@gem and waw
yeah, Angela is great. Like Sundays (she rarely stays over on Sundays), she makes a traditional Canadian Sunday dinner (roast beef, mashed potatoes, gravey etc). I've tried to help her and she says "Just go watch a movie" or if it's football season "Just go watch the game honey". She'll bring me drinks and snacks and stuff and all that. And at first I felt bad, but she likes it. She likes the role of the traditional woman because during the week, she's a hardass business woman and has to be like the men she works with (cause she's high up in her company). So when it's me and her, she's so girly and understands that I like to play vgames sometimes and stuff and she doesn't mind (as long as I don't spend ALL DAY playing games).
I'll play for a while and then we cuddle up together and watch TV.
Like now, she's sitting here (can't see what I'm typing cuz she's sitting at the other end of the couch) watching Star Trek: DS9 (so am I, but Im on here as well and when Im done on here, Im gunna run a few games). But around 9pm, we will cuddle up and watch tv/spend time together and tonite, I think I'm gunna get her in the mood and get laid when we get in bed.
I know exactly how to push her buttons (in a way to turn her on).
All I have to do is shower, come out wet with a towel around my neck and she gets fuckin all hot and bothered and we have sex. Or, usually, she waits 5 mins while I'm showering, comes in and we make love in the shower...which is the best cause she lets me do things in the shower she wouldn't out of the shower
Angela is awesome. She loves Sci Fi, hot as hell, watches hockey and baseball with me (she doesn't like football), plays videogames on my consoles with me when she wants to play games etc
And it's not like she does it cuz we've been together for a short time and she wants to make me happy. She's always done those things...since we met and became friend's a year and a half ago so I know its her and not her just being nice and then she's going to change on me you know?
I really wanna tell her I love her but....I can't. Gotta wait least 6 months and shes cool with that because she knows my history. But she tells me she loves me all the time and has been in love with me shortly after we became friends. There's more to it but I don't want to bore you guys with the mushy details lol
And finally, a woman who likes to cook....my ex-wife NEVER cooked. And if she did, every dish included Vodka or Wine.....have you ever had chicken marinated in Vodka or Wine? Disgusting.
@waw
All women are crazy to an extent. It's a fact. All of em are. It's just to what extent they are crazy you know? Angela has her quarks but it's nothing serious. Like she gets pissed if I leave the toilet set up or something dumb like that. When we do fight, we scream at each other but then we sit down and talk it out like mature adults and everything is fine ya know?
I really think she may be the one.
And if we had kids....they'd be gorgeous. I'm a pretty good looking guy, Angela is fucking an 11 so our kids would be beautiful. And she wants kids.
And together, with the money I make and the money she makes, we'd be well of. I just found out she makes more than me and right now, I make 35/h but in 2 months, I'm back to 51.75/h
She runs a division in a marketing firm and, well, don't want to say her salary over the net, but she makes a good deal more than me. Which is nice considering my ex-wife made fuckin 13.55/h I think. So I had to pay ALL the bills.
If me and Angela move in together (it looks like we are), fuck.....we are gunna be set. Not millionaires, but well off...really well off.
So we could afford a baby and we wouldnt have to dump the kid at a babysitter's, we could afford to hire a nanny to come here and look after our child while we're at work.
In 6 months, when I tell her I love her, I'm gunna ask her to move in (she basically already lives here...she has a closet and a dresser full of clothes in the bedroom already).
Finally, things seem to be looking up and for once, I'm not worried she's going to change on me. Cause she's the same as she was when we were best friend's, just we have sex and are intimate and are in a romantic relationship.
If things go well, not this summer, but next summer, I'm gunna marry her (ask her spring 2010).
Then get busy making a baby
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| Mortibus wrote: | lived 3 years alone when was young after a break up, felt like it sucked a lot, now i just dream about it, dream about having decent sleep, beeing totally relaxed and free.
oh well anyone can dream 
human nature, u can't really miss something unless u lose something.. |
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wawrzul
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Feb 2009 08:34 Post subject: |
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| SycoShaman wrote: | @gem and waw
yeah, Angela is great. Like Sundays (she rarely stays over on Sundays), she makes a traditional Canadian Sunday dinner (roast beef, mashed potatoes, gravey etc). I've tried to help her and she says "Just go watch a movie" or if it's football season "Just go watch the game honey". She'll bring me drinks and snacks and stuff and all that. And at first I felt bad, but she likes it. She likes the role of the traditional woman because during the week, she's a hardass business woman and has to be like the men she works with (cause she's high up in her company). So when it's me and her, she's so girly and understands that I like to play vgames sometimes and stuff and she doesn't mind (as long as I don't spend ALL DAY playing games).
I'll play for a while and then we cuddle up together and watch TV.
Like now, she's sitting here (can't see what I'm typing cuz she's sitting at the other end of the couch) watching Star Trek: DS9 (so am I, but Im on here as well and when Im done on here, Im gunna run a few games). But around 9pm, we will cuddle up and watch tv/spend time together and tonite, I think I'm gunna get her in the mood and get laid when we get in bed.
I know exactly how to push her buttons (in a way to turn her on).
All I have to do is shower, come out wet with a towel around my neck and she gets fuckin all hot and bothered and we have sex. Or, usually, she waits 5 mins while I'm showering, comes in and we make love in the shower...which is the best cause she lets me do things in the shower she wouldn't out of the shower
Angela is awesome. She loves Sci Fi, hot as hell, watches hockey and baseball with me (she doesn't like football), plays videogames on my consoles with me when she wants to play games etc
And it's not like she does it cuz we've been together for a short time and she wants to make me happy. She's always done those things...since we met and became friend's a year and a half ago so I know its her and not her just being nice and then she's going to change on me you know?
I really wanna tell her I love her but....I can't. Gotta wait least 6 months and shes cool with that because she knows my history. But she tells me she loves me all the time and has been in love with me shortly after we became friends. There's more to it but I don't want to bore you guys with the mushy details lol
And finally, a woman who likes to cook....my ex-wife NEVER cooked. And if she did, every dish included Vodka or Wine.....have you ever had chicken marinated in Vodka or Wine? Disgusting.
@waw
All women are crazy to an extent. It's a fact. All of em are. It's just to what extent they are crazy you know? Angela has her quarks but it's nothing serious. Like she gets pissed if I leave the toilet set up or something dumb like that. When we do fight, we scream at each other but then we sit down and talk it out like mature adults and everything is fine ya know?
I really think she may be the one.
And if we had kids....they'd be gorgeous. I'm a pretty good looking guy, Angela is fucking an 11 so our kids would be beautiful. And she wants kids.
And together, with the money I make and the money she makes, we'd be well of. I just found out she makes more than me and right now, I make 35/h but in 2 months, I'm back to 51.75/h
She runs a division in a marketing firm and, well, don't want to say her salary over the net, but she makes a good deal more than me. Which is nice considering my ex-wife made fuckin 13.55/h I think. So I had to pay ALL the bills.
If me and Angela move in together (it looks like we are), fuck.....we are gunna be set. Not millionaires, but well off...really well off.
So we could afford a baby and we wouldnt have to dump the kid at a babysitter's, we could afford to hire a nanny to come here and look after our child while we're at work.
In 6 months, when I tell her I love her, I'm gunna ask her to move in (she basically already lives here...she has a closet and a dresser full of clothes in the bedroom already).
Finally, things seem to be looking up and for once, I'm not worried she's going to change on me. Cause she's the same as she was when we were best friend's, just we have sex and are intimate and are in a romantic relationship.
If things go well, not this summer, but next summer, I'm gunna marry her (ask her spring 2010).
Then get busy making a baby
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Wow, man! I fucking envy you! Sounds like a great woman and you sound like a guy who cares about her so hurray for both of you.
Looks like you hit the jackpot! Congrats
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Feb 2009 12:44 Post subject: |
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At the moment my living situation is a huge clusterfuck, i love the woman, we're not together, wish we were i love her that much, the house is mine, can't kick her out, i'm not that kind of guy, just one big clusterfuck.
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| Posted: Fri, 13th Feb 2009 13:03 Post subject: |
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If she brought someone over, that would probably spur me into kicking her out, yes, but she's not that type of girl, i'm just in an anti-relationship barrier i reckon, again "clusterfuck"
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