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lhzr
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I think you get impressed too easily by girls, has happened to me a lot of times in the past. Well, and in all guys I bet. Are you younger than 20 ?
That larp sex crap gives me the creeps, man. I find it weird, in any case, you're better off without that problematic cumbucket. Go after a normal girl.
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 15:56 Post subject: |
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| VGAdeadcafe wrote: | I think you get impressed too easily by girls, has happened to me a lot of times in the past. Well, and in all guys I bet. Are you younger than 20 ?
That larp sex crap gives me the creeps, man. I find it weird, in any case, you're better off without that problematic cumbucket. Go after a normal girl. |
Nahhh....Actualy I am very rarely bothered by the thought of beeing in a relationship, or generaly interested in a women - this is generaly becouse of the fact I find people too boring to even communicate with them if I don't need something or there isn't any...gain(by gain I mean mostly personal intelectual enrichment).
So if I decide to initiate any form of comunication with another person( in general not only women) this means I found them interesting enough to invest my time in this. If I decided I want to be in a relationship with a certain female then it means there was at least one quality I found to be absolutly unique and want to be close enough so I could get to know(in this case the combination of so many different social interest and still such a strong mature misantropy in general)...Thats why I've been only interested in 3 girls in my life...It is exactly that specific way they "tick" in difference of others that capivates me-people that others concider too problematic or different to integrate in their view on reality .It is the unique way that someone's mind works that always interests me and combined with the fact thay my views of relationships is formed on the model set by Dostovesky's works - a quick explanation would be - "only a broken person could see and feel for another broken person".Even though I don't concider myself broken in that "emo" way and am quite satisfied with my life I always thought that I have some understanding of what exactly is human nature and inspires most of our individual and social actions and knowing and seeing it clearly is a sort of a "defect"(that I am quite happy for) in the way I view the world(thusly the "broken" part)....
Well I've been attracted to other girls too but that was simply a reaction on a primitive genetico-biological level to their genetic make up(let that be read "so dead drop naturaly gorgeous that the pheromone signal they spread in the enviroment can drive you insane")....
As for how old I am I hit my 20 last year in october...
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"Normal girl" - you know I feel tempted to argue on the matter that there is no "normality" , but only a socialy accepted state of mediocrity and passivism..And if there actualy is my answer would be - "nahh those are boring"(normal girls)
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lhzr
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| Posted: Thu, 12th Feb 2009 16:23 Post subject: |
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| lhzr wrote: | | Razkolnikov wrote: | | "Normal girl" - you know I feel tempted to argue on the matter that there is no "normality" , but only a socialy accepted state of mediocrity and passivism..And if there actualy is my answer would be - "nahh those are boring"(normal girls) |
there are a lot of smart and interesting "normal" girls. they don't have to be fucked up in a way or another to be interesting.
i get what you're saying, most people are boring, and i agree with that, but that doesn't mean that someone has to have some problems to be interesting, eh? it just means that you should look for interesting people, not for fucked up people  |
You know this brings an interesting topic - there is this little moment that it is our life's expiriance from the moment that we gain a memory that build our individual personalities.
So if a certain individual has developed destinguished character features that means that a certain aspect in his life expiriance led to their development.The stronger the influence - the more strong and present that individuals' mental profile becomes.It is a fact that negative expiriances generaly leave a stronger mark in our memory then pleasent once , becouse our brain conciders the memory of them an important mark so we don't let them repeat. In difference of positive expiriance they show some sort of a problem that is getting in the way of your organisms normal function, and lead to the development of specific instruments(be them mental or physical) so that you can handle them.
Basicly each and every individual is created by the setpieces of his own expiriances and is a form of a...deviation form "normality" - true normality would be a group of humans that grew in a controled inviroment in an exactly equal life path(which is imposible even on theory becouse of some factors), free and unknowing of any harmfull factors.
So every person is actualy a product of what he wanted,lacked or feared in his past till now...
What I am trying to say is the more destinguished the individual - the more "unique" his lifepath was - usualy in the negative way.So the fact I am interested in people I concider have strong individualities generaly means I have to put up with the fact of how sometimes uncomftably shattered their lifes usualy are....
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SycoShaman
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| wawrzul wrote: | | SycoShaman wrote: | Am I the only one thats happened to? Come on married guys, I'm sure its happened once at least.
Still, Ive woken up to punches and shit.
When my ex was on her rag, it was like 9pm on a weekday right. And I've never met a woman in my who's more hormonal and a bitch on her rag. Anyhow, we went to bed and I guess in my sleep I rolled over and put my arm around her chest and hugged her. Next thing I know I wake up to screaming (like bloody murder screaming) and she's hitting me. Im like "WTF are you doing?!"
And she's like "I have cramps and you put your fuckin arm on me!". I said "First off, I was sleeping and we always sleep holding each other and I just had arm across your chest, not your your lower abdomen".
And she says " Well it still hurts my cramps, now they are twice as bad" and started balling. I didn't care honestly cuz before her I was with plenty of women who, during out relationship, had their rag and they didnt care where I hugged them as long as I didn't squeeze their lower abdomen.
So I let her cry cuz i did nothing wrong and at that point, Im not apologizing for something I didn't do. She obviously had a cramp during her sleep and woke up, felt my arm and blamed it on me.
So she cried for an hour and then she turns to me and says "Are you going to apologize and hug me?" I said "I will hug you, kiss you, try and make you feel better but Im not apologizing for something I didn't do and i'm not on of those guys who will whipped"
We didn't talk for a good 5 days.....
I swear....I don't know why I stayed with her as long as I did....maybe it was because of certain things she'd do. Like I'd come home from work, be in a really bad mood, take a shower and I'd come out wearing a tower around my neck and she'd walk infront of me, smile, drop to her knee's and give me great head.
She could be really nice (not just with sex) but in other ways. But her twisted mind was too much and out weighed the good.
Best decision of my life was divorcing her and I've been happy every since. The only thing that would...well, complete me, would be finding a woman who truly loves. Then my life would be complete.
But right now, this moment, I'm happy. and thats what life is about...being happy |
Well that kinda reminds me my last ex-gf. We fought every fucking day and 99% of those situations started because she claimed i did something wrong. She often was right, but those were really SILLY LITTLE things like not saying she looks pretty when we met and went to my place or shit like that. I can say so every few days but EVERY fucking day? Anyway, there were many many situations like this, she would cry for hours (in the night) and yell at me or beat me with fists (of course she was weak, so it rather made me laugh). "Why are you doing this?", "what's wrong with you", "you've got no feelings" etc. Those were words used by her many times. At first i was like hugging her, kissing, saying i'm sorry etc. but later on it became a fucking drag cause she was exagerating every of my words that she did not like. She was an attention whore plus she felt every feeling 100 times stronger than most people.
And at the good side - she was extremely intelligent (which was also a downside), helpful (when we were living together), pretty, sexy...
I actually learned something about sex from her cause she was that kind of a girl that says what she wants straight. That has its upsides (obvious) and downsides (every man likes to be in control, and with her sometimes it felt i dont have total control). Plus she was the least prudent woman i ever slept with so the sex was fucking awesome.
Anyway, her behaviour originated from childhood trauma. She needed much more love that i could give to here so we split but it didnt go smooth. First she wouldn't stop calling me, ringing my door (even though i said i dont want her to come) and behaving like she was obsessed. One day she even cut herself (her wrist) almost at my doorstep but i patched her up and we spent a warm night together. We tried again and failed. I realised pity was the reason of us getting together. So it went on for a couple of days, she said she'll be visiting a psychologist but i didnt really think i could ever love her. So it ended.
Anyway, she was one crazy bitch (my neighbours could confirm that from the noise), bitching, complaining etc. Although i didn't ever woken up being hit with a spoon  More likely we were having wild sex in the morning (about 5-6 am, the neighbours fucking hated me  ) but later on we would fight each other all day along (until next romantic and/or sex scene :/ ).
EDIT : Oh and my second gf, couple of years ago, also complained that she dreamt of me cheating on her, but she didn't ever hit me in the sleep even with a spoon |
Dude, if my ex didn't think I lived in Europe (only way I could get her to stop calling my house, my friends, my parents etc), I'd say lets get them together and they'd both realize they have issues that stem from childhood that causes problems in every relationship they are in. I don't know what your ex is like, but mine....she goes from guy to guy, moves in with them, is great for 6 months or so then she changes into herself....she expects you to do everything. She doesn't help clean, cook, go grocery shopping etc and she expects you to wait on her hand and foot.
Like say we were sitting on the couch watching tv and I felt like getting a drink or something to eat. I'd get up, ask her if she wants anything, she's say no. So I'd go get a drink, make a sandwich or something, come back and sit down and just as I'm about to start eating she'd be like "Honey...can you get me a drink and make me a sandwich"....I used to do it. But eventually I said "I was just up and I asked you if you wanted something, you said no and now you wait till I sit down, get comfortable and then ask? Go get your own food"....then she'd run off to the bedroom and lay facing the wall. I'd go in and say "What's wrong?". She'd be like "you don't love me, you won't even get me something to eat" blah blah blah.
At first, I'd comfort her, make her feel better and end up doing what she wanted me to do....until I realized that was her tactic and then I stopped. She once laid in bed facing the wall whimpering for DAYS. And fuck, I didn't care cause she was an attention whore....but when you showed her attention, affection and love...she'd push me away and say "I don't like so much attention and affection, its not how I was raised"....dude, everyone in my family and all my friend's that knew her agree 100% she was fuckin off her rocker man.
My ex dreamed to I died. But instead of her waking me up, crying and then hugging me....she took it as I'm going to leave her and all that and again, we didn't speak for a few days.
My ex was certifiable nuts. She did something to me one time that I don't want to share but if I did tell, you'd be shocked and you'd TOTALLY agree with me...I only told it to one person, Max (the mod) when he was here and he couldn't believe it.
Suffice to say, she almost killed me. If it wasn't for the fact the hospital is 15 mins away, I'd be dead.
Like her mom, every xmas I spent at her moms, would down a 40ouncer of whiskey between 7am-7:30am. But yet my ex said her mom wasn't a drunk. Every time (before me and her mom stopped speaking and I banned her from my house) I saw her mom, even at work (my ex works with her mom) she was drunk. She has bottles in her desk drawer and spikes her coffee's. By lunch, she was shit faced.
But my ex insisted "She's not a drunk!".
She was 30 something when we first got married and in the first few years and had dentures. No real teeth. Dude, COKE/CRACK/METH for sure. But of course, according to my ex, she never did drugs in the life 
If she never did drugs, then I'm Chinese u know?
I'm sorry, if you can drink a 40ouncer in half and hour and not throw up, you have problem u know?
And I know because on my dad's side of the family, we have plenty of drunks and it takes alot to make an alcoholic to throw up cause they are so used to the booze.
If I drank a 40ouncer of anything (vodka, whiskey, gin etc) in half an hour, I'd a) be SMASHED b) throw my guts up dude.
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wawrzul
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Sat, 14th Feb 2009 10:52 Post subject: |
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Damn, that does suck dude. Women are crazy. lol
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SycoShaman
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| Posted: Mon, 2nd Mar 2009 14:41 Post subject: |
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ive woken up before with a dirty bitch sat on my face, was fucked up, didnt know wtf was going on, the worst thing was, she was on the rags!!! lmao, thats what u get when u take randoms home after a crazy night out on the gear!! put it this way, i was sick for a while!!
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